Thank you so much for sharing your heart, Donna. Keep up the good work as you document your growth in Christ. So many people need to hear your authenticity. I’m a writer. I’ve done some videos for business, but not for this topic, yet. But the video medium is absolutely essential to reach the next generation with the truth of what Stanton is all about.
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While masturbation is definitely a sin, Stanton's approach makes the cure worse than the disease. By telling kids they'll lose their mind, the kids will never confide, and if they don't confide in adults, it's very hard to overcome alone. It is a very dangerous sin, but harsh and severe punishment is rarely effective to drive it out. I'm pretty sure every young boy ever raised in Stanton dealt with masturbation at one time or another. I'd be shocked to learn any boys existed who never masturbated once. It should not be common, and it wasn't 100 years ago, but our society has shifted, and not in a good way. The Kinsey report was released in 1948, and this released a Pandora's box of sexual evils on our nation, which most haven't even begun to acknowledge as wrong, which is necessary as acknowledging a problem is halfway towards solving it, never mind beginning to work to solve it. A great book on the topic is 'Sexual Sabotage' by Judith Reisman. The teachers in Stanton have a nasty habit of throwing 2,000 years of people trying to follow the Bible out the window, and saying their interpretation of the Bible is completely accurate and the only version that matters. They seriously will use the scripture in Peter where it says the Bible is not for private interpretation, as proof that they alone are the ones who should be able to judge it, no one else can. They don't tell non members that, but when they get baptized and have a different opinion on a scripture, they find out really quickly that having a different opinion from the teacher on what a scripture means is not a recommended practice in Stanton, not if you value your longevity in the church, that is.
And that is very well said about being a teacher to help others. Rarely do they ever reach out. Numerous times in Bible class I would hear 'Prayers for the spiritually weak'. If that isn't the most arrogant prayer I've ever heard, I don't know what is. First of all, if you were weak, you felt horrible. Second, you wondered who was spiritually weak, and if it was you. Third, you wondered how to get out of this 'spiritual weakness'. Fourth, I don't know anyone who became spiritually strong by having someone publicly pray for their spiritual weakness. Fifth, Jesus commanded Christians to serve, not constantly harp on the weaknesses of others. The same teachers who constantly taught on sin, would rarely, if ever, have an honest conversation with people in their congregation. Oh they could rebuke, but when it came to having a conversation, they were never around. When it came time to have a heart to heart, to open up, and confide, and know they would listen and help you, that was a lot rarer. There were a few that did it for a few years. But, apparently many in the church think to be feared is better than to be loved. I'm trying to find in my Bible where Jesus commanded this attitude from a leader. Remember the part where he told Peter, "Instill fear in my sheep" 3 times? Yeah, me neither. He told Peter to 'Feed my sheep'. And if you judged the effectiveness of spiritual feeding in Stanton, people spiritually were looking like they had just emerged from Death Valley, after they lived on a single pork chop and water for a week.
Though I was no teacher, I took some pretty harsh measures myself at times, simply thinking it was what my teachers would do. Once, a dear friend from childhood asked me for a ride to a funeral of a dear friend of ours that had passed away from a drug overdose in Stanton. I wanted to, but remembered the preacher had said we don't have anything to do with him, as he is a troublemaker. So, I declined, after a painstaking battle in my conscience. I wanted to give my friend a ride, but I didn't want to offend my teacher and be thought carnal. To this day, my friend reminds me of that. Another time, I was told to ask my own sister not to come to a church wedding. I was very close to my sister before that, and had helped her out a lot, as she was struggling. In this instance, it was said she was not supposed to come around because of her dress. Never mind there were plenty of other young women coming around the wedding whose dress wasn't quite modest. I reluctantly passed the message along to my sister, and was promptly the recipient of an F-bomb for the first time in my life from a sibling. Felt terrible. My sisters relationship with me and my family went downhill quick from there, and she ended up with a man who embraced her, however questionable certain choices were. In retrospect, if she had never been told not to come around the wedding, a lot of pain and suffering could have been averted. She was a very sweet and loving person at one time, and she morphed into a harsh, cruel, and profane person afterward.
While discipline is necessary, children should be raised with nurture and admonition.
To "Another Country…" Why on earth would you choose to judge/condemn Donna when she has a contrite heart, confessed her sins and has fully repented? Do you think you are greater than God in casting judgment against a child of God who has already been forgiven by Him? If you don't forgive neither shall your sins be forgiven you. (Matthew 6:15) – be warned, Jesus said that.
You were encouraged, like many of us, to use a rod of pride when teaching others. Take the rod of anger, or the rod of mercilessness, and beat the sin out of others, even when you are guilty of the same thing yourself. Telling a pregnant woman to go against medical advice and "push the flesh" and climb stairs and endanger the unborn child was merciless. It is the sign of a predatory leader to make unreasonable demands upon others and then guilt trip them when they fail. You have a physical handicap like a bad back? You need to push the flesh, again merciless. Your estranged wife and children are in another congregation and in need of financial support just let her fend for herdelf while you stay here and be my footstool, again merciless. Predatory leaders live the good life of ease on while their followers suffer unbelievable hardships.
Donna was one of the worst of the unjust judges.
That is a huge problem with the church. They make your "pushing the flesh" have more power than Matt. 25:31-46. We had an elderly woman who was having trouble making it and heard that she eventually quit coming because of the "pushing the flesh" tactics. In another congregation a man had broken his leg and they were doing the same to him about "pushing" himself.
They have taken they power away from Matt 25 and "bearing one another's burdens" by removing themselves from the responsibility of practicing those scriptures to putting it on to those who need the help.
This type of teaching was upheld by GP and TC as I brought it to their attention and it was put back on me. They have taken away the responsibility of the members to reach out to those who are in need. This is no difference than what the Pharisees were doing in teaching how to be soft, yet cruel, in the teachings.
They are making "pushing the flesh" more of a sin than the fact that they are NOT exercising the scriptures they are supposed to.
Another thing they like to do is make new laws that they consider sin. I.e., It was said in a round about way in a sermon that not letting any other member just show up at your house without notice is a sin. It was a sermon about "men of God" and was said that anybody who doesn't let people do that to them is NOT a man of God. So, in order to not be a man of must mean that I must be in sin. Well, in order for there to be sin there must be a law broken. In a way, they must be considering that I was in sin for breaking the law of not letting people show up without prior notice. Just for clarification, I was on some really heavy pain meds and with the pain a lot of time I didn't want to deal with anybody, but that didn't matter to them. I was in sin, because they made a law. This was addressed to TC in front of the preacher who did it and nothing was said about it and the preacher was still preaching.
Another Country Heard from: were you in a congregation I was in? Or did you get that opinion from someone else.? I will admit I was unjust, but to say I was the worst- not so sure. I’m not going to defend myself, but I really didn’t have much to do with people outside of our local congregations, like counselors did.
Donna B. I never heard any judgements that came from you at all. Did you ever have a voice at May meetings? You admitted and confessed your sins. Many many leaders in Merie’s cult need to acknowledge their wrongs. Hmm did Merie confess her sins and all the lives and families she negatively affected by her off judgements?
I just came across this blog and find it very interesting. I have been out going on 23 yrs. and wished there would have been such a venue to tap into. I agree with Donna,and admire her honesty and self assessment. I will say she was not one of the worst.
It is called manipulation through guilt.
Concerned outsider. You are exactly correct. When I preached the main preacher MM was visiting Boise. He called me on a Saturday night as I was completing my lesson to not ask but tell me to rebuke one publicly for a sin they were considering to commit. I disagreed thinking since he new all the facts he should do it when he returned back to Portland. That’s when he began to use manipulation to get me to do something that even went against my own conscience. He wanted me to do so in a manner that was harsh and unmerciful. I fell to his manipulation and did the rebuke as he said to look the one in the eyes so they knew I was talking about them. Afterwards I confronted the one and apologized. Told them it came from MM and not me. I was just his mouthpiece. This is how leadership operates within the cult. I regret as Donna ever having apart with them.
I will never fathom the reason of the rush to judgement to rebuke another child of God. It goes through my head that whatever we do to each other is done to a child of God.
This is David's response when his men said to kill the sleeping Saul –
1 Samuel 24:6 And he said unto his men, The Lord forbid that I should do this thing unto my master, the Lord's anointed, to stretch forth mine hand against him, seeing he is the anointed of the Lord.
The best thing they could have done with that sister was to pray for her at class and see if they could come to see her the next day and share what the class was about, but that takes work and effort.
I surprised and older brother, who has been in the church since around 1980, with a phone call when he missed a mid week class and I shared with him what the class was about and told him where we marked for next week. That should have been standard through the congregation.
Hey Donna, I am trying to find an application for proverbs 26:2 As the bird by wandering, as the swallow by flying, so the curse causeless shall not come. I observed that curses start out slowly, step by step, then as they gain momentum they take flight like a bird and come much more quickly and cover ground at a fast rate, kind of like a little leaven leavens the whole lump allow something in one area of life and it quickly spreads to every area of life like birds spread to every area of the world. I was trying to apply this proverb in a positive way like how to curse my sin, slowly at first but as I start seeing results my desires for purity takes flight against the ground of my carnal heart. How do you apply this proverb in your battles against carnal desires and the sin it brings?
AnonymousFebruary 16, 2019 at 11:59 AM
I'm sure Donna has a good answer, but before she responds, Matthew Henry had a good commentary on it, and his commentary, since it was written over 400 years ago, is a lot better than most of those today, where people are influenced by television, drugs, and porn. They rarely realize how their intellect is perverted, and many of the leaders in Stanton believe they are God's anointed on earth, out of 7.5 billion humans. A very pleasing and flattering thought, particularly to the ego, but pride goes before the fall.
Henry's commentary on Proverbs 26:2 is as follows:
Verse 2 Here is, 1. The folly of passion. It makes men scatter causeless curses, wishing ill to others upon presumption that they are bad and have done ill, when either they mistake the person or misunderstand the fact, or they call evil good and good evil. Give honour to a fool, and he thunders out his anathemas against all that he is disgusted with, right or wrong. Great men, when wicked, think they have a privilege to keep those about them in awe, by cursing them, and swearing at them, which yet is an expression of the most impotent malice and shows their weakness as much as their wickedness. The safety of innocency. He that is cursed without cause, whether by furious imprecations or solemn anathemas, the curse shall do him no more harm than the bird that flies over his head, than Goliath’s curses did to David, 1 Sa. 17:43 . It will fly away like the sparrow or the wild dove, which go nobody knows where, till they return to their proper place, as the curse will at length return upon the head of him that uttered it.
However, Donna does not appear to be spreading any false information about Stanton, and so it's hard to see how this applies to her.
Stanton is notorious at assiduously noting the curses that come to those who don't agree with them, while ignoring the curses that come upon them, like the curse of a lack of growth that has lasted decades. And, Stanton is notorious for spreading false information about people, and refusing to consider they are wrong. That said, plenty of people have returned the favor to Stanton. One person on here speculated Gary Preman has homosexual inclinations, which is completely unsupported by facts. But, credible witnesses assured me (2 from 2 different churches) that I had been falsely accused of spreading homosexuality and saying there was nothing wrong with it. So, Stanton reaps what they sow, though anyone who spreads false information about anyone is going to be sorry for it, as God takes bearing false witness seriously.
Interesting let me ask a follow up question proverbs 10:9 says that he that perverteth his ways shall be known and androgynous behaviors is one way that a perversion is manifested. Having both male and female traits in the same person is androgynous like men having long hair like a woman, or women having shaved head like a man; therefore the Christians in Corinth being androgynous in appearance were they manifesting a perversion?
AnonymousFebruary 18, 2019 at 10:07 PM
Androgynous is no where in the Bible, and God condemns sin, not the mannerisms and idiosyncrasies humans manifest. This is a huge problem in Stanton and in psychiatry. Both try to diagnose problems where none exist according to God's word. Stanton constantly will say people have lost their mind, and has been proven wrong time and again. They are also huge on pointing out effeminate mannerisms, and saying this is a result of uncleanness. Well, every man in there has been unclean, with few exceptions, so why don't they all have effeminate mannerisms? Of course, God's consequences are from him alone, and he said he forgives all sins if we confess and repent. But, man is unwilling to forgive, and feels he has to hold consequences against others, while he feels his own consequences should be ignored.
As humans, we are responsible for our choices, not mannerisms we unconsciously develop. Hollyweird is really good at taking corrupt people and giving them mannerisms that imitate the virtuous. But, God looks not on the outward appearance, but on the heart. When the Bible attacks effeminacy, it is attacking homosexuality, and men taking on female roles. Stanton also doesn't understand being sensitive. Jesus wept, but have you ever seen GP or TC weep? I sure haven't. There are many other men in there who haven't wept a public tear in their life. When did Jesus weep? At the death and suffering of others. And there is plenty of occasion for this in Stanton. Yet, the male leaders of Stanton will attack other men, who do weep at the afflictions of others as effeminate, and 'androgynous' as the commenter above homes in on.
Further, perhaps the commenter could specify what behaviors he is talking about. Exactly what are male and female traits? The male and female brain and body are definitely different and aren't the same at all, however, there are men who have high pitched voices, and women with deep voices, and it's not because of any sin. There are men who are slim, and not muscular, and it's not because of a sin. There are men who have defects such as limps, lazy eyes, birth marks, baldness, club foot and others, and it's not because of any sin.
Elisha was mocked for his bald head, and that didn't end up too well for the children who did it.
Christians are to judge fruits, not to read into societal definitions of gender roles in a society that is off the rails.
AnonymousFebruary 18, 2019 at 10:07 PM
An interesting query, and where it's motivations come from would be nice to know.
Exhibiting male and female characteristics when one is the opposite sex is a very subjective issue. Does everyone who sins automatically display characteristics of the opposite sex? No, they don't. This passage you ask about is talking about sin will not be hidden, it will be revealed. How you thought about androgyny is the first I've ever heard that scripture applied that way in my entire life, and I've never heard of any Christian in world history, including Kellogg who was very big on condemning sex outside of marriage, ever think that sins, of any nature, lead to a perversion of masculine or feminine genders, with the exception of homosexuality, which it doesn't sound like you are talking about. However, you were probably responding, subtly, to the comment I made above, about my being slandered as spreading homosexuality, which is a total lie. It seems we have no shortage of snakes who constantly deviously spread disinformation. Nothing new. Envy and malice were very well portrayed in Othello by Shakespeare. I'd recommend you add that to your reading list. You could profit immensely from it. Matter of fact, if Stanton spent a solid month on Bible classes on reading, studying, and dissecting Othello, it would do Stanton a world of good.
Thank you Donna for your insight. Let me ask you about the rule of three. In symbology 3 is equated with truth. If something happens once it is dismissed as an accident, if it happens twice it is dismissed as a coincidence, but if something happens three times it is a certainty, a truth. In Matthew 26:36 it mentions Christ prayed the same prayer three times, this shows not vain repetitious prayer but sincere desire on the part of Christ, in Acts 11:10 Peter recounts the vision he had recieved three times about allowing the gentiles into Christianity, three times shows it was true, and Paul the apostle mentions in 2 Corinthians 12:8 that he had besought God three times to be healed again this shows a true earnest desire. There are many more example from scriptures but what is your opinion on the rule of three is 3 symbolic of truth?
Hullo again Arizona, I thought that was you. You go away for awhile, and then show up as anonymous, pick a random, out of the way verse in the Bible, put a psychiatric spin on it that no one in credible church history has heard of, and come back again, like Simon the Sorcerer, and oh, you are even discussing mystic symbolism, of the number 3, on your latest comment, which is associated with astrology and witchcraft. Christ said not to bother about signs and symbols, but according to you, it's of utmost importance. I'll go with Christ on that one. If it is you, Arizona, you have a nasty habit of making stuff up about people, and you've never apologized for your numerous falsehoods that you've told on here. Instead, you pop up to guide the gullible and naïve off a cliff.
Here is a question for you, Arizona, if indeed that is you. What does Christ and the Old Law say about bearing false witness?
You have a negative perspective on life Mr. Ryan.
Bearing false witness is pretty negative, Arizona. Not too many positives about it.
Everybody suffers in this life, some take a negative perspective and some take a positive perspective about their suffering. Some build monuments or tabernacles to their suffering to worship themselves as an idols, such as a narcissist.
'No one can give you peace, but yourself' Ralph Waldo Emerson
'When I do good, I feel good, and when I do bad, I feel bad, that is my religion'
Abraham Lincoln
"[T]here is no truth more thoroughly established, than that there exists . . . an indissoluble union between virtue and happiness."
George Washington
"The diminution of public virtue is usually attended with that of public happiness, and the public liberty will not long survive the total extinction of morals."
Samuel Adams
There is no greater threat to individual happiness than individual sins.
We have met the enemy, and the enemy is us.
Anon 7:32 I really appreciate people who want to hold an intelligent conversation, being honest and straightforward about their questions. I would rather not play word games on this blog. If you would like to speak with me you can get my phone number from Kevin.
Not word games Donna. You have a single source of knowledge and wisdom, namely the Bible verses others who are eclectic and use any and every source of anykind for the knowledge they reason from including fairy tales. Joseph Smith the founder of the mormon religion was an eclectic writing his book of mormon from sources such as captian hook, the KJV of the bible and his own imagination. Single mindedness is a wisdom which you posses and others lack. Your position on the SCOC shows the same single mindedness 100 percent acceptance or 100 percent rejection unlike others who try and use the doctrine and judgements of the SCOC when it suits them and the in the next sentence turn and denounce the SCOC for rejecting them, a double minded man is unstable in all his ways. False witnesses speak lies, write false religious books, and found false religions. It is a shame that you have not shared more of your knowledge and understandings about God but I respect your decision.
Paul alternately praised and denounced the Pharisees based on their adherence to scripture, Sun Devil. I don't think you'll mind that term since your state has a college team named the Sun Devils, and you bear false witness frequently, like the Devil, and you are from a hot state.
Montesquieu, very true about men showing emotions seems to be a no no within the cult specifically if they are giving a lesson. I can speak for Portland how MM handled one SB who would give s passionate lesson sometimes crying. MM told me he would have to control his emotions if he was to preach again. This was two to three years ago. SB is still not preaching or giving talks.
Interesting, Craig. I noticed that for the longest. In remembering when I got a call about 2 months after my withdrawal from TC, and, overwhelmed with emotion at how I'd been cut off from my family and the church, yours truly started crying. Well, that apparently was too much for him. My withdrawal turned into an excommunication, and it's now going on 11 years later. Note to self, do not cry when describing your pain at being unjustly withdrawn from to the evangelist. It may appear to be effeminacy, which smacks of homosexuality to them. Instead, pretend like you are Spock, and an automaton, and that you absolutely are delighted with the oppression and can't get enough of it. Act as if you are experiencing raptures of ecstasy at the unjust withdrawal, and smile constantly, to show the church that the sheer joy of the injustice is overflowing your bountiful soul. Otherwise, I'm sure we have all heard the drums of doom from Stanton. You know, when they start whispering, 'So and so is not happy'. Once they've got it into their minds that you are not happy, that tells them their punishment is absolutely right. Kind of like the Salem Witch trials. They stuck a poor old woman in the middle of a deep river, and if she floated, that meant she was a witch, and if she didn't float and sank like an anchor and drowned, then that meant she was innocent. Well, the poor soul didn't have any opportunity to enjoy her innocent verdict, as she had already departed for Glory. Same with Stanton, they'll put an unscriptural withdrawal on you, and if you are actually human, and not a psychopath, and show human misery and sorrow at being rudely separated from your friends and loved ones, they interpret this as you are not happy, and a sinner, and that your punishment is just. To them, that's proof you are floating, and a definite witch. Never mind that they use solitary confinement in prison to punish people, and it's a torture technique used as psychological terrorism by communist dictators. In Stanton's book, if your withdrawal is wrong, then you ought to be singing happily and cheerily, and looking as if you just learned you won the lottery. You ought to be full of bliss and laughter, and should exhibit no downheartedness at all. Yes, indeed, it makes perfect sense, wouldn't you agree Craig? Were you like me, and just jumping for joy at the rebukings and separation from your family for no logical reason at all, my friend? Weren't you just overflowing with gaiety and joie de vivre at being told 1,000 times how proud you were and how you needed to receive instruction? It seemed my 'receiving instruction' mechanism was a little broken. It possibly broke when I was told to 'put things on the shelf I didn't understand', and once, after another instance of putting it on the shelf, it simply collapsed from the weight of all the other things that had been stored up there.
But yes, we must be Stoic's and not show emotion, for as one evangelist put it, only our pillow should know about our tears. I'm sure Stanton has created quite a few soggy pillows. So, Hoorah for repressing our emotions. Jesus wept, and many other prophets grieved, but in Stanton, we are so righteous, we don't even do that.
Oh, and before I forget, let's consider the Stanton saying of 'So and so is not happy'. There are quite a few people who look on Sunday morning at Stanton's worship as if they are at Aunt Polly or Uncle Elmer's funeral.
How do you determine if someone is happy or not, and exactly what has that got to do with salvation? Was Elijah happy when Jezebel threatened his life? Sounded to me like he wanted to die, from what I gather. Does anyone imagine he looked particularly happy constantly at that time? But, Stanton would say, 'ah, he doesn't look happy'. They are masters at psychological manipulation. Some of the teachers, who aren't noted for looking particularly happy, will have many classes on 'Do we look happy'? Last I checked, the more people bother about how happy they are, the more unhappy they become. The secret to being happy was to focus on God and others, and not to be like Hollyweird and play like you're happy to the world, but you are inwardly miserable. What good does that do? Robin Williams did it, and did it help him out any? Not really. These same people in Stanton who are constantly philosophizing on who is happy or not, were constantly watching television and bothering about popular culture, but darned if they weren't the experts on who was happy in Stanton.
Personally, I look at pictures of men from centuries ago who actually did things in society, and they don't look particularly happy. Men like George Washington, Abraham Lincoln, Martin Luther, Einstein, Martin Luther King Jr., Campbell, Teddy Roosevelt, James Madison, John Adams, Ulysses Grant, Phil Sheridan, William Sherman, Dwight Eisenhower. The Doers aren't bothering about how people see them and what they think about them, they are busy doing things, and don't give two hoots what anyone but God thinks of them.
Today, hellivision and Hollyweird have fed us the lie that a person's appearance has anything to do with their goodness and the truth of what they say. They have cleverly insinuated, even into Stanton, that looking happy or acting in an attractive manner is what righteousness means.
History is full of people who accomplished some tremendous things that had some pretty unhappy moments. King David wrote many Psalms where he was desponding of life and miserable. Moses was unhappy at times. Jesus was known as the man of Sorrows. Christ said we'd be persecuted for his sake. We are told to rejoice constantly, but if even Christ desponded at the Cross, who is to say the best of us won't despond at times? Abe Lincoln had a nervous breakdown at 33. Winston Churchill had deep depressions. MLK Jr. had deep despondencies. It's not sane to expect a human to be constantly happy. Those who know the deepest valley's of despair, also often know the heights of joy. It is always darkest before the morning. It would be wise for Stanton to forsake it's happiness evaluator, and start turning to scriptures to evaluate other people, as human reasoning about others happiness or lack of was never an indicator of righteousness in the Bible. Facts don't care about feelings, and Stanton cares too little about facts, and too much about feelings.
I have heard Pastor Tim and even Pastor Chris show emotion during a sermon. Remember the pastors are real people and so
Something may touch their heart just as it does ours in a sermon.
When you as the preacher or teacher is just stoic delivering a sermon I am sorry but I would go to sleep. I like personally a personal story mixed in with the sermon. Heaven forbid you would ever hear someone say Amen during your sermons. Or Hallelujahs!
Montesquieu: To be fair TC's judgment was not based on your emotional exchange but rather on the fact withdraw did not keep you quiet when you visited their assembly. So now you are not permitted to enter their midst.
Concerned, that is partially true. He came less than a year after my withdrawal, and the only reason he gave why my withdrawal was correct was that I needed to be quiet and listen. That may work with a 10 year old, but not a grown man. God never expected any Christian to follow another simply because they say be quiet and listen. You'll never find that example set by any Godly leader in the entire Bible. They always gave reasons, and that is what Stanton and TC failed to do. They couldn't refute the statement I made, that was completely biblical, 'Sin when repented of, can be rapidly and completely healed', which I stated understanding that the time to repent varies. But they didn't care to understand what I said, they wanted me silenced, and fast. When TC visited, I'd been coming to all meetings for a year, without interrupting anything. Matter of fact, the first time I spoke out publicly against my withdrawal, was August 1st, 2012, when they excommunicated me, and I slammed my fist on my Bible and exclaimed, "I told you when I was withdrawn from in 2008". Interruption, MG saying "Montesquieu you need to be quiet". "I will not" says I, "I've been silent and listened to you for 4 years and now it's my turn to talk". "You were told,", continues I, "When I was withdrawn from that you wouldn't grow, until you changed your doctrine. You still haven't, and you haven't lifted my unscriptural withdrawal, and you still haven't grown". With that, I left. So TC's judgement was based on groupthink and a haphazard gathering of the facts, I am sorry to say, because it was based on listening to his talks in the South that a strong desire to get baptized in Stanton first came over me. To this day I enjoy listening to the talks of nearly everyone in Stanton, yet I mourn at their stubbornness, and the consequences they have to bear for being rebellious and bullheaded. They aren't hurting me. I make choices and have to bear the consequences. They are hurting themselves, and until they repent, they will never get results. Imagine the amount of pride you have to have to go decades without growth and to think you are the only 1,000 people on the face of this earth, out of 7 billion, that are going to heaven. It's a whole lot of pride. Simultaneously, they write off all 7 billion other humans on this earth who aren't members of their church. Jaw dropping arrogance.
Why did you stay out for 4 years? What was wrong with your withdraw?
Thank you for your concern and questions, Concerned. On September 21st, 2008, in the Sunday Evening Bible Class, I was formally withdrawn from at the end of it. I had been threatened multiple times in private that I would be withdrawn from if I didn't silence myself, and I simply was not going to be quiet. As mentioned before, there had been four issues brought to the issue of the Preacher. His response was to suspect some sort of coup was going on, and to try and silence me. That was not my intent at all. Further, another preacher had preached a lesson that said We have to bear the consequences of our sins for the rest of our lives, and having seen the church try to impose that on people, I questioned that statement afterwards, wondering what was Christ's death upon the cross, redemption, and salvation about then? Last I checked, Salvation and redemption mean freedom from sin and it's consequences. Well, the main preacher didn't agree with Webster's definition, he had a different definition, which said that sin did leave consequences that lasted a lifetime. 'Granted', said I, 'in the case of sins publicly committed against others. However, a sin committed against God alone is subject to his jurisdiction alone, and I'm not sure where man gets involved diagnosing punishments and consequences found nowhere in scripture'. Keep in mind this is Stanton, which was withdrawing from people for a defiled marriage bed, for uncleanness, and other unscriptural withdrawals for years, but still insists they are the only authorities on scriptures on earth.
So, I was withdrawn from for 'Sowing seeds of discord', and 'Walking disorderly'. Both were taken out of context. 'Sowing seeds of discord' isn't even in the New Testament, it's in the Old Testament, and we aren't under the Old Law. They said I was sowing seeds of discord because I questioned members of my church gossiping about me behind my back, saying I was effeminate. I was quite hurt when a friend of mine told me I had effeminate mannerisms, and I'd never heard this for the entire 28 years of my life. I didn't even know it was something I chose to do, and I certainly never was attracted to a man or acted in that fashion. I'm Italian, we talk with our hands, and having never video taped myself, as I'm no actor, I'm sure I have idiosyncrasies, but I didn't know idiosyncrasies were sins!!?? I also work in an office, not at construction sites. So, I'm not the most masculine man, but is that a sin? So, when I began questioning childhood friends if I was effeminate, and many said no, this was termed, 'Sowing seeds of discord'. Apparently, you are supposed to accept church gossip that you are effeminate, and not question it, even though effeminacy in the Bible is clearly aimed at homosexuality.
The other charge of 'Walking disorderly' was in Thessalonians, and clearly talks about sponging off others and being a busy body. Well, I didn't sponge off anyone, had given generously, and loaned out money as well. I owed no one anything. So, according to the Biblical definition, I was no disorderly walker. But, Stanton had a different definition. According to them, walking disorderly means disagreeing with your teachers. They said I disagreed disagreeably, as if you can disagree with teachers agreeably. But that's nonsense, as no one has ever disagreed with their teachers, agreeably or disagreeably, in Stanton and survived to talk about it.
So under these bogus charges, there was a dog and pony show, a Kangaroo Court of sorts, where I was railroaded. Informers were called on me, and anyone who had ever heard me say anything suspicious towards anyone was asked to speak about it in front of everyone. People who had never said anything negative to me in my life all of a sudden magically raised their hands. And they were in a rush to crucify me too. I had repeated Isaac Newton's words, "If I see farther, it is because I stand on the shoulders of giants", saying that it was the teachings of the church that helped me out. Well, that was dismissed as flattery by one teacher, and another jumped all over it and badly mistranslated the term, so badly that the preacher had to interrupt her and correct her on what it really meant. But as long as you disagreed with me, anything you said negative about me was quite alright, and Lord, if there wasn't plenty of people to volunteer details. Nothing people told about was a sin at all, and only one scripture was mentioned the whole evening. It was Gal 6:9, 'We reap what we sow". To which I responded it was true we did, but in 1 Cor 15, we are told sin leads to death but that Christ delivers us from that death. All of a sudden, after about 2 hours, the preacher said, "Is there any objections to withdrawing from Montesquieu"? Seeing no hands, and there never really has ever been hand to object to a withdrawal in the history of Stanton, it was official. Yours truly was withdrawn from. I was emotionally shell shocked, but resolved not to show it, and marched out stoically. Wasn't going to give them the satisfaction of seeing me cry. To have those who you love the most and who raised you, turn on you like Piranha's was a tad unnerving, that I can tell you. Being railroaded was never fun for anyone. Now, I could relate to the kangaroo courts I had read about in Communist Russia and other totalitarian regimes. I was determined to resist no matter what. So, I attended for the next 4 years, until a text message I sent to a teacher, merely strongly disagreeing with my withdrawal, was made public, and became grounds for my excommunication on August 1st, 2012. Apparently, it was a sin to disagree with an unscriptural withdrawal, and to grow a little impatient with 4 years of attending all services, and to not be allowed to speak to anyone from the age of 28-32, while a single young man. Apparently, I was supposed to learn to 'honor my withdrawal'. Never was in the habit of honoring what God didn't honor, and I certainly wasn't going to start with this unscriptural withdrawal. So, I told them I'd rather be withdrawn from for 50 years resisting an unscriptural teaching, then to be in fellowship for 1 minute submitting to an unscriptural teaching. I suppose I'm on my way to getting my wish, as it's been 11 years already. I'm 39, and if I wait 39 more years, it will be 50 years after all. It is in God's hands. However, in the words of Martin Luther, who was asked to recant his denunciation of the unscriptural teachings of the Catholic Church. 'I cannot and will not recant anything, for to go against conscience is neither right nor safe. Here I stand, I can do no other, so help me God. Amen.' So say I.
AnonymousFebruary 23, 2019 at 7:35 AM
Obviously, Stanton never learns.
You haven't learned from them at all.
Christ ripped the Pharisees not for them upholding the moral law, for anyone who sins needs to repent.
But, he ripped them because there was no repentance in their doctrine. By taking hope away from sinners, they made sinners two fold more the child of hell than themselves.
Matt 23: Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye compass sea and land to make one proselyte, and when he is made, ye make him twofold more the child of hell than yourselves.
The place is full of snakes, who insist on taking the private confidences of the erring sinner seeking to repent, and dredging them up for decades.
Sin is it's own punishment.
I just got done talking about this.
Further, please explain 7:35 A.M., how Christ treated Mary Magdalene as a nasty woman. Also explain all the times that Christ brought up the sins people repented of years ago, you hypocritical whited wall. This is the psychological terrorism Stanton engages in, and has been engaging in for decades. They try to use a person's past confessions to silence and humiliate them. Just like Satan, the Accuser of the Brethren.
When I read my Bible, I read that Christ told the woman caught in adultery to 'Go and Sin no more'. But in Stanton, it doessn't matter if you go and sin no more. They will hound you for the rest of your life for your shortcomings, and think constantly reminding you of it until you are in your grave is an admirable occupation. This is why David turned to God for mercy, and not to man, for like Stanton, man is quite unmerciful and vicious.
Like vipers, they sit in the shadows, won't identify themselves, but hurl the sharpest daggers at others. Just like the Pharisees of old, Anonymous. Thank you for resurrecting the old Pharisee. We do need modern day representations.
It doesn't matter how much sorrow a sinner has experienced, how much they've turned from their path. No, Stanton must ensure that justice must be done. Like Javert from Les Miserables, who follows an escaped convict who goes on to become a Mayor and a respectable citizen. Javert eventually committed suicide, when that convict, Valjean, forgave him in the French Revolution when Javert was caught as a spy and should have been shot as a spy. Javert couldn't understand mercy and forgiveness. I remember GP giving a sermon on Samson, called 'Uncontrolled Weaknesses'. GP, like AnonymousFebruary 23, 2019 at 7:35 AM, was FURIOUS that an obvious sinner got salvation. This is Stanton. They think they are better than everyone else, have zero mercy, and use others sorrow and suffering for their sins as further weapons to seek to destroy sinners with when they've already repented.
AnonymousFebruary 23, 2019 at 7:35 AM is another power hungry anonymous, who delights in imitating Satan. As if Stanton hasn't been engaged in this for 40 years.
Anyone heard this before?
'But didn't you go so far as to have a defiled marriage bed.'?
Followed by. 'Are there any objections to withdrawing from so and so for a defiled marriage bed'?
Or how about this.
'But didn't you go so far as to commit uncleanness.'?
Followed by, 'Are there any objections to withdrawing from so and so for uncleanness'?
Stanton is up to their old tricks. They believe they are God, and they will intercept the desperate pleas for mercy from sin-sick sinners who pour them up to God, and use them as weapons to control and enslave those sinners under their dominion. The entire purpose for rebuke and church discipline was chastisement makes chaste. However, in Stanton, sins are weapons to hold people down for the rest of their lives, and to exalt oneself. You see, in Stanton, you get bonus points for exposing others sins and hiding your own. You would think, if you were a leader in Stanton, and God was merciful to you for your sins, you would be forgiving to penitent sinners. You'd be wrong, as anonymous above demonstrates. They are out for blood. Apparently, I got them mad. I must have really pricked their pride, as Valjean did in Les Miserables, by forgiving them in one of my last comments. They absolutely HATE to be forgiven by those who they consider to be lost wretches. That is an insult they can't tolerate. And so they came on with their nuclear bomb. To a proud person, being forgiven by one they consider to be inferior is something they will never tolerate.
Ironically, this was the final scripture of my withdrawal 9/21/2008. As mentioned above, the only scripture Vallejo mentioned at that withdrawal was Galatians 6:7 Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.
Stanton loves this, but they don't like the verses preceding it that much, because they certainly don't follow them very well.
"Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted.
2 Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.
3 For if a man think himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself.
4 But let every man prove his own work, and then shall he have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another.
5 For every man shall bear his own burden.
6 Let him that is taught in the word communicate unto him that teacheth in all good things."
Notice how, like cockroaches and rats, Stanton always attacks from the shadows. They haven't got the courage to publicly identify themselves, by name or with identifying remarks. Since courage is the first virtue, and without that the rest are impossible, this is why Stanton has such huge issues. But holding onto others sins like a bulldog is something Stanton does quite well. If you confess something 40 years ago, you can bet Stanton will remember it for you, and if you ever speak out, they will use it to subdue you. It doesn't matter how long ago it happened. And, don't you find it ironic, that Stanton will soberly announce nearly every last Sunday in every church in America about 1 John 1:9 and James 5:16, that if we confess our sins, God is faithful to forgive them, and that confessing our sins to our brethren is good, but then we see they haven't the slightest clue what that means, as they don't forgive sins done years ago, at all.
However, I digress. The last scripture I mentioned at my withdrawal, which I'd recommend for the study of anonymous above was,
1 Cor 15:56The sting of death is sin; and the strength of sin is the law.
57 But thanks be to God, which giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.
58 Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye stedfast, unmoveable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labour is not in vain in the Lord.
Yes, the sting of sin is death, but Christ's death upon the cross can deliver from the deepest depths. And those who deny salvation to others, shall soon find it is denied to them, you brood of vipers.
Lastly, to our anonymous Pharisee friend above, kindly read and examine Matthew 21:31
'Whether of them twain did the will of his father? They say unto him, The first. Jesus saith unto them, Verily I say unto you, That the publicans and the harlots go into the kingdom of God before you.'
If God could call King David a man after his own heart after he committed adultery and murdered a woman's husband, then who are you to deny God's grace to any penitent sinner on earth, you interfering busybody?
Our friend, AnonymousFebruary 23, 2019 at 7:35 AM, is an example of one of the two poles which are making the church in America a wreck today. Our friend represents the legalistic look at sin, and has no comprehension of salvation or redemption, which means freedom from sin and it's consequences. God punishes to make chaste, and does not want anyone to perish in their sins. This is Stanton's major flaw, and yet they believe they are the only 1,500 people out of 7.7 billion that are going to heaven. http://www.worldometers.info/world-population/. On the other side is the church that doesn't believe in teaching the law and teaches all love and grace. Stanton is right, all sex outside of marriage is wicked and evil, but they are wrong in how they punish it. Like Islam, Stanton has draconian punishments that are worse than the original crimes.
But, another threat is the other 95% of the churches in America, where they know their televisions more than their Bibles, and they won't publicly rebuke and denounce sin. Our friend above is right to disagree with sin, wrong to attack the penitent. At least our friend above has a moral compass. Though he won't tell us who he/she is, or what sins they've done. The only person whose opinion of our sins that should matter is God. This was a hard lesson I learned from Stanton. I thought earning their good opinion was what mattered. It really didn't. God showed me that if you go to Stanton for help with sins, and not to him first, you'll be in worse shape. Best to go to Him, and wait until he reforms Stanton and shows them how redemption works. Love does not mean acceptance of sin, but neither does it mean remembering sins after they have been repented of.
Lastly, this is a method that Stanton has used to get rid of a lot of good men and women, and to hold them down. Our friend, Anonymous, above, thinks it is their job to, like the KGB, get private confessions of people,and use them publicly to silence, humiliate, and destroy the person. Frightening that we have churches here in America that work like the NKVD used to work in Communist Russia. You see, anonymous didn't address anything I said, simply jumped in for a kill shot. It's an ad hominem attack, and I'm betting they don't even know what that is. Every person has something in their past they aren't proud of, and Stanton is very skilled at finding that and using it for power and control.
However, to a student of the Bible, you clearly see a loving approach to sin, used by the Apostle Paul, and the cruel approach, used by anonymous.
When Paul saw public sin, where a man was having relations with his fathers wife, and the entire church knew about it, the man was withdrawn from. But, the sin was recent, and everyone knew about it, and the sinner wasn't sorry in the least, but was boasting about it. Paul didn't withdraw from him for a power game, and he didn't bring it back up. We see Paul welcoming the brother back in a in his next letter with these verses. in 2 Corinthians 2:
But I determined this with myself, that I would not come again to you in heaviness.
2 For if I make you sorry, who is he then that maketh me glad, but the same which is made sorry by me?
3 And I wrote this same unto you, lest, when I came, I should have sorrow from them of whom I ought to rejoice; having confidence in you all, that my joy is the joy of you all.
4 For out of much affliction and anguish of heart I wrote unto you with many tears; not that ye should be grieved, but that ye might know the love which I have more abundantly unto you.
5 But if any have caused grief, he hath not grieved me, but in part: that I may not overcharge you all.
6 Sufficient to such a man is this punishment, which was inflicted of many.
7 So that contrariwise ye ought rather to forgive him, and comfort him, lest perhaps such a one should be swallowed up with overmuch sorrow.
8 Wherefore I beseech you that ye would confirm your love toward him.
9 For to this end also did I write, that I might know the proof of you, whether ye be obedient in all things.
10 To whom ye forgive any thing, I forgive also: for if I forgave any thing, to whom I forgave it, for your sakes forgave I it in the person of Christ;
11 Lest Satan should get an advantage of us: for we are not ignorant of his devices.
You see, Paul recommended to forgive and comfort the sinner, so THAT SATAN WOULDN'T GET AN ADVANTAGE!! He didn't recommend dogpiling the sinner for years after their sin AFTER THEY ALREADY REPENTED!!
Stanton has been eliminating dozens with this friendly fire for decades. Yes, we are all at war with sin. However, when one person has already overcome a sin, how dare anyone else bring it back up!!?? If God has forgiven it, and put it aside, what right has any human, who is under God's command, to bring it back up?
This is Matthew 18, that Stanton has a serious problem with. They forget God forgave them, and so have a hard time forgiving others, thus negating their own forgiveness.
21 Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times?
22 Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.
23 Therefore is the kingdom of heaven likened unto a certain king, which would take account of his servants.
24 And when he had begun to reckon, one was brought unto him, which owed him ten thousand talents.
25 But forasmuch as he had not to pay, his lord commanded him to be sold, and his wife, and children, and all that he had, and payment to be made.
26 The servant therefore fell down, and worshipped him, saying, Lord, have patience with me, and I will pay thee all.
27 Then the lord of that servant was moved with compassion, and loosed him, and forgave him the debt.
28 But the same servant went out, and found one of his fellowservants, which owed him an hundred pence: and he laid hands on him, and took him by the throat, saying, Pay me that thou owest.
29 And his fellowservant fell down at his feet, and besought him, saying, Have patience with me, and I will pay thee all.
30 And he would not: but went and cast him into prison, till he should pay the debt.
31 So when his fellowservants saw what was done, they were very sorry, and came and told unto their lord all that was done.
32 Then his lord, after that he had called him, said unto him, O thou wicked servant, I forgave thee all that debt, because thou desiredst me:
33 Shouldest not thou also have had compassion on thy fellowservant, even as I had pity on thee?
34 And his lord was wroth, and delivered him to the tormentors, till he should pay all that was due unto him.
35 So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses.
Montesquieu, You're being evasive with your sermon. You weren't asked to justify any actions, just answer the question Anon asked.
Ad hominem is a type of propaganda that is attacking the opponents character rather than the opponents' ideas or principles. Another type of propaganda is name calling, or stereotyping, or labeling where a person is compared to something inferior like a snake, rat, or cockroach to discredit the person or group as evil to silence their objections. Glittering generalities is another method of propaganda making vague statements like "I never heard that in any of the churches". You see Ryan is the master of double standards: it is wrong in his opinion to villify him but then he turn around and villifys his percieved enemies. He is both victim and bully in one, he criticizes SCOC behavior then in the next statement uses the very same behavior himself. It is difficult to believe anything he posts as true. Propaganda presents only one side where education presents all sides and leaves the decision up to the listener as to which side is true or false. A basic study of different propaganda techniques reveals the way in which the wicked operate.
AnonymousFebruary 23, 2019 at 9:04 PM
https://www.openbible.info/topics/your_sins_i_will_remember_no_more
Your first comment was deleted, and your next one will be too, to remind you God is in the business of hearing the cries of the penitent, healing, and remembering their sins no more. There are 100 verses on the topic posted for your edification. Not sure what Bible you are following, but it's certainly not the KJV Stanton pretends to follow but neglects to obey when it comes to dealing with sin. So, God laughs at you, takes a huge sin, and decides to shove it in your self righteous faces. He will decide who to forgive and who to be merciful to and he can do without your busybody assistance. Seriously, go read Les Miserables, and go learn about Javert. You and many in Stanton are him reincarnated. You simply can't get over the fact that a person can sin, overcome, and go on. In your mind, they have to be destroyed, and you'll go to extraordinary lengths with your jealousy and envy to make sure they are if you don't see it done to your satisfaction. Go read Luke about the Prodigal Son's older brother, for that is you. Couldn't stand that his brother, who was with harlots, was given a feast by his father. Can you relate to the sentiment? Based on your comments, you certainly can. And this represented the Jews and Pharisees, who thought keeping the law was all Godliness was about. They wanted to murder a woman caught in adultery, and, centuries later, you are engaged in murderous attempts to slaughter others reputations based on being a gossipy busybody, as I never told you anything, it has nothing to do with you, and putting your interfering self in others affairs, when you have not the motive to help or heal isn't your place, you interfering gossipy housewife. You sound like a woman from Stanton. Your approach is similar to many of the women's approach in Stanton. Find a man's weak spot, and attack. That's why Stanton is weak and stagnant, but you aren't going to do that to me. I'll put you in your place. My sins were against God, not you. And I'll thank you to get out of my affairs, and study on the sin of gossip.
Further, my friend. Stop throwing stones from the shadows. For the first time in your life, get some guts and show some courage. Everyone associated with Stanton knows who I am. You want to find the worst in another, but you want to cloak yourself in secrecy. Why? Because you are afraid, and are a coward. This is Stanton. Hide your own sins, find the big sins of others, and sensationalize them. Unlike you, I have nothing to fear. I'm free. I admit my wrong and move on. I understand God's mercy exceeds yours, and while it isn't the liberty to go on and sin more, it is the freedom to be free from devilish accusers like you.
One of the cruelest things one human can do to another is go into their past, find something they are ashamed of and have confessed, and put it up on a billboard. But, this is what Stanton has done for decades. And, this is why you need to read the scriptures posted above. The prostitutes are getting into heaven before you with your shrewish attitude. God smiles on them, more than you. This is why the Jews hated Jesus and this is why you hate me. Redemption and Salvation aren't in your lifestyle, and you hate anyone who knows it. I once was like you. Miserable life. Constantly trying to be better morally than others, and not recognizing that you need only be better than you were yesterday. It is God you and I answer to, not man. Had I lied, cheated, stolen from you or sinned against you, then your Inquisition would make sense. But I haven't, and it doesn't.
AnonymousFebruary 23, 2019 at 10:31 PM
Excellent. As usual, your attacks come from the shadows, though they resemble our friend, Sun Devil, from Arizona. But hey, when you are out to ruthlessly murder the message of salvation, you'd prefer to it anonymously. Assassins work best in secrecy. Brutus and Cassius did it, and so do you. Conspirators avoid the light and full disclosure like the plague. There is little doubt influential leaders in Stanton are on here, using their information to sow mayhem and uphold their tyranny. Communist double agents did it all the time. Infiltrate the rebellion, and try to destroy it. You see, this site is the biggest threat to Stanton in it's history, and they are afraid. So, you are to be congratulated. In war, find the other sides outspoken types, and try to destroy them. This is what you are doing. But it won't work. Stanton has been in the business of destroying lives for over 4 decades. I've forgiven you, but I'm not going to permit you to engage in your usual tomfoolery. You first cut people off from the church, then when they flounder and sin, you use this to further destroy them claiming it was their choice. A very wicked and evil tactic, and my indignation at you is only heightened by the fact that there were many people who couldn't defend themselves against you and perished. You have a lot to answer for. While sin is the biggest threat to us all, yet you have to be pretty sick to use another's past sins, that they've already repented of, to try and gain control over them. As a child, I grew up watching this happen, and was terrified of it happening to me. Yet, as Job said, what we fear will happen to us. And so, this moment is kind of cathartic. It's been decades in the making. The very reason why many of the children in Stanton won't open up to their parents is because of people like you. You constantly try to murder and savage other people for their human shortcomings and when they plead for mercy, you viciously oppress them. No different from Pharaoh and the Egyptians. Your tyranny lies in keeping others in subjection by using their confessions to you in your pocket. You could care less about their souls. You care only about power and control.
Calling your tactics those of a snake, rat, or cockroach, isn't an ad hominem at all. It's describing your furtive, cowardly style. As mentioned above, courage is the first virtue, and if you haven't got that, none of the others matter, and that includes being sexually faithful to a spouse in marriage. You see, my friend, a rat, a cockroach, and a snake are generally nocturnal and run when the light comes. That's your approach. Hurl devastating accusations that are not your business or affair from the shadows, and run from being identified. Reminds me of myself when I was a child. Used to sit with friends on the side of a road and toss dirt clods at cars. When they slowed, we'd run up the hill with all the strength we had. One car actually stopped, and the man got out. I ran faster then ever before, I can tell you, and escaped, though my brother didn't.
There is a difference in condemning the wrongs repented of long ago, and condemning the injustices that Stanton and you are engaged in up to this very minute. I was expecting a response like this from someone in Stanton for quite some time, so it's no surprise you are here at last. You can't bear anyone who is not a 'teacher' to disagree with or correct you. To date, I've never seen a teacher be disagreed with by someone in a congregation safely in 39 years. Not happy in ruling your own churches with your tyranny, you've decided to flounce on to this website, and try to use your methods here. Why not? It's worked for you in the past, why not again? Well, the party is over for you. That doesn't work. Rebuke and chastisement was to reform and correct, to make chaste, not to destroy, obliterate, and consign to oblivion. How dare you take a child of God who was chastened and learned hard lessons and try to resurrect their pain and sorrow that always accompanies sin again? The women in Stanton are quite often good at sexually frustrating their husbands, and they are really good at with holding spouses from single men, then pouncing on them when they fall into sexual sin. 'Ha', they say, 'what a wicked person you are'. While, it is true that we are all accountable for our own sins, it's also true that when God says not to commit fornication in 1 Cor 6, he goes on to say in 1 Cor 7 to say those who can't contain should marry. Well, Stanton doesn't believe in this. They believe you ought to burn in lust until you have learned to worship your teachers. It's pretty depraved and despicable. And you wonder why Stanton has a problem with men getting into porn. The women in Stanton need to stop being feminazi's, and they need to learn to be superior in their spheres. You women weren't created to be teachers and to be leading men. Yes, that's for KS, PP, PC, and JJ and the rest of the women teachers who have been out of their places for decades. Their feminism was rubbing off on all the women in Stanton, and this is why so many marriages are a wreck in Stanton. You have divorced couples who attend the same church. Total nonsense. And Stanton encourages women to rebel against their husbands. This is the effect of women teachers. The woman was to teach women and children, not men.
Here is a transformed wife, who is far advanced on subjection to God and her husband than any woman teacher in Stanton. https://thetransformedwife.com/. Get in your place, women in Stanton. Stop talking about your husbands cheating on you and going to porn, when it's your brawling behavior that is a contributing factor.
Your writing resembles our friend, the Sun Devil, from Arizona. Like you, he will define topics and is big on psychiatry and propaganda defining. Of course, DS from Arizona was a private investigator, and I wouldn't put it past him to engage in something like this. He was big into practical jokes. However, cowards enjoy attacking from the shadows. Many possibilities, but the you don't want to be identified, and unlike the Sun Devil, I'll speculate, but won't draw conclusions until the evidence leads to one.
Personally, I never bring up someone's past, unless it's directly related to present unrepented of behavior. Stanton hasn't shown the slightest indication it's willing to turn from it's unscriptural teachings or withdrawals. They insist they are 100% right and any who disagree are 100% wrong. I've admitted my wrongs, which is why you think you control me. You are merely using my past confessions that I already overcame to assert your dominance. A very cruel, malicious, and spiteful practice. No righteous person in the Bible ever did it.
Who are you? You aren't my interrogator, you didn't die on the Cross for me, and you could care less about my salvation. Until you die on a cross for my sins, that's when I'll owe you confessions for sins that have nothing to do with you. Got that? Also, remember, what goes around comes around. Just like you want to reveal others private confidences, your own will be revealed, for God is a just God. You will have your own cruelty visited on your own spiteful and meddling self.
More sermons from someone wallowing in sin, pathetically trying to justify your sinfulness. Stanton is not stagnant. Maybe by your flawed standards, but you don't set the bar for us. You're nothing but the grape being thrown at the charging 700 pound gorilla.
DS, is that you?
Perhaps you remember your bible classes on evil surmising. You only know what I tell you, so try to calm your lively imagination down. Despite the traitorous spy network you’ve set up, constantly telling Christian kids not to tell Stanton’s secrets to others, but constantly pumping them for information on Stanton’s opponents, the best method is to turn to God, as you are a sneering Pharisee. Go learn how the Prodigal Sons Father acted. You have a blatant example in the Bible how to act, yet you can’t follow it.
No, your church isn’t growing because of your unmercifulness and It’s dying. I was just in Suisun tonight, and exactly as I predicted 11 years ago, despite the musical chairs Stanton likes to play where people move from one church to another and they call that growth, the church is half the size it was 11 years ago, and it will get worse. Keep knocking on doors, because until God is with you, you are building in vain. You can’t even forgive the children you raised, you haven’t a prayer of forgiving real prostitutes and the wicked and restoring them to their full potential, it’s sad, because your unforgiveness destroys all the good you do. Oh, and by the way, Christ said in Mark, you self righteous Pharisee that if you don’t forgive others, your own sins aren’t forgiven you. So, every last sin you’ve done in your life is still on your head.
Try reading comprehension sometime, I never justified sin, simply said it was to be repented of. Try reading the 100 scriptures posted above that you love reading in your classes, but fail to follow.
It was a tiny rock that took out Goliath. May you profit from the lesson that God can use the sinful and weak to do whatever he wants. He created humans, not you, so kindly resume your place among the created, and leave the job of judging sins long since repented of, to God.
Amazing you have the spare time to go digging up others sins from long ago. Your own salvation is in jeopardy.
Stanton has an abysmal retention rate of its own children. In my family of 18, there is exactly one that is in fellowship in Stanton. It’s less than 10% across the churches, but hey, to you, 1,500 people in Stanton are the only ones going to heaven out of 7.7 billion. Amazing conceit. ‘Muh Bible says so’. Really? Then why does your doctrine differ from Alexander Campbell? You seriously think you can throw out 2,000 years of people trying to follow Christ, pick up your Bible, and your doctrine will magically be the only one God accepts. No hubris there.
Monte I have to say that this particular line of reasoning above for the most part really hits the nail on the head in regards to Merie's church. I think we all have witnessed the hypocrisies and mercilessness you have described above. Whoever anonymous is, you certainly ruffled some feathers there.
As for forgiveness, I am certain some of us are willing to forgive the ugliness that's been thrown at us. But I for one will continue worshipping outside of Merie's sect because I refuse to believe that God expects us to worship with such a terrible standard of people who do not possess Christ's love, grace, mercy, or example.
Thank you, M Long. Yes. They just had a class on the importance of fatherhood yesterday. It was very insightful. I don't want to hold their failings in fatherhood against them, and I think we are all responsible for our own actions, however, there was a huge problem with children being able to open up to their parents and tell them what was really going on, because the children were terrified the parents would punish them for an eternity and tell the whole church about them, and we are talking common children's misbehavior. JW had an excellent point where he said if a child is not shown love and that they are valued, they will turn to themselves, and uncleanness. Which is why virtually every last boy in Stanton turned to that. Probably still do, since the teaching hasn't changed much. If you want to get rid of uncleanness, show a child they matter, keep them busy, and encourage them to tell you about their problems. Discipline, but don't do it out of anger. If you get angry at a child, you'll break their will, and they will resent you, and turn away from you. That will turn them to themselves. Asking forgiveness for getting angry is crucial. Showing a child we make mistakes and that we are sorry for it, and we move on, is absolutely huge.
I mentioned it on another comment, M Long, but the actions of a few leaders mess up a really good church. I attended yesterday, and when I sat down, a song was in session. So a brother who I've known for 30 years, took his songbook and gave it to me. I thanked him, and started singing. Then I looked over and noticed he didn't have a song book. I tried to give it back to him, but he wouldn't take it. With gestures like that, I can't give up. This is why I strongly object to calling the whole organization a cult. They have some very good and loving people, and even the leaders are simply misguided. We have experienced the pain from their actions, but really, they don't see the spite and malice they have, and think it's simply love.
Also, it was pretty interesting that this brother had gotten withdrawn from in the past. Thus proving, those who are forgiven much, love much.
Imagine the amount of pride Monte must have to think he prophesied the church not growing, and that God is allowing it because of him.
In his eyes the church is in disfavor with god unless baptisms are happening by the thousands. When the church was in hiding I doubt they were baptizing up to Monte's standard.
Keep quoting your scriptures Monte. Its sad watching you blindly lash out in desperation, trying to strike at anyone you feel is standing in your way to God, but your pride is the only thing standing in your way, and has blinded you.
If you think this is what repentance looks like, it looks like you need more time to figure out what repentance looks like.
AnonymousFebruary 27, 2019 at 11:05 AM
It's common sense, not pride. Those who know the past, know the present, and future. Stanton refuses to learn the past, and then calls me proud for learning it's lessons and applying it to today. When you reject God's plan for forgiveness and mercy, you'll get the same treatment from God that the Pharisees and Jews got. The Temple was utterly destroyed, along with Jerusalem by the Roman emperor Titus in 70 A.D. Stanton is headed down the same road, though they aren't doing an armed revolt. But, God is destroying them by frustrating their personal work, and driving their children away.
And, it's fitting you put God in lower case, because Stanton thinks they are God, and they trample his commands on how to treat sinners under foot. And so God tramples them underfoot. He didn't send his Son down to die on a Cross so Stanton could take the sacrifice for sins and create their own human doctrines about who it does and does not apply to. He really doesn't appreciate your interfering in the plan of salvation. He's in the business of saving souls, not in destroying them, as Stanton has made a habit of doing, unless there is absolute submission to the teachers. As long as you don't question teachers, you are perfectly fine with any sin you do. But, if you happen to differ with the teacher, you could be Jesus Christ himself, and it wouldn't matter, you are toast.
I did the math, and the Fairfield church alone has knocked on 300,000 doors conservatively since 2008, and they have only 2 new members to show for it, not counting Christian children. I get the church is supposed to be small, but I'm sorry, that's terrible. I talk to people all the time who would make excellent Christians, but I can't invite them to Stanton, because of your hard hearts. As for me, I don't start a church, because I don't feel called to do it at the moment. Have had many requests to preach, and I declined. So, since Stanton thinks I'm on some power trip, that's not true. I knew because when I knocked on doors to invite people to class, they would come, and rarely would come back. After a while, I figured out, it wasn't me or the Gospel that was the problem, it was Stanton's treatment of people, and their inability to love and forgive. Sure, sin is evil and wicked, and it's the biggest foe, however, pride condemns and destroys others for their sin, love rebukes, heals, and restores, that is where Stanton is wrong. And it is about the biggest way to be wrong as you can imagine. It was the Pharisees major flaw, and Stanton honestly believes the Pharisees were in trouble because of their sins. No, the Pharisees were in trouble because they could not forgive and love sorrowful and mourning sinners. Stanton does rebuke sin better than 99% of churches. But other churches restore lost sinners 99% better than Stanton. Stanton goes too far with the law, other churches go too far with love. The Gospel is law and love combining.
Of course, Stanton has a nasty habit of projecting, and as has been said multiple times on here before, they constantly call anyone who disagrees with the teachers 'Proud'. Well, pride is disagreeing with others, being unable to defend your ideas, and calling the other people proud. This is a staple of Stanton Teachers for decades. We see you've not disputed any points made about Stanton, but like the evangelists TC and GP, you simply dismiss them, lazily, as proud, and unworthy of your time. What's sad is seeing your church dying, as I and others said you would, including your own Bible, 'Except the Lord build the house, they that build, build in vain', and still calling others proud, as you defend your own. It's not pride to scripturally disagree with others. Stanton would be a lot healthier if more people did this. Constructive criticism is good. Lincoln became a great president because he surrounded himself with talented people who constantly criticized him, including his war secretary who called him a 'd***ed fool'. HaHa, when Lincoln heard that, he said, "Well, Edwin Stanton generally knows what he is talking about, and if he said I am a 'd***ed fool', he must be right'. Now that is humility. Stanton can learn from his humility.
Repentance is in the heart before God first. He judges the heart, not how people look. Stanton also has this thing that you have to be stooped over and look sorry to be repentant. Maybe read Isaiah 58, because God explicitly says that is NOT WHAT REPENTANCE IS. I sit with a straight back for my posture, and because when your back is straight, all your organs function properly. I'm not about to learn how to be a hunchback to satisfy Stanton. Besides, a hunchback is associated with laziness, as Kipling brilliantly wrote about when he wrote how the camel got his hump. But to Stanton, that indicates humility. Total piffle. http://boop.org/jan/justso/camel.htm
My sorrow for my sins leads me not to repeat them. I tried repenting and confessing my sins to Stanton, and a friend of yours just demonstrated why that's a mistake. You take those confessions and shove them in people's faces years later, to try and control them. A total abuse of power that doctors and lawyers get sued for.
Monte..This needs to be repeated over & over: "It's not pride to scripturally disagree with others." "It's not pride to scripturally disagree with others." "It's not pride to scripturally disagree with others." AGAIN IT"S NOT PRIDE TO SCRIPTURALLY DISAGREE WITH OTHERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why is this so hard to understand?!! I believe that we all can interpret a scripture differently..When you read it you make take away something different than I do..and guess what folks:THAT'S OKAY!!!!!!!!! Your relationship with God is nobody's business but yours. God knows your heart. The pride & hypocrisy I witnessed in this "church" is laughable!! Someone should start a podcast!!
Anon 1:41 PM
And all God's people said…AMEN!!
AnonymousFebruary 27, 2019 at 1:41 PM
Yes, quite a few withdrawals would have been avoided if they understood, 'It's not pride to scripturally disagree with others'.
"We begin this letter by saying that every Christian has a right and a responsibility to express as well as to teach those things which they honestly believe to be scriptural without being called a false teacher, or one who perverts the word of God." (Moyer Letter, 1967)
So true, and Merie herself believed that!! Crazy, we are in trouble for merely agreeing with Merie, who was the originator of Stanton.
I call people lost and in serious trouble all the time, when they defend p-rn, prostitution, drugs, fornication, adultery, homosexuality, etc. But that's not what we are dealing with with Stanton. You can admit you are wrong, but if you differ on a scripture with a teacher, you get the worst punishments.
Monte, I see your point about the brother who lent you the song book. I know there are genuinely good people in Merie's church who are doing their best. I remember one sister who, when I was withdrawn/fallen away for about 2 yrs from for not leaving my first husband, gave me the biggest smile and said a soft hello at me when I first went back. I still cherish that moment of love. Unfortunately those small moments don't make up for the leadership that causes so much pain and division.
Which takes me to Merie, 1:41 PM above. "Merie herself believed that", which I understand means that Merie believed that one could and should be able to disagree. I think I have to point out, that if Kevin's and others' stories are true (and they have not been refuted), that Merie only felt that SHE could disagree. After all, even since the inception of her church, Kevin's dad, among others, were withdrawn from for disagreeing with her.
So while in essence we may "agree" with Merie's idea that one should be able to disagree, then we would also have to believe that Gary allows for disagreement, as well as other leaders, just because they said so. He even said you could look at this site, and look what they did to Craig. I think the reason we call so many of them hypocrites is because of reasons just as this, that they don't actually practice what they preach. We know this by the very conditional love they have for anyone, particularly once you leave Merie's church. And as fruit has shown, while they preach so much about the family, about husbands and wives, ultimately you have to put what they say to do above your spouse and children.
I appreciate that you're daring to attend and I do wonder if they are going to go beyond marking and avoiding you because you are reporting on here what is going on in a class. It's quite daring! Do you know if there could be further punishment for you? For all we know they will be discussing next week what to do with some who are already excommunicated. They don't know any other way than punish and punish some more when they can't control a person. I hope nothing changes more adversely for you. It sort of feels like when Craig was on here and then suddenly they withdrew from him even though he hadn't been given the Lord's supper or recognized as a brother for a long time.
M LongFebruary 28, 2019 at 1:20 AM
Yes, the moments of grace mean a lot, especially when one is under duress. You are right that Merie and Stanton don't always live up to their words, but in demonstrating that they don't, one effectively calls out their injustice. When a person states their beliefs and acts contrary to it, there is no better illustration of why their beliefs are not biblical, particularly when they are recalcitrant and bullheaded and refuse to change, not indicating any sorrow over their injustice at all.
Time will tell if they go above and beyond. I've made overtures to speak to them, and they won't respond. So, the ball is in their court. It's been 11 years, and God will decide what will happen further. Their track record is to ruthlessly rid themselves of those they disagree with. But, their growth has abysmally stagnated as well. If they put it together, they will realize they are simply stirring up God's wrath against themselves. As for me, I bear the consequences for my own sins against God, but I'm not deceived, and understand what I'm being punished for. I am not being punished by God for disagreeing with Stanton's unscriptural teachings.
The righteous are as bold as a lion. Righteousness does not mean perfection, as Stanton believes, it means falling 7 times and getting up 8. Rich Devos, who recently died, and is the father in law of education secretary Betsy Devos said, 'History has demonstrated that the most notable winners usually encountered heartbreaking obstacles before they triumphed.', and '.“If I had to select one quality, one personal characteristic that I regard as being most highly correlated with success, whatever the field, I would pick the trait of persistence. Determination. The will to endure to the end, to get knocked down seventy times and get up off the floor saying. “Here comes number seventy-one!” – Richard M. Devos
Christ said, 'In your patience, ye possess your souls'. Jacob wrestled all night with an angel when he was badly injured and said, "I will not let thee go, except thou bless me".
If they call law enforcement on me they are violating their own Bible, because it clearly says to go to the law against your own brother is unscriptural in Corinthians. They have suggested this, particularly the younger generation. My own father called law enforcement already on me when I would not leave when I visited on one occasion. If I said anything disagreeing with the church, he would tell me to leave, and when I refused, he called the police. At that point, I left, as I owned a business, and didn't want to be bothered with dragging a broken justice system into the dispute. Unfortunately, I'm sad to relate, my father, as well meaning as he was, and the other great qualities he possessed, involved law enforcement in far too many family disputes.
Whatever happens, Stanton now has to deal with this site, and they have never had to deal with a public forum that criticized them before. This is a first. It's funny how they tell people that if they are so worried what others think and are trying to hide their words and actions from others, then they should do them, yet that is exactly what Stanton does, as they try to hide their words and deeds from those on here. But, if what they are doing is so right, then what do they have to hide?
With me, besides confessions I made years ago, Stanton has nothing on me. Normally, they expect you to be involved in some serious sin, so they can soothe their conscience in punishing you. I'm not in any serious sins by their book, so they don't know what to do. Besides, they've never had someone continue to object to a withdrawal 11 years later, actively. They had written me off in their minds, reconciling themselves to the fact that I was gone. They showed not the faintest interest in me returning and made zero efforts in that direction. Even though it was their unscriptural withdrawal that started all of this. They view my efforts to right this wrong as 'pride', 'stubbornness', and signs of my being a very bad person. In reality, injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere, and their own unjust judgements are to blame for this.
What a sick church? Yes ..I didnotice family members showing little emotions. Emotion of joy and happiness was few and far between. Now that they are all out of that horrible place laughter is back and life appears to be rather normal.
Anon 8:44 I totally agree with the lack of emotion in members of Stanton. When you have to guard your every word, action and expression due to oppression you can't have joy. The singing is so labored, that when I was there I never understood what is meant to "sing PRAISES to the Lord". Now I truly understand what it means to sing praises from my heart.
My family has also seen a tremendous difference in my overall outlook and happiness in life. I'm happy for you that your family is out and they are enjoying life.
Great point, Donna. TC visited my congregation and said the singing was terrible. It was. But, when you are emotionally stifled by oppression, how can you fake joy?
The children could not fake joy. They were the only honest ones in our congregation. Thank goodness they got out before their lives are completely ruined. This is a disgrace!
Craig when I posted fairy tales I meant a book of fiction, I did not mean to criticize homosexual behavior I apologize if I offended you.
Anon 8:20 my bad. I misread your comment. My apologies. Your homosexual reference I do not see? Anyways if your calling sin sin that does not offend me.
Montesquieu 6:16 and 6:31. Well said and too funny but sadly true about Merie’s cult. The two top men certainly have huge egos. The lack of love and compassion is incredibly disturbing as they continue their mastery of dividing families. They will be held accountable for the unscriptural withdrawals and all the wrongs they have committed. Going back to what was meanioned earlier about not showing emotions. When JS was battling cancer top snake GP used that saying “let your tears be upon your pillow”. Wow GP you’re full of love. JK. Montesquieu absolutely right Jesus let his emotions be shown publicly. When I caught wind of my fraudulent withdrawal my emotion was to confront Portland’s preacher MM. Only out of respect for my children I did not as it would’ve been ugly. Oh the whispering’s. They run rampant throughout the cult. Your really realize it when you begin to take on “responsibility”. I too was guilty of that sin. Unbelievable what you hear at the May meetings. Ton of whisperings and gossip.
Very true, Craig. Stanton has split up too many families to count. So much for the church being there to keep marriages together. There are now many couples in Stanton, who have been married for decades, who are divorced or separated, and who still attend Stanton. How does that work? Wow, didn't know that was used to a cancer patient. Great snakes, how heartless!! But, I've never seen a tear from GP in the 40 years I've known of him. True ironman. Nothing like King David, Moses, Christ, or Paul who all showed emotion openly. The man will ruthlessly and viciously back unscriptural teachings and withdrawals without a hint of emotion. He's a flat out coward, to be honest. He knew that withdrawaing for uncleanness was wrong at one point, yet he withdrew from someone for uncleanness to be unified with the church. Because pleasing man is more important than pleasing God…..said no Godly man or woman ever. One great thing about David, is he sinned openly, but he confessed it and went on. You don't see Stanton's leaders doing that. If you had to guess, you'd think they were perfect. They constantly talk about purifying the church, but rarely if ever talk about how they purify the sins from themselves.
Yes, you notice people's treatment of you change, and you wonder why. Some people never find out why. But, the gossipy housewife sessions about members are quite common in Stanton. If you confront them about it, they will tell you, 'Why are you so bothered, you shouldn't have sinned'. Ummm, thats not the point. I didn't tell you about my sin to have it blasted to the four corners of the earth. I told you for advice, and to overcome it. So sad. Teachers are supposed to be there so people can trust them and confide in them, and they can guide people to overcome and to be whole. But Stanton makes your problems worse. You go to them with some sin issue, and by the time they are done, you have a lot more to worry about than your original sin. Makes you realize that going to God alone would have been best, because Stanton can royally mess people's lives up, if you don't learn to turn to God.
Oh, and never confess your sin and think you can disagree with your teacher on anything, ever again. You can't. You see, they have a sin file, and if you disagree with them, they will whip out your sins, and use them as tools to inform the church about you, and thus get rid of you, and punish you for disagreeing with them. Sins are like money to them. The more sins you know about others, the more power you have over them. To heck with helping them overcome them. The more people are caught up in sins, the easier it is for the rulers to stay in power. Dry class? Well, there must be sin in the camp.
Craig, there is a talk that I have of one of the Evangelists actually admitting that he doesn't have within himself to to consider other people in his actions. He gave an example of this. I don't remember what it was, but is was in the area of being cordial to others. His wife has to catch and correct him.
How many times in his Christianity do you think he has read this scripture?
Philippians 2:4 Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.
Consideration and being cordial is a key in Christianity and this is missing the boat. Imagine your judgments towards others lacking these things. You will no longer look at people as people, but will have displays of a lack of consideration and will be more of a judge over people rather than just a "brethren" as Christ put it.
I have seen this in the Tacoma congregation as well. Because of my spine problems I had my own chair and had a blanket on it. If I missed time most of the time my blanket would be missing and found somewhere else. I know a blanket is just a blanket, but it is the mindset of how callous people can be towards others. It wasn't theirs, but they believed they had a right to it anyway. How do you think this lack of consideration is going to play out in God's mind?
The worst part of that is I was called out on having a "negative" attitude about it rather than considering the fact that I had to keep looking for something that nobody else had a right to. If asked I would no problem lending it out. If asked.
Donna and Montesquieu, Portland was noted for being horrible at singing. I can’t sing but I’d sing out. I always thought it was the effort that mattered. Not the quality. If you can’t sing you can’t sing. But you can always put forth the effort.
I'm not much of a singer either, Craig, but if God gave me my voice, and I raise it to please him, that is all I can do. Meanwhile, plenty of professional singers defy God publicly with their behavior, and sound wonderful. Pretty sure God doesn't accept that.
Sing with the understanding.
That said, singing songs with the church commemorating moments of public sadness or joy, united, is quite a joyful and harmonious experience. Many of the Songs of the Church are hardwired on my mind, and will be there until I die. Like song #12, Amazing Grace. Song #649 'Battle Hymn of the Republic. Song #3 'A mighty Fortress'. Song #?, 'Beulah Land'. Song #? 'Standing on the Promises'. Song #?, 'The Lord's my Shepherd'.
Though I disagree with Stanton somewhat, the songs I sang together with them, since I was a child, will always have a tender place in my heart. The memory of them gives a peace and comfort that cannot be explained, and that lasts long after the last chords of them have dimmed in the long ago meeting places where they once were sung.
I'm persuaded that, 'Farther Along' we'll know all about God's design in allowing this to happen with Stanton. For he allows everything to happen for a reason, and 'to everything there is a season, a time to every purpose under heaven'.
Montesquieu, I enjoyed many of the songs as well. The great thing about it I continue to hear and sing them elsewhere and many more beautiful songs that I’m sure the cult will never sing.
This is a video I would love to see go viral!! I hope to see more and more of these videos and pray every day for the fall of this cult!
I recently read Leah Remini's book about scientology & was blown away how many similarities that cult had compared to the COC cult. It's mind blowing how easy people get sucked in. I was only in for about 7 years. My parents joined when I was a teenager..I knew immediately how off this place was & left when I graduated high school & never looked back. I couldn't and still can't understand why they couldn't see how messed up this place was. They have an answer for everything you question. It's crazy how so many share their stories here but to them we're all liars & there's no truth to our words..
Anon if you liked her book, watch her series on Hulu or Amazon. Watch season 1 of the Leah Remini Scientology and the Aftermath. So many families are broken, just as they are in Merie's church.
I watched the 1st season need to catch up on the rest. These 2 cults are alike in so many ways it's scary!!
Anon 2:54 It would be awesome to see this video go viral. Word is spreading about Merie’s cult and I’m hoping more and more video’s will be made. I for one will be making them. My story should soon be on this blog as well. There is just so much awareness about this cult that needs to be spread from coast to coast so people know what this group is truly about and there is nothing hidden from them. I’m confident if people know the history and current practices and rules of the cult, less and less will become members and defections will increase.
Be careful about making videos. America may be heading for a Civil War, and you don't want this information to get into the wrong hands. It could cost peoples lives. The left is ruthless, and if you dislike Stanton, the left is even worse. It's like jumping out of the frying pan into the fire.
https://www.cnsnews.com/blog/michael-w-chapman/digenova-we-are-civil-war-i-vote-and-i-buy-guns
Montesquieu, s kangaroo court to say the least. The attempted withdrawal of the two in Des Moines, those who objected you see what happened to them. The kangaroo court recognized after how many years they handled that situation wrong. GP, TC and KS really think they have the Holy Spirit. What a joke with all the mistakes they’ve made in their so called leadership. Merie Weiss the leader of unscriptural withdrawals who was the guide to the circus of the SCOC.
Montesquieu, no worries about making videos. I just want them exposed in the most efficient way.
It was, Craig. Yes, when Dianne was withdrawn from, there were no objections allowed. Marcy was set upon for withdrawal as soon as she said she objected.
Despite my differences with some of the leadership in Stanton, yet still, I harbor no animosity, and would reconcile. It should be a Civil Difference. While it's hard to keep it there because of all the emotions and passions that Stanton stirs up in families and friendships, yet still, Proverbs does say, 'When a man's ways please the Lord, he maketh even his enemies to be at peace with him'.
I thought it was touching at the end of the Civil War, after 600,000 men died, combined on both sides, that when Lincoln was approached by a Northern woman and she told him he ought to be ashamed of himself for letting the Southern generals go, Lincoln replied, "Madam, do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends".
'Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good'. While calling out Stanton's evils is necessary, yet hoping for their salvation is also good. The entire point of opposing them is not to write them off and to punish them, but rather, to guide the erring back to the right. We all have erred, and if we cannot forgive, we break the bridge over which we all must pass.
Mark 11: 23 For verily I say unto you, That whosoever shall say unto this mountain, Be thou removed, and be thou cast into the sea; and shall not doubt in his heart, but shall believe that those things which he saith shall come to pass; he shall have whatsoever he saith.
24 Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them.
25 And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.
26 But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses.
I have family in the church, Craig, but I understand it's harder for you, as you have a wife and children attending. That must be quite difficult, but still, adversity is to drive us to God. He alone can make every situation right. Pilgrims Progress is the 2nd Best Selling book of all time, behind the Bible, and it details a man who has to leave his wife, children, family, friends, and home to follow God. It was written centuries ago, but it details the sins we all deal with daily in trying to obey God.
It seems David's example towards Saul is admirable, though I haven't always followed it. He had a chance to kill Saul twice, and yet he would not put his hand against the Lord's anointed. Like the circumstances or not, God allowed these situations to occur, and the only thing that truly has hurt me is not Stanton, but in my own sinful responses. For hard circumstances reveal us to ourselves and are actually a blessing, for if we had not gone through hardships, we may not have seen the parts of ourselves that needed to be perfected.
'I reckon the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared to the glory that shall be revealed in us'.
Romans 8:18
Romans 8: 38 For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come,
39 Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
I have so much animosity & resentment some days I feel there's not enough therapy out there for me. So grateful for this blog and the fb page. Now that I'm a parent myself I just never want my children to feel the pain I have felt and still struggle with as an adult. The hypocrisy I see disgust me but to them I'm the bad one. I'm just a law abiding citizen living my life on my own terms in pur bliss but to them I'm satan!
Montesquieu 9:25 and above. Well said. I have no problem using the word snake because of much of what you mentioned. One thing about being a preacher and attending multiple May weeks is how sins of members were shared within the gossiping group. My wrong in partaking in it as well. Members would be amazed what is shared. So virtually your sins repented of or not is known coast to coast. Ones such as DS in Phoenix if he is still there has enough of his own issues to be bringing up others past. Very much a snake he is. I’d love to confront that man and put him in his place. If I went down the list of preachers who have had their sins shared with me by MM and others and named them as anon brought up a name and the ones sin. How would the SCOC like that? Grievous sins at that!
Thank you, Craig. Wow! I suspected it, because I had seen preachers doing this since I was a child, but to hear you say it was done at May Trips. They traffic in others business, while the growth of the church, and helping it's members is neglected. Busybodies.
Kevin mentioned this is like what goes on in Scientology, which someone mentioned earlier. They use past 'confessions' to blackmail people and to keep them in the group. Very devious, sneaky, manipulative, and flat out deceitful. People come to them because they trust them and want help, only to find out they use these confessions to control people. Sins are used by the Stanton Puppetmaster teachers to make the puppets dance to the tune of the teachers. If you dance incorrectly, your sins will be used as the strings to put you in line, either to follow their directions, or to get the heck out of there.
This person above comes on, takes a confession I made to 4 people on earth, including 3 in Stanton 7 years ago, and uses it to try and vilify me and silence me. Not going to work. Seen this happen hundreds of times over the years. There comes a day when slaves refuse to take it anymore, and revolt. Probably one of the best animated movies of all time was 'Prince of Egypt' detailing Moses leading the Jews out of Egypt. And there was a great song, called 'Deliver Us', about how the Jews were oppressed and called out to God for deliverance. Honestly, nothing oppresses any of us more than our sins, which makes it a horrible sin when any human tries to use the oppression of another human by their own sins against them, when the other human overcame them already.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s2A3LaYDlHM
I think God is tired of Stanton's oppression,and I think he is going to deliver many of the people they have been oppressing for decades, and they'd better pray he shows them more mercy than they have shown their victims.
They have a May trip coming up here shortly. Probably the first week of March. No harm in having done it in the past. Learning and changing is key. The fight of the church is against sin, not trying to throw each other under the bus based on sins done decades ago and long since repented of. I did this in the past as well to my own siblings, as I was aping the teachers.
I've no doubt every last confession I ever made has been spread to every last Stanton church in America. The person coming on here only confirmed what I've been saying for years on here. And exactly how are people to change in Stanton when they are constantly afraid of people using their confessions to control them? In a word, they can't. Incredible I just attended a Stanton Bible Study this afternoon, and they shared about how love covers a multitude of sins. It certainly does, but Stanton is not in the habit of doing that.
Further, it was very touching that a preacher shared about having compassion for animals, as his dear canine passed away. Was getting quite choked up about it. Now, I was choked up about my dog dying too, so I can relate, and I was choked up even more when I saw the $1,500 vet bill, however, perhaps I was a bit selfish when I heard him talking about being compassionate to animals. I completely agree with being compassionate to animals, but aren't humans more important than animals? Thought I, 'Is it selfish to desire my unscriptural withdrawal to be lifted as a show of compassion, along with the compassion dear Malibu gets from you'? I was thinking that maybe I don't lick a human, or show joy to see them when they get home, or obey them always, and, 'HORRORS', unlike Malibu, I actually disagree with humans at times, and it doesn't make them look good in public, but a lesson Stanton can profit from is FACTS DON'T CARE ABOUT FEELINGS. So, I calmed myself, and said, 'Self, probably not a good idea to expect compassion along the lines of that that dear old Malibu got, because Malibu didn't disagree with the teachers in Stanton'. As I think about it more, if Malibu had disagreed with the teachers in Stanton, poor Malibu would have gone to Glory long ago. Likely would have been euthanized. I'm joking, but I think you catch my drift. I'm pretty sure if Malibu had disagreed with the teachers, like Balaam's Ass, there would have been a quick trip to the vet for some handy dandy barbiturates. I apologize, I don't mean to make light of an animals death, for compassion towards an animal is a wonderful thing, and I love 'Dr. Doolittle' (Note to parents, the Dr. Doolittle complete set by Hugh Lofting is a lovely and hilarious set of books that will warm a childs heart for a lifetime), and 'Charlotte's Web', however, I'm just a little disgruntled that I've been sitting in an unscriptural withdrawal for 11 years, and I hope I can be pardoned for desiring a fraction of the compassion that dear Malibu got.
And, Craig, I know some pretty interesting tidbits about quite a few people in Stanton, including some current preachers. But, I do to them what God tells all Christians to do. He says he forgets their sins and forgives, and so I do too. Some of the things I could say would end marriages and churches, likely enough. But, I'll take it with me to my grave. It's not noble to be telling others business all over the place, a habit Stanton has been engaging in for over 40 years, regularly.
Consider, when I have a friend I really like, and they do something wrong, do I go and tell it all over creation when they are sorry for it, and confess it? I certainly do not, and no, I'm not talking about child molestation, murder, or other major crimes. Of course, Phinehas responded to sin with an attack on the sinner. However, he was responding to blatant, unrepentant sin, not a sinner who is sorry and desires to change. In the Old Law, if you got caught in sin, like Achan, an example the church loves to use, you were killed, as he was stoned to death. In the New Law, we have Christ who died for us, and is a propitiation for our sins. Key difference Stanton does not understand.
Also, it's really not healthy to be busy gossiping about others secret sins, as it's a form of pride. Stanton thinks they are better than others, and constant reminders about the bad habits of those they view as inferior to them keep them going. I'd agree with broadcasting a sin if it's a public sin and the person is caught red handed in it. The fornicator in Corinthians was caught in a public sin that he was boasting about and the whole church knew about. But, Stanton does it for the sin someone confesses about and is ashamed of.
Have to relate, that when I attended, one of the brothers, EH, who I've known for 30 years at least, passed his songbook to me, and went without one during a song. When I noticed he didn't have one, I tried to give him his back, but he wouldn't take it. Touching gesture. Thank you, EH. Also, thank you, 8 years afterwards to MG, who was visiting from Georgia with her husband, KG. Even though I was withdrawn from, she sat next to me and gave me a hug. That takes courage. And I must mention that PP, GP's wife, also came up and hugged me at a meeting when I was withdrawn from. I was so shocked that I initially questioned if she knew who I was. Human gestures when you are unscripturally withdrawn from mean a lot. While intellectually, I've weaned myself off of the church's acceptance, and even my families, for God has promised to care for those who are forsaken by their church's and families, yet, we were created to be social creatures, and the kind actions of others truly become sublime when done at a time that the recipient is experiencing mass disapproval. 'I have always been of the opinion that unpopularity earned by doing what is right, is not unpopularity at all, but glory'. Cicero
The point was made today about how important father's are in their sons lives. A very true and accurate point. However, the lessons of history, God, Christ and the Bible can take up the slack when a father is absent in presence or affection.
There are many good people who attend Stanton, but a little leaven leavens the whole lump.
I have no animosity towards those who have caused harm. I am greatly saddened and don't trust those who have caused so much damage and are still leaders in the church. I've said before, how can anybody live their Christianity in any congregation that treats anybody like this? How can anybody meet their brethren at each function happily knowing exactly how they feel towards you? There is just sorrow and a great disconnect. How is anybody expected to live their Christianity like that?
Quite true, Lynn, love is the end of the law, and Stanton is too busy remembering sins that happened decades ago to be able to love properly. Can't even forgive children they raised. They certainly can't forgive a sin sick and weary world. Since there is no peace available in Stanton, they don't grow.
Anon 6:30 at least you admit you’re with Merie’s cult. Stagnant no, rather dead. Your so called church is a joke when it comes to growth. Portland stopped growing when KG and MG moved to Columbus. Even Merie would be ashamed of you all. You all have disrespected her ideology of how her cult would grow. You’ve fallen far far short. You are not the church you see within scriptures by a long shot. Christ’s church added daily. Keep drinking the kool aid and remain among the spiritually dead.
Did Anon 6:30 comment get deleted?!
True, Craig. This was the first person from Stanton that had the guts to come on here and identify themselves. Of course, they imitate the leaders, and immediately go for a kill shot by trying to dig up the darkest, dirtiest deed they can find on the outspoken types on here, and ignore every last idea. Stanton is really good at ignoring doctrine and the meaning of scriptures, but when it comes to others sins, they perk up remarkably and have absolutely fantastic listening skills. Haha, I remember I did that as a kid. I'd be asleep in Bible class until they started rebukes. I'd then be remarkably wide awake, and was quite interested in the proceedings. Nothing like learning about others sins. Stanton has quite an appetite for it, and tabloid reporters have nothing on Stanton, they are just as good at it. If you want to get Stanton's interest, simply advertise that you know about a sin that someone who disagrees with Stanton did. They'll show up like a dog does for pot roast. And they aren't there to help with the sins, oh no. They want to know because they realize the more you know about others sins the more power you have. The power was designed by God to help and heal the sinner, but we all know how successful Stanton has been with that. The 10% retention rate among their kids tells the story.
That said, Anonymous has to be commended. Even though they are not brave enough to tell their name, and who can blame them, Stanton would behead them if they did, they at least are the first person since this site started since 2013 to ever come on here and identify themselves as being with Stanton. There may have been others with Stanton, but none of them had the guts to identify themselves. This person actually has to be commended. First of all, all of Stanton has been warned not to go on this site. This person violated orders. And then, this person had enough courage to actually comment and align themselves with Stanton on a site that no one had done that in 7 years. My hat is off to you, anonymous. I respect courage. That means this person had more guts than the leaders of Stanton. I'm 99% sure it is a young man. I don't see a woman having these kind of guts, no offense to women, as there are plenty brave ones in the world. Further, I don't see anyone over 40 making comments about a grape and a bull. Never heard that one before, and it sounds like something a younger person would say. Have many ideas who it could be, but haven't concluded. Not enough evidence, and I'm not too proud to admit I don't know. I'm about 60% sure I know who it is, and think they are within 70 miles of me, based on their style and tone, but can't be 100% certain. Are you taking notes, Sun Devil? Notice how we don't draw conclusions without having all the facts? "When you have eliminated the impossible, whatever is left, however improbable, must be the truth". Sherlock Holmes We haven't eliminated the impossible. But, a few friends had some very interesting insight into who it could be.
They must have deleted their comment..typical keyboard warrior.
AnonymousFebruary 25, 2019 at 9:18 AM
It's still there. However, this website actually obeys the Bible far better than Stanton, and forces them to live up to their scripture that they read every Sunday before they solemnly take the Lord's Supper. And I quote, "If you confess your sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness". Stanton feels they are the confessors, like the Pope and the Catholic church, and if you don't confess to them, your confessions aren't valid. The very thing that initiated the Protestant Reformation with Martin Luther Nailing his 95 Theses to the church door at Wittenberg on October 31st, 1517, over 500 years ago. But, this is what happens when you throw out 2,000 years of church history, and decide that your interpretation of the Bible is the only one that matters. You go ahead and repeat the errors of those who preceded you. Pride goes before the fall, and Stanton is falling big time. Pride is thinking one knows, when they don't. Stanton's leaders have a big issue with that, but they will holler and shout about how proud you are if you disagree with them. No, they often project.
Further, GP and TC are the equivalent of the Pope in Stanton. All confessions must go through them, or through local assigned preachers (the COC equivalent of a priest). Otherwise, you can't go to heaven, and are lost. Well, that's not what the Bible says. While God designed the church, he designed it to be a haven where the leaders guide the erring back to the right, as the Great Shepherd gave an example of. Sheep are more liable to go astray in Stanton, because when they wander off the path, the shepherds come up and beat them senseless. If they have wounds from sins, the shepherds in Stanton make sure to pour heaping helpings of salt in them, for preservation, perhaps. The hard hearted Pharisees that put Christ to death 2,000 years ago, resurrected.
Ironically, it was amusing to watch the men yesterday passing the mike around when people had prayer requests and when they had confessions. When I was withdrawn from in 2008, I slammed Stanton for only passing the mike around on confessions, not on prayers. So confessions were very important, but prayer requests, not so much. LOL. They've updated their standards.
Montesquieu..I'm a little behind here…are you a member?!
No worries, it's a bit of an odd situation, CLT. Amusingly, there are many who think that your initials with a U added define Stanton. I'm not one of them.
Anyhow, yours truly was withdrawn from 9/21/2008, and excommunicated 8/1/2012. After numerous attempts to attend again, I now do. I've promised to sit and listen quietly, and they don't disturb me. It appears likely they supposed I was a Wild Man of Borneo, and thought I was there to cause mayhem, which I wasn't. This is typical because they frequently suspect those who get punished have lost their minds, and they treat them as you would an Islamist with bulgy pockets entering a Jewish Synagogue. That is to say, very carefully. So, since they won't let me talk and state how I disagree there, I simply do it here. Same thing, pretty much, except most of Stanton is 'encouraged' not to come here. Since the history taught in the schools is abysmal, it's quite easy for charismatic leaders today to convince the naïve and gullible to do this. Hope that answers your question. Were you a member?
Why after all that has happened to you and all the disgusting things you have seen would you ever want to attend church there? Just curious! I would leave (actually never join in
The first place) and never look back and build myself a life with Christ and for Christ.
21 Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times?
22 Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.
23 Therefore is the kingdom of heaven likened unto a certain king, which would take account of his servants.
24 And when he had begun to reckon, one was brought unto him, which owed him ten thousand talents.
25 But forasmuch as he had not to pay, his lord commanded him to be sold, and his wife, and children, and all that he had, and payment to be made.
26 The servant therefore fell down, and worshipped him, saying, Lord, have patience with me, and I will pay thee all.
27 Then the lord of that servant was moved with compassion, and loosed him, and forgave him the debt.
28 But the same servant went out, and found one of his fellowservants, which owed him an hundred pence: and he laid hands on him, and took him by the throat, saying, Pay me that thou owest.
29 And his fellowservant fell down at his feet, and besought him, saying, Have patience with me, and I will pay thee all.
30 And he would not: but went and cast him into prison, till he should pay the debt.
31 So when his fellowservants saw what was done, they were very sorry, and came and told unto their lord all that was done.
32 Then his lord, after that he had called him, said unto him, O thou wicked servant, I forgave thee all that debt, because thou desiredst me:
33 Shouldest not thou also have had compassion on thy fellowservant, even as I had pity on thee?
34 And his lord was wroth, and delivered him to the tormentors, till he should pay all that was due unto him.
35 So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses.
'Let the first act of every morning be to make the following resolve for the day: – I shall not fear anyone on Earth. – I shall fear only God. – I shall not bear ill will toward anyone. – I shall not submit to injustice from anyone. – I shall conquer untruth by truth. And in resisting untruth, I shall put up with all suffering.'
Gandhi
“Even in our sleep, pain which cannot forget
falls drop by drop upon the heart
until, in our own despair, against our will,
comes wisdom through the awful grace of God.”
― Aeschylus
"Even if you are a minority of one, the truth is the truth." – Mahatma Gandhi
The experience has made me a far better person. I learned what Corrie Ten Boom and Victor Frankl learned in concentration camps. That happiness does not depend on others treatment of you, it depends on how you respond, and that it is possible to find peace, gratitude, and serenity in some of the terrible situations. Also, it teaches me to have faith and hope, and to keep going, no matter what, when all the world seems aligned against you, which is quite a valuable thing to have. Also, it taught me contentment, and to rely on God's promises and his love alone to sustain me. I used to care a whole lot about what others thought about me. When you lose the fear of what others think of you, then you truly are free.
Further, I'm grateful for the wonderful childhood I had, and I also believe that what defines our love for others is not how we treat those who love us and say nice things to us, but how we treat those who severely mistreat us. Can we love them still? If we can, then we exemplify 1 Cor 13, which says love SUFFERS LONG, and is kind. It also says love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things. Only love overcomes hatred. Stanton has very little appetite for being confronted with it's wrong decisions and wrong treatment of members. They expect the member to fight back, and when they don't, Stanton doesn't know what to do. Great video on this that's 3 minutes long, called the Second Mile. Profoundly inspiring. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NZou2pDG9JE
By suffering the wrong done to you, and enduring it, we truly learn to love. After all, it was Christ who did the same, and said we'd have to do it. I can't complain, he had no sins, I have plenty. Love and suffering are redemptive.
Also, how many of us have been loved when we've done really wrong? Very few. And that is what love is all about as a Christian. There are many who have never been truly been loved. Hurt people hurt people. So, when Stanton hurts people, it is because they first are hurting. For a loving person does not harm others, and when they do, they try to correct it quickly. Those who know God's love can give it to others, and those who don't, cannot. So, the best way to get others to see their wrongs, is to patiently endure it. Of course, a humble person recognizes all the wrongs done to them, combined, by all other humans on earth aren't even a fraction of the harms their own actions have inflicted upon them. "If you could kick the person in the pants responsible for most of your trouble, you wouldn't sit for a month." Theodore Roosevelt. LOL.
It also teaches me contentment, which I am still learning which is to be happy with what one has and what one is, in ALL circumstances. A truly content person isn't bothered by their problems. Also, as people can tell by my eruption above at a Stanton member, the one thing that gets people mad is to be reminded of their old sins. Still learning to leave it in God's hands, he will bring justice.
It still boggles my mind how I found out, a few weeks before my withdrawal, that a very close friend of mine, at least I considered her one, perhaps it was not mutual, was telling people my mannerisms were effeminate. I'd never really thought about this, as I was fairly athletic, certainly was very interested in the opposite sex, and never really video taped myself, as Hollyweird does to ensure I eliminated all actions that may be perceived as effeminate. I was expressive, and Italians are notorious for talking with their hands. I also crossed my legs, as I watched a movie once that had an English Lord that did it and it looked rather elegant, so I imitated it. So, I'd stand with one leg crossed over the other. I also polished my fingernails, and waxed my eyebrows, as in the sales industry I knew other successful salespeople who did this. Didn't think anything of it. Well, our congregations had lots of blue collar men, and this apparently was not favorably viewed by them, which didn't really bother me, because I wasn't a servant to their expectations of me. Different professions have different values, granted. Well, when my friend said she noticed these effeminate mannerisms, and then I talked to her mother, a teacher in our church, and she said it was a punishment of sorts, my effeminacy that is, I was flabbergasted. Never heard this in my life. So, I started querying other members of the church about what their evaluation of me was, and sure enough, about 3 I had known since childhood said they never saw me as anything but manly. Well, since Christians weren't supposed to lie, I was puzzled, what could explain this? So I went to D&DS to ask, and they said they didn't want to answer my question if I appeared effeminate to them. This left me with a sinking feeling as I always valued their judgement, and their non answer meant 1 of 2 things to me. Either they saw me that way and didn't want to say it, or they didn't see me that way and didn't want to defend me against those who did.
Another sister, who I called, because the original sister said she regularly discussed this with her, said she didn't want to talk about it. Well, I told her that if I was discussing people behind their backs, that I personally would view that as a conspiracy if I did it to others, insinuating that this was what was being done to me. So at my withdrawal, this sister sings out that I was evil surmising by saying there was a conspiracy against me!!?? When I picked my jaw up off the floor and explained that I simply said I said if I had engaged in activities said members had engaged in, I would have viewed myself as conspiring and gossiping, it was concluded that I was not evil surmising, but this was part of the basis for withdrawing me for 'walking disorderly', and 'sowing seeds of discord', because questioning other Christians who are backbiting about you (keep in mind I never discussed them behind their backs) apparently is against church rules.
I thought I'd put that out there, since it's pretty certain that when Stanton goes over the laundry list of my sins they have apparently spread from coast to coast, they often fail to list why I was withdrawn from or the circumstances leading up to it. Perhaps this March meeting, which begins Next Monday, they can discuss a wildly unscriptural withdrawal they have allowed for the last 11 years. Compared to other May Trip topics, like how many times should we break the unleavened bread (ONE ONLY, or the Lord's supper is tainted), and can we bring a Big Mac into the building when working on it, or is all food forbidden in the building at all times (Zero food is allowed in the building, you can't even have a Whopper when you are repairing ye olde church building restroom when you are the only soul in the building), I hope I won't be found presumptuous for desiring equal time for a question which appears to be every bit as relevant to the salvation of those in Stanton. So you see, Dear Reader, as I was reminded of this evening, I was withdrawn from for sowing seeds of discord for questioning those who were legitimately sowing seeds of discord. Kind of a consequence of our media and television culture, where someone's appearance, which the Bible never dwells upon, other than to say Jesus was homely, determines their righteousness. If you appear to be a man and in any way effeminate to Stanton, that is apparently a very grave sin, though you can't find a solitary scripture in the entire Bible saying the same thing. In the normal world, people have foibles and idiosyncrasies, but in Stanton, you have to be very careful, because you can suddenly find out that habits you've always unconsciously had, through no choice of your own, for a lifetime, will become fodder for conversation, and eventually your withdrawal when you express dismay and shock about being gossiped about.
And to conclude the evening, notice how our friend from Stanton who posted earlier did not state the details of my withdrawal, what it was for, or the charges? Well, that's because most of Stanton has no idea. Doubt me? Go ask someone who attends there what I was withdrawn from for. You'll likely get blank stares. Further, having seen how these things work, and seeing that some members in the past asked to come back and were denied because the church had no withdrawal papers and had no idea what they were withdrawn from for, I requested a written statement of what I was withdrawn from for. Never received one. I wonder if it even exists. Stanton has been trained very well on any bad I did after my withdrawal, but when it comes to explaining why my withdrawal was scriptural you'll often get nothing but crickets. So Stanton doesn't like to talk about me. Just likes to try to marginalize, dismiss, and ignore me. However, the truth has a nasty way of rearing it's head, and while it may take awhile, Justice is always done. Fighting against God is awful hard work, and this entire withdrawal wasn't so much an injustice against me, as it was an injustice against the Creator who made the law and mankind. While I'm harmless, God certainly is not.
And after all that you still choose to attend?! What good is it doing to be around those people? You CAN worship outside of this cult..even if you come out of withdraw you'll still have mark on you and will always be talked about by others…why put yourself through that? I'm personally not interested in the scriptures being thrown out I'm just legitimately curious as to why one would stay in a place & around people who can do that. You are not stuck ya know…just throwing that out there…
CLT=Charlotte 😉
No I wasn't. My parents are..I was in for about 7 years and left as soon as I was of age to go. I was uncomfortable from day 1 and knew something just wasn't right about it. Boy did I learn while I was forced to go…My mother is a lost soul who can't think for herself & is worried of what people think of her..she is the face of a narcissist for sure. We are obviously estranged but I'm okay with it. I'm happy in life. She's not. Her husband does as she says & is a member because of her I'm sure. It's pretty pathetic.
So why do you still attend?
Pleasure meeting you, Charlotte. California resident here, or rather, a resident of the People's Republic of California:). LOL.
I'm rather fond of JS, the preacher at Charlotte. Even though I've never met him, I've listened to a number of his talks, and I cried listening to his humor. He is absolutely hilarious, and has an amazing dry wit. However, if he came across me, I'm not sure the admiration would be mutual. Not to worry though, we are responsible for what we think of others, not what they think of us.
I still attend because I have a great deal of admiration for a lot of people there, and I recognize nothing anyone else does to me harms me more than my own faults. If I look at history, the Bible, the Protestant church that Luther developed, the early American church, and the church that Alexander Campbell started, Stanton has got quite a bit right. However, they have this unmerciful attitude towards the penitent, and this confession method, where you have to make all kinds of confessions that you do or don't think are wrong, that is really throwing a wrench into their operation.
I've been to dozens of other church's and they all have some major issues, bigger than Stanton. Either the preacher is getting rich off the church, they constantly preach on love and can't talk about sin, they tolerate open sins, they never address drugs and/or porn, the two biggest issues facing the church today, or other faults. So, I do what Dumas recommended in 'The Count of Monte Cristo'.
'All human wisdom is summed up in two words – wait and hope'.
As for your mother, be patient and gentle. I am with my parents. I have many lovely memories growing up in the church. Am writing a book. Unfortunately, they have been dimmed somewhat by the withdrawal and excommunication, but, I choose to remember the good. It is our attitude, not our aptitude, that determines our altitude.
If you read the book I will write about my childhood in Stanton, you and millions of other Americans would be jumping to join them, I little doubt:). Makes me sad to think a fly in the ointment messes it all up. It was a childhood like Tom Sawyer and Huck Finn. I wasn't emotionally close with my parents, but the church was a big family, and we had some very close relationships with other kids. Also, we constantly got in trouble together, played sports together, fought together, attended church multiple times a week together, etc. We also grew up when relationships mattered, and we didn't have televisions, cell phones, or the internet. Compared to the dysfunctional relationships of the information age, ours were heaven.
There was someone on the FB page who was from Charlotte, and she was peeved at Stanton because they didn't approve of her female lover. I'm not down with any sex outside of marriage at all, its what I learned first from others experiences, and then from my own, and certainly not with homosexuality (didn't learn that from experience). All have fallen, but a just man falls 7 times and rises up again.
Touche!
I am not fond of JS lol nor is he of me. He is highly critical & is definitely in control there. They all seem like little lost puppies. Pretty sure at one point he told my mother to just right me off. I just never had the desire to join. I could see right away what wasn't right at a young age. Although my mother will say many of those people are gone who were there when I had to go as an excuse to my concerns but it's all still the same. I questioned many of their 'rules' that had nothing to do with the bible. To each their own I guess. The one you were referring to I believe did get married recently to a women..she seems happy!
LOL, but is a man being assertive and in charge a bad thing? There are many women outside of Stanton who don't think so. https://thetransformedwife.com/.
Writing off kids isn't good, and they do that a lot, however, I will say women's feelings are often wrong. 80% of today's divorces are initiated by women, and 70% of single women vote Democrat.
If she got married to a woman, 'all that glitters is not gold'. Sex in marriage between a man and a woman is like a warm fire in the hearth, giving warmth and comfort to all. Outside of marriage it's like a raging wildfire, harming all who come in contact with it.
Anyhow, life is a great teacher, some learn from others experiences, some from their own. Also, the backbones of America were marriage and the church. Neither was easy, but the breakdown of both is destroying us.
'Rivers and men both run crooked when they follow the path of least resistance'
Henry David Thoreau
CLT, JS follows the marching orders just as the other preachers of Merie’s cult. Some are more oppressive than others. I only had good experiences with JS though I only saw him at May meetings and a visit or two to Portland. But that’s my experience. I don’t doubt at all that a preacher or teacher would tell a member to right off a child or family member. Which is very sad. They lack in love tremendously. I see it differently than Montesquieu though I respect him as I’d only return to be a disruption. Also I identify them as a cult. There are wonderful people to meet outside of the cult. Salvation is not within the SCOC. As I’ve said many times on this blog their own teachings condemn them. You’re better off going no where. Really God recognizes their worship? They are the one and only true church is such a joke. Remember this is the group that would bound the wrists of children to bedposts to keep them from masturbating. Cruel and torture. So many unscriptural withdrawals that one who would be in the know said far more unscriptural withdrawals than scriptural withdrawals within the group. No elders or deacons. Also CLT you mentioned narcissism. Spot on with this group. GP a self proclaimed control freak fits as a narcissist. Many more preachers and teachers do as well. MM in Portland is one as well. If I’d known about Narcissism when I first began attending I’d identified the group as such real quickly.
Craig..you nailed it!! The short amount of time I was in I feel like I saw nothing but constant drama..people talking about others..in other people's family business..bullying between kids..kids to afraid to tell anyone anything because we all know the kids are lying and "Christian's" do know wrong! My parents started having more kids and it's still all the same. Their house is such a negative environment to be such self proclaimed holy people. I just got to the point in my life where there was no point in trying to hold on to a relationship that seemed toxic & was ultimately bringing me down. Relationships with your kids should mean something…not to them unless you join. I have struggled for years with my faith..if and what I believe. Thats what that place did to me..
Montesquieu, seems to me the female was in the wrong for having those thoughts about you. Secondly sharing those thoughts. No proof at all just a guess then planting those seeds in others minds. Bad bad bad on her and for the ones who gave ear to it. Is that not what the cult teaches. Where is the big waste of a meeting at this year? Though I was entertained by the discussions from last year. What a joke. Maybe we’ll get to listen in again this year. Lol.
Seemed that way to me too, Craig. I was never in the habit of discussing people's personal idiosyncrasies behind their backs with other people, so I don't expect people to do it to me. And there was no lack of subject matter for me to do it on either. Gracious, it's like I'm in elementary school again. 'Your ears are big'. 'You are fat'. 'You are skinny'. Like a bunch of kids. But Stanton goes one up. 'Muh Bible says you act effeminate because of consequences'. Nonsense, was never a homosexual.
Yes, and to this day there has not only been no punishment for the women who did this, and they haven't even been openly rebuked for their tale bearing and gossip, but I got in trouble for objecting to it. Unbelievable! But, God sees all.
I dunno where it's at this year, Craig. If it was near me, I'd do the hospitable thing and attend. Would be nice to know where it's at. Would be nice to get the discussions again. I very much enjoy hearing their lessons, though I've never heard, in the past 11 years what I was waiting to hear.
'We have important business to discuss. We have decided to lift our unscriptural withdrawal of Montesquieu and his unscriptural excommunication, and welcome him back into fellowship, and we want to ask his forgiveness for our cruel, unmerciful, harsh, and completely unbiblical treatment of him'. Is that so hard? I'd respond graciously, and not hold it against them. We all make mistakes, and some of them last 11 years.
Montesquieu or anyone who may know. Have they the top cronies of the cult ever asked forgiveness because of unscriptural withdrawals?
Haven't seen it done, though they've lifted plenty. They had to lift all their unscriptural withdrawals for 'defiled marriage beds', 'corrupt minds', and 'uncleanness'.
And they didn't even go and make serious efforts to contact people they'd withdrawn from for it, and who no longer attended. One woman was the only woman in Napa who came to church after the church did personal work there for about 1-2 years, and she'd been withdrawn from 20 years prior for uncleanness, and I believe it was in the church KS was in before she came to Stanton. So the church announced, when they knocked on her door randomly, that her withdrawal had been lifted. She came for about 8 months and fell away soon after, as they still had stigmas they attached to people, probably, for uncleanness. Any funny mannerisms you had due to that, Stanton would be sure to find out. If you had a white hair and you were 40, could be because of uncleanness. It's quite astounding, Stanton knew more than the Bible on the topic. If your kid turned over 3 times at night, it was best to put them on the couch, to monitor them for uncleanness. I remember when I was a kid we were constantly monitored for it, and I had no idea what it even was. Of course, when you constantly and obsessively direct a kids attention to something, the chance they get into it, does tend to go up. I know they have changed a lot, but they still are death on that. If you have to pick between fornication or uncleanness, in Stanton, you are better off fornicating. Of course, the Bible makes no such distinction, but Stanton is big on interpreting the Bible how they please. And since uncleanness is rampant in society today, Stanton has gone to the extent of inquiring into men's uncleanness before they get baptized. They have to make sure you aren't unclean, otherwise you can't get baptized. That's no where in the Bible, but Stanton has it all figured out. I know of men right now who attend and can't get baptized because they can't kick their uncleanness habit. So, since they can't withdraw for uncleanness, Stanton has decided to monitor for it before baptism, to get around the discomfort of not being able to withdraw for it. Becuz, we have to 'keep the church pure'. I agree it's wrong, but Stanton's approach is a great way to make the problem worse. Further, the minute a human walks into a church building, it's no longer pure, since all humans have sins, including thought sins every last day of their lives. But, Stanton hasn't learned this yet, and believe they are holier than everyone else, as our friend on here earlier, from Stanton, demonstrated so well. According to Stanton, we are all wallowing in our sins, and they alone are sinless. No pride there. Funny, because they are guilty of the biggest sin of all, the one that got Lucifer thrown out of heaven, Pride.
You said ' they make sure you are not unclean otherwise you cant get baptized.That is nowhere in the Bible.'1 Corinthians 3:10-15 should be considered. "But let every man take heed how he buildeth thereupon". John the Baptist would not allow baptism to the Sadducees and Pharisees but told them to bring forth fruits meet for repentance. If your not careful you end up with situations like Craigs. They say one thing, Craig says another concerning his baptism. carefulness eliminates confusion. .the principle is there
Yes, Concerned. They waffle quite a bit. Underneath it all, they have a serious problem understanding God's mercy for themselves, and so can't show it to others. You can't give others what you don't first have yourself. Their unforgiveness towards others simply shows they don't think they have forgiveness themselves, for forgiven people don't act like they act.
I would like to hear a lesson on discord. The clearest fruit of discord is violence between two people or groups. When nations go to war it is because of the discord between them has reached intolerable levels. God hates discord and with good reason, it leads to the loss of human life when carried out to its final conclusion. Blessed are the peace makers who can dissolve discord and resolve difference and thus preserve human life.
Unity is nice, but prostituting truth for it isn't. You never find a Godly man being quiet about the truth for the sake of peace. You do see Eli not calling out blatant public sin, UNREPENTED OF SIN (have to throw that in there, because Stanton is big on going back years to dredge up old sins), and getting destroyed for it.
Facts don't care about feelings. Stanton feels that unless you become the most obsequious sycophant, and admit they are 100% right, and you are 100% wrong, then you can't be listened to.
Pride is what leads to contention and discord. Stanton has a lot of it, but darned if they don't tell anyone who disagrees with them they are proud. They seem to think the first who draws their gun first and shoots the pride bullet wins. Pride is thinking you know, when you don't, and Stanton has a rich history of being wrong, but they absolutely refuse to think that anyone who has any sin they know of, could be right, and they could be wrong. According to them, since none of us know of any of their sins, and they know plenty of ours, they are always right, and we are always wrong. That's how it works.
In reality, we all have sin, and those who acknowledge, confess, and repent of it and move on are blessed, while those who act and pretend as if they have none, are cursed.
Also, there is something called civil disobedience, which never leads to violence, and it is a blatant disagreement publicly. It hurts the oppressor, but no physical harm is done them.
I understand there are two web sites up for the 'children' of the said Churches of Christ. These sites cause hatred, bitterness, anything but healing and kindness coupled with understanding. I believe if this continues to keep the ill will going there will be serious repercussions as a result.
Concerned 2:05 PM
LOL I think everyone has suffered enough from this cult..if there's repercussions it will be against the cult!! This site has been a tremendous help for healing & understanding!!
ConcernedFebruary 28, 2019 at 2:05 PM
There was back in 2013. As a matter of fact, I never had a Fakebook account until I heard of the Stanton Church Fakebook account, with lots of Christian kids. I went on in July of 2013, immediately. Soon after, AD went on a couple of profane rants, and was very justly kicked off the site by PK. Being quite a rebellious type, he immediately set up his own Fakebook page, with types who elicited some of the same corrupt and profane behavior as him. He's a foe of Stanton and morality, though I don't know, he could have changed since then, I hope he did. I left the site in November of 2013, and deleted my account after 2 and a half years and 6 Fakebook blocks for 30 days or more due to my Christian, Conservative, Constitutional beliefs.
Side Note: I'd advise anyone using Fakebook or Google to delete your accounts and stop using them immediately. They steal your information, they spy on you, and the reason why $3 trillion was poured into silicon valley was for power, to control the minds of users. Algorithms direct users to see what those who pay lots of money want you to see, and to do what they want you to do. Research has already demonstrated Google can brainwash entire nations and swing elections. The creators and owners of Fakebook and Google control what you see, and believe they are Gods, and we are feudal peons. (Recommend avoiding Social Media altogether, or use Disqus on generally Christian friendly sites like Breitbart, Daily Wire, American Thinker, the Federalist, among others. Also DuckDuckGo is far better than Google for a search engine. Christian information on Google is banished to the Siberia regions of Fakebook, 100 or more search results deep, where no one visits. In this manner, propaganda is exalted, and truth is demoted. Never in human history have so few controlled the minds of so many. We may be headed for a Civil War in America. This differing with Stanton is just a shadow of the massive conflicts going on right now. https://sultanknish.blogspot.com/2018/01/this-civil-war-my-south-carolina-tea.html.
The Stanton Fakebook sites may still exist, but I haven't been to them since 2015. The problem is there are plenty of corrupt types, who want to denounce Stanton while promoting profanity, and all kinds of debauchery. Very ineffective and detrimental, and it does only inflame hatred, bitterness, and interfere with healing, Concerned.
Correction, typed my last post in a hurry, and there were a few errors. They are corrected below.
Recommend avoiding Social Media altogether, or use Disqus on generally Christian friendly sites like Breitbart, Daily Wire, American Thinker, the Federalist, among others. DuckDuckGo is far superior to Google for a search engine. Christian information on Google is banished to the Siberia regions of search results, 100 or more search results deep, where no one visits. In this manner, propaganda is exalted, and truth is demoted. Never in human history have so few controlled the minds of so many. We may be headed for a Civil War in America. This differing with Stanton is just a shadow of the massive conflicts going on right now. https://sultanknish.blogspot.com/2018/01/this-civil-war-my-south-carolina-tea.html.
Anon 4:19 great topic and points. Merie’s cult has perfected causing discord with families and individuals. So many comments on this blog would back that statement up. False accusations with untrue (lies) towards me by MM and ST here in Portland were a cause of discord between the three of us. Of course when I confronted them about it the discord became greater. I could’ve suffered the wrong. But I also had to make them aware of their sin too. Sins that have never been confessed to me. Your last sentence is ideal. Yet GP chooses not to engage communicating with me. MM in Portland never stated facts when asked concerning my fraudulent withdrawal. Both cowardly by not doing so.
The meeting is in San Antonio this year. This coming week. More kissing up to the preachers and teachers by the locals. It's funny they'll judge the world for Christmas but when these meetings come around they spend ridiculous amounts of money repainting, buying furniture, spending lots on food and household items, and making everyone gift baskets. Gotta kiss up to those preachers! Why don't they do that when their relatives come to visit? Respecter of persons? Yes, please.
Anon 12:59AM But they sure do accept those Christmas gifts from their family..will even go to visit on Christmas day to collect! Makes me sick!!
Yes, and the more important you are in the church, the higher ranking members of other congregations you get to host. They have an inner circle elite that generally stays away from the common man. They don't want to be bothered with the commoners. That's why they hate this site, because we are peons and commoners, publicans and sinners. They are holier than us, and they look down their noses at us. Just look, the only person from Stanton to ever come on here, comes on here only to highlight sins they know about those on here.
Also, for the last few decades, the preachers at the May Trip start nearly every lesson like this. "I want to thank the local congregation which has done a wonderful job hosting us, and it seems like the best May Trip ever". Well, all this is happening while many of us are oppressed by Stanton, and we aren't particularly impressed with the hospitality that you flatter the leaders with. God never looks favorably at those who help tyrants and trample those who are oppressed.
They consistently have the same preachers preaching, and new blood is rare. When you do hear a new preacher, it's likely to be a young man raised in Stanton. And they normally are VERY FLATTERING of the leaders. It's painful to hear young men whose grasp of history and the Church's entire 2,000 year past is normally very slight, as this makes them easy to control, get up in a May Trip and sing the praises of the Evangelists or the preachers in their congregations. None of the young men has the guts to publicly disagree with a teacher, and so the church is full of cowards, who learn to shut up and follow the churches policy if they value their position. Sadly and frighteningly, it reminds me of the Nazi's, where the more you kissed up to Hitler, the higher you rose. If you opposed him, you ended up demoted, or worse, sometimes you ended up dead. Until Stanton learns to foster healthy disagreement, and the teachers decide to follow the Bible and stop using church discipline to silence legitimate dissent, they will never grow. And the many good people will stay in a stagnant organization until the end of their lives. Prayers they will get courage, because no righteous person in the Bible ever lacked courage. To stand up for the right, no matter how lonely the position.
Big time respecting of persons, 'This people draweth nigh unto me with their mouth, and honoureth me with their lips; but their heart is far from me. But in vain they do worship me, teaching for doctrines the commandments of men.'. Christ in Matthew. Perfect description of Stanton today. They worship God in vain, and it's not accepted. He doesn't care about how good they are, about how they avoid porn, fornication, adultery, lying, cheating, stealing, sloth, because they are full of pride and unforgiveness, the major flaws of the Pharisees. Oh, they love correcting others, but they hate to be corrected themselves. Apparently, when you've been in the church for over 3 decades, there is an unwritten rule that you can't be corrected by people in for less than a decade. You won't find that written anywhere, but in practice, that rule is alive and well. So, Christ would have been crucified all over again in Stanton today. A man who was teaching for 3 years, starting at age 30, would have been thrown out of Stanton so fast for trying to correct teachers who were in their 50's, 60's, and 70's. After all, the teachers believe that your righteousness depends on how long you've been doing something. Christ showed that obviously wasn't true. Died at 33, and has influenced the world more than any other human in history.
I saw someone mention a podcast..this is already an excellent platform for it..definitely something I would like to listen too! Seeing YouTube videos now I imagine it won't be long until we can hear a podcast.
Not a bad idea, however, readers are leaders and leaders are readers. A literary culture, which processes information through print is far superior to one which hears information from an electronic medium, or which sees it on hellivision.
There is a great topic that I think Stanton would be well advised to go into for their May (March) Trip, beginning this Sunday. That topic is Loud Women. If it weren't for one Loud Woman, there wouldn't be any Stanton. Initially, I disagreed with Kevin on 2 things. One was violence in self defense, and I've recently applied to be a Police Officer and purchased a Glock, as I recognized the Founders of America, who understood the Bible and history a lot better than Merie, very much believed in the Second Amendment, and the Right to bear arms. So, Thank you Kevin. Much Obliged. Secondly, I thought that Merie was justified in splitting off from the mainline Church of Christ, and starting her own. Kevin disagreed with this, and I'm convinced he's entirely right now. While I still feel she had many good qualities, being in subjection, and teaching only other women and children were not qualities she had. By her leading Stanton, she emasculated the men, and the problem continues on to this day.
Feminazi's have invaded the Church of Christ. Women initiate divorce 80% of the time, and they are very good at getting their way. Now, men are commanded to love their wives, but this is never to be used to justify a wife saying she won't be in subjection because she doesn't feel loved. God's command for a husband to love his wife, and for a wife to be in subjection to her husband were commands that were not contingent on the others obedience. He was the referee and mediator in the marriage, and if a wife doesn't feel loved, or a husband doesn't feel his wife is in subjection, they are to take that to each other and God. But, too often, women with their feelings refuse to be in subjection in a marriage because they say 'I don't feel loved'. Of course, when they get a new Mercedes, or a 3,000 sq. foot. home with a pool, they feel awful loved. Their feelings are awfully unreliable, though it's noble for a man to please and love his wife, in whatever way he can. But, let's face it, not all men are wealthy. So, if a woman is going to say she won't obey a man unless he has money, she's likely going to end up with a man who likes her for her external beauty, and when her beauty is gone, she will be gone too, replaced with a newer model. This is why porn is such a draw for so many men. It's fake and it's a very terrible sin, but it gives men what most wives will not, the sense of being in control in a relationship with a woman who loves them and wants to please them.
For too long, women have been domineering in Stanton. They control that church to a large degree. Stanton buys into the wicked lie 'happy wife, happy life'. Umm, that's nonsense. Not every decision a man makes for the good of his family will be loved and like by his wife, and that's fine. God realized that women are fiercely territorial and protective of their own families, with built in nesting features, and so he put the man as the head of the family, because he not only has a view of his own family, but how it interacts with the rest of the world. Men can often see the long term effects of choices, and are often more logical and reasoning than women, who tend to be more affection, communication, and relationship oriented. And that's fine, that's how God created it. Both sides are superior in their own spheres, but God intentionally placed the man as the head of the household, and America was a lot better off when this was the case. If America had the dynamic with wives we had today in 1776, where women fight not to have kids, fight to have the husband share in the household chores, and fight to go to college and get a job, our nation would have been in ruins in 30 years. Probably never would have started. George Washington would have been home arguing with Martha over whose turn it was to babysit the kids and cook that night. Martha would have constantly been contacting him to find out if he could come back from the war so she could enjoy a night out with the girls to watch a Chick Flick.
There was an excellent article by Lori Alexander, who writes the fabulous website, 'The Transformed Wife', called 'Don't be a Loud woman'. https://thetransformedwife.com/dont-be-a-loud-woman/. Quite profound.
As if it's not bad enough that Stanton has many domineering women, who insist on teaching men contrary to the Biblical instruction, that women are to teach women and children alone, it spreads to the wives. Remember Vashti, and how she rejected her drunken husbands command to come out and parade in all her beauty before his assembled Lords, and the hussy wouldn't do it? Well, she was rejected from being Queen, and Esther was promoted to the role. But, Ahaseurus had some wise advisers, who warned him if Vashti's domineering ways infect the women of your kingdom, your kingdom is toast. They'll never obey their husbands. Remember Michal, Saul's Daughter, and David's wife, who tried to rebuke David for his service to God? Well, King David never slept with her again. Good example for rebellious women.
In Stanton, a few years back, a very brave man named JC, married to a woman in Stanton, stood up publicly and said, in a congregation that KS dominated, that women were not to be teaching men. Well, this caused ripples all through the Stanton church throughout America. He was given 3 options. Be quiet and recant, be withdrawn from, or leave. If memory serves, I believe he chose the 3rd option. He was right, and Stanton's lack of growth is directly tied to domineering women who won't take care of kids at home, but insist on teaching men in classes. These women won't instruct other women and children only, no, they also feel it is their place to instruct men and boys, in public no less, on masturbation, porn, and other male issues that aren't their place to reprove at all, it is the man's job and God's. As a result, the boys in Stanton have been into masturbation and porn heavily for the last 30 years. Then, if you get out of it, and get married, you get into a marriage where your wife will often go running to the teachers to tattle on you, making you a hen pecked husband who can't rule his own home, never mind the church.
And no, I know I'll get people saying , 'But Monte, what about the man who was molesting kids, physically hitting his wife, using drugs, an alcoholic, etc.'? I'm not talking about that, of course a wife needs to leave a husband who is a physical threat to her and the children. Had one woman on Fakebook, very beautiful, with 5 children, who was married, tell me that her husband molested their children, and that there were people in the church (not Stanton) telling her it was against the Bible to divorce him and remarry. No, that is absolutely scriptural, for a woman to divorce a child molester and to marry another man. If adultery is cause for remarriage, child molestation certainly is as well. Many times you'll get women saying they are 'emotionally abused'. Umm, that's not a cause for divorce in the Bible. Many women claim to be abused when they don't get their way, and when their husband takes his God given role as the final say on decisions. Of course, her valuable input is necessary, but he is the final decision, not per me, but per God. Sometimes a man will defer to his wife, but if he decides on a decision, his wife should not be publicly answering back, and expressing her displeasure in the myriad of ways that women are notorious for. Silent treatment and defrauding of sex are two of the most common. I say this because I'm not married, so I can tell the truth and not be worried about sleeping on the couch, as many rebellious wives banish their husbands there when they are displeased over non-scriptural offenses.
Very terribly, Stanton has accepted women just leaving their husbands, simply because their husbands don't attend Stanton. This is totally unscriptural. Women who attend Stanton, are still, per Corinthians, required to be in subjection to their non-Christian husbands, many of whom aren't attending for very legitimate scriptural reasons. But, we have actual couples in Stanton, married for decades, who are now separated and living apart. We have wives who have Stanton's backing in trying to go to corrupt worldly courts to divorce their non-member spouses, though their spouses have done nothing unscriptural at all. Does Stanton rebuke them for this? No!! Stanton encourages it. So, Stanton has been in the business of destroying families for decades. Until the woman returns to the sphere God designed for her, which many women in Stanton excel at, all of what has been said, notwithstanding, the church will remain stagnant, stale, and static. The men were designed by God to be the leaders. Stanton says this, but in practice they deny it. If Stanton wonders why so many men in their church keep getting into pornography, simply look at how out of subjection the women are. Not hardly an excuse, but it is certainly a factor. The man will still be judged by God. If you are a young man, do you really want to marry a woman who will tattle to the teachers when she disagrees with you on your asserting your role as the head of the house? Do you really want to marry a woman when they frequently run for divorce, threatening to take your money and your children, and go to through a corrupt court system that thinks legalizing homosexuality and pornography is a great idea? Not really.
That's why in the world there are men called MGTOW. Men Going Their Own Way. These are men who don't want to be bothered with a woman in a relationship, at all! I don't agree with that, but I understand it. I believe that the woman was the final creation of God, the most perfect of his Creation. However, she was created to be a helpmeet, and God recognized it was not good for a man to be alone. She was also designed to have and care for children. The entire purpose of the man's generally stronger sex drive is to get married and have children.
If women in Stanton and America do not return to the place they excelled in just a century ago, then we are close to being overwhelmed by Islam. You see, Muslim women are beaten by their husbands. Had an 18 year old newly married Muslim convert, from Hinduism, tell me it was wonderful her Muslim husband beat her, because she was disobedient at times and deserved it. Appalling. I tried to convince her it was never ok to beat a woman, but she wasn't hearing it. Islamic women are having 3.1 kids per woman, and American women are having 1.7. Islamic men run their homes. The only reason why America is superior to Islamic nations at the moment is because we still have the skeleton of the system the Founders, all male, designed in the Constitution, in an age when women were in subjection. That is wearing away quickly, and when it does, our nation will go the way of Egypt, Greece, and Rome. Once again, a woman's being deceived will have dealt a grievous blow to mankind, as it happened with Eve.
Men have their issues too, and they will be addressed as well, However, right now, the lack of female subjection is an epidemic.
Rather than Stanton discussing how many times to break the bread, and if you can have food in the building, how about discussing the proper spheres for the fair sex and for men?
Montesquieu, do you hate women?
AnonymousMarch 1, 2019 at 2:47 PM
Did God hate women? Because nothing I set out was not in the Bible. 100 years ago, Americans agreed 100% with what I said. Our nation was far greater, healthier, and more stable.
Truth sounds like hate to those who hate truth.
Monte preaches a lot, for someone who claims they didn't want to preach. He's built his own Crystal Cathedral here online and has a congregation to fill it. Instead of Monte, your new name is Ryan Osteen, the only difference is your pride is much greater than his, and you have far dirtier scandals than he has currently.
Cue up the daily sermon from Mr. Osteen, the congregation awaits.
AnonymousMarch 2, 2019 at 9:51 AM
GP, TC, DS is that you?
Took me awhile to catch on, but you use the same methods Stanton does. Anyone who disagrees with you is proud, and has sins.
Don't address the substance of their arguments, but dismiss them as proud or a sinner. So tired, but many in Stanton love these methods. Why not? It worked for decades before on naïve and gullible people. When asked to prove your beliefs, and directly challenged, you withdraw, ridicule, lampoon, and castigate.
Also, your comment is a logical fallacy Straw man argument, as Crystal Cathedral and Osteen are prosperity preachers teaching a gospel of material wealth, and that is not what I endorse.
So, we have another subtle serpent, perverting the truth, likely from Stanton, here to sow the very discord they withdrew from me for. Stanton's leaders hate me. There is nothing they won't do, outside of physical violence, to destroy me. When I visited there May Trip, someone from Stanton spray painted my car. Their teachers never admitted to it, never took responsibility, never admitted their vicious assaults prompted their own members to commit an act of vandalism against me. I've never harmed any of them, but their hatred wants to tear me down any way they can. For all we know, our friend the Sun Devil is a Stanton Plant. He's spent more time attacking me than attacking Stanton. No one on here knows who he is. Would be a pretty good strategy to come on here, pretend you disagree with Stanton, and then unload on anyone who disagrees with Stanton. That would be a pretty neat feat. Not concluding, simply saying it's possible. We can't know until Arizona identifies himself and he never has. There are quite a few on here who know Stanton well, and no one knows who Arizona is.
None of my scandals are as bad as King David's, or Samson's, so put that in your pipe and smoke it. David was a man after God's own heart. God doesn't need your approval to exalt and demote men. He can do as we wants.
Sin is much like an illness in the fact that when suffering from sin you will emit symptoms that allow for easy identification of the sin. Monte is displaying the classic symptoms of pride. Self centered, argumentative, hard hearted, fault finding, defensiveness, desperation for attention, to name a few. A single glance at any post on this blog, even a blind person would have a hard time not seeing Monte displaying those symptoms.
His prideful heart has lifted him up and exalted himself into the place of God. He's been spiritually weakened and ensnared by self deception to the point that he now has a distorted view of reality. His pride paints his sin as beautiful and commendable. That's the danger of pride. you don't know you have it, and when told you do by multiple sources, you're still deceived.
A simple example of this infliction of pride is the following post beneath this one.
AnonymousMarch 2, 2019 at 1:12 PM
Stanton has been beating the pride drum for 30 years at least. If you disagree with the teachers you are proud. For all we know, you are from Stanton, and are on here to disrupt this website, as it's the biggest threat to Stanton's leadership in it's history. If I was a leader in Stanton, it would be a great idea to send someone undercover on here, and attack those who are most vocal, slurring them as being proud, argumentative, self-centered, hard-hearted, fault finding, defensive, desperate for attention, and other negative characteristics. Nice strategy. Hushai used it admirably to destroy the counsel of Ahithophel. When David was on the run from Absalom, Hushai tried to join him, but David told him to go back and join Absalom's counselors and to withstand the counsel of Ahithophel who was the wisest military counselor in David's Kingdom, and ironically, also Bathsheba's grandfather. So Hushai did. Ahithophel astutely advised to strike while the iron was hot, and to take David out immediately. Hushai opposed him, and said David was a mighty warrior, and waiting for him to tire himself out was wise. Absalom took Hushai's advice, and Ahithophel, in despair, committed suicide. Of course, Absalom was defeated, and Ahithophel's counsel was right. No one knows who you are, but you repeat Stanton's usual charges. Pride, sin, pride, sin, sin, pride. Will never address substance. You've actually been saying these things on here undercover for years, and it suddenly occurred to me that you are likely a Stanton plant. God always reveals the deceitful.
However, Stanton's leaders aren't like David. They aren't merciful and forgiving. You'd never find Stanton's leaders acting towards King Saul as David did. Using Stanton's leaders methods today, King Saul would have been a dead man. David wept when King Saul, Abner, and Absalom died, all men who tried to kill him. Stanton's leaders couldn't be bothered to do that. You rarely find them mourning the falls of the righteous and hoping for their restoration.
You use the classic Stanton strategy of labelling someone as a troublemaker, with no proof, and then dehumanizing and marginalizing them. Like Stanton's leaders you prefer to do this from the shadows, as you are a coward at heart. They are like gossipy busybodies, constantly discussing sins the members are doing, and doing precious little to heal those sins.
Another straw man logical fallacy, you are full of them today. Calling out Stanton and proclaiming the truth's that God and the Bible proclaim is not putting oneself in God's place, it is rather relying upon the Word that created the world, and which alone determines truth.
You really sound like you are from Stanton. 'Spiritually weakened' is a Stanton term. No real meaning, but the members in Stanton are terrified lest the teachers call them spiritually weak or carnal. Your entire assault is nothing new. Stanton has been calling me a Korah and proud for the last 11 years. Are you ever going to get tired of it? I've probably been called proud at least 1,000 times when I was present in a Bible Class, and probably even more in churches where I wasn't present.
Another straw man argument. Never once did I paint sin as beautiful and commendable. So you are lying.
Let's reiterate the Stanton approach. Label someone else as proud, ignore what they say, then divide and conquer. Withdraw and excommunicate them, then, come on a website they comment on, and continue to terrorize them with nonsensical and unreasoning charges of pride. Unbelievable.
99% sure you are from Stanton. Classic Stanton approach, tell someone they have pride, and that they are deceived when they disagree with you. Totally irrational. Everyone has pride, as KS was fond of saying. The problem is those who try to rule over others and are blind that they are proud, and so tyrannize over them.
And that, my anonymous friend from Stanton, is you, and you are the proud one. Repent.
There are literally hundreds of charges about Stanton's leaders misconduct and perverting the Bible on here, and you haven't addressed these at all.
Instead of emptying your pride and deceived barrels on here, try to make substantive arguments on topics being discussed. And rather than hiding in the shadows and continuing your never ending pride propaganda attacks on a person who had the guts to resist your overwhelming power to your face, get some guts yourself, coward, and identify who you are. I seriously doubt you've ever stood up in your life, alone, for a principle that was true. That means you don't have courage. Courage is not pride, though Stanton is convinced it is. Courage to them is if you confess your faults to their teachers, and listen to everything they say. They can't commend that enough.
Pride and arrogance is sitting in the shadows and refusing to address the clear wrongs the leaders of Stanton engaged in, but calling others proud for daring to call them out. So, in conclusion, my anonymous Stanton friend, those who live in glass houses should not throw stones. Constructive criticism is good, even if the Stanton leaders are so proud that they refuse to listen to it, and call those who say it 'proud'.
Please don't be intimidated by the narcissist from northen Cal. 100 years ago was 1919? 100% of american agree with whay he says? Baloney! American's don't agree 100% on anything; not then, not now. Nostalgia is deception because you remember things thay way you wish they were not how they really were, 1919 saw the spanish flu kill millions worldwide, it is another vague and dubious claim that America was more wholesome and righteous than today so I am more wholesome and righteous than anyone else today so I can't be wrong, more baloney from the baloneymaster himself. Men have a higher sex drive than women? No some have more than men, some have equal to men and some have less than men, everyone is different, but what he is implying with that sexaulized comment is that he wants to have sex but no woman will subit to him, again more self centered talk from a narcissist. Everything he said is in the Bible?, again more falsehood, notice how he fails to quote any scripture but expects readers to just believe him without any evidence to back up his biblical claims. Do you hate women is the question he was asked his response equates himself with God, again more narcissism, he is not God dont let him get away with that claim. Dont believe him on anything but rather fact check all his assertions and challenge his falsehoods each and every time. Fulfill the scripture I thessalonians 5:21 prove all things; hold fast to that which is hood (and implied reject all that is evil.)
Is that you, Sun Devil? Not a fan of namecalling, but since you refuse to reveal who you are, constantly criticize, bear false witness unapologetically, with some pretty bizarre accusations, and live in a hot state, it appears Sun Devil is a term you richly deserve. Like the Devil, you lie and use your lies to slander those you hate. You've repeatedly engaged in this over the past couple of years. For newcomers, he accused GP of homosexual thoughts for GP suggesting that bringing food in the building would lead to great allowances, possibly homosexuality being tolerated. Gross exaggeration on the part of GP, but nothing like what our friend, the psychiatrist from Arizona alleges. Has constantly engaged in psychobabble, that only that fraud Freud could appreciate.
It's not wrong to not know, we all don't know things. What's wrong is to confidently charge into conversations one has never studied and to be repeatedly shown to be in error, and yet to continue to engage in this impudent behavior. Stanton does this too, on occasion, but if you disagree they withdraw from you. America's understanding of the Bible and history in 1919 was far advanced over ours, since they didn't watch television, view porn, or use drugs. 8th grade graduates in 1912, before we paid a dime for public education, since the income tax didn't start until 1913 with the 16th Amendment, were smarter than today's college graduates. The biggest business in America today is student debt at $1.4 trillion, and kids are taught nonsense. https://www.bullittcountyhistory.com/bchistory/schoolexam1912.html. Simple to prove. These 8th graders in 1912 were likely smarter than 90% of voters in America today. Of course the stubborn types will argue we have technology and the internet. Who cares? 70% of all clicks online are for porn, according to Time Magazine, and 30% of the top 10 websites worldwide are porn sites. So, we see how useful the internet is. It's a depraved hellhole. You likely have never seriously studied that time period. But, like most scorners and scoffers you reject what you little understand, the mark of a foolish man. The Spanish Flu being around does not lessen the wholesome families they had back then, as we have 110 million Americans with an STD, which is 1/3rd of our population, from the CDC.
Men generally have a higher sex drive than women, again you speak on a topic you have no idea about. There are exceptions, and I never claimed there weren't. You repeated my very argument, as I said generally men have higher drives. Do you read before you respond? It's tiring to make a point, and have you disagree with me while making the same point I made. Absurd.
Then, you come on with another whopper, alleging another bit of nonsense, about as bad as your alleging GP has homosexual ideations. Incredible how you shamelessly lie. A society where the sex drive leads to marriage and children is a healthy one. We aren't in a healthy society. You'd be a blithering idiot to suggest otherwise. And, your evil surmising, which you habitually engage in, is quite atrocious. You have no shame though, and delight in lying about others. Which is why you deserve the term Sun Devil so richly.
Indeed prove all things, Sun Devil. Had you done that, you never would have posted your last comment, and much of the other comments you posted. There is absolutely nothing I said that is not in accord with Scripture, and if you think anything is, kindly ask, and I'll direct you to the scriptural reference.
Anon 7:53 curious, are you a member of Merie’s cult? If you want to call Montesquieu a Narcissist well we know where he learned his ways. I do not believe so though. I know him and he is a great guy who has been wronged by the cult. Montesquieu as well of many single men from the cult would be married if they wanted to be married if the cult didn’t interfere with their God given rights. To date and get married. The preacher in Portland MM had disrupted men and women from that process. He is the judge in the matter. What a joke. I’d laugh in his face if he tried to deny myself that right. So sad many will never experience marriage and having children because of the cults rules. Anon 7:53 what’s your opinion on how the cult handles men and women who are interested in one another?
Narcissism is from a lack of following the first commandment:Thou shalt have no other gods before me(Exodus 20:3, Deuteronomy 5:7) When applied in ones own life the idol of self is not worshipped. When putting God first it is seen in the behavior of quietness, that is, the reserved personality, because when God is first the person is paying all of their attention to God and not busy trying to please the self through constant entertainment and mindless prattle. Behaviors tell you if a person is God centered or self centered, a wise person or a fool, if a person is good or evil. Montesquieu may have been victimized but that does not mean he is innocent and without any responsibility for his situation, nor does victimization give him the right to victimize others. The SCOC's rules on handling those who show an interest in others differs from times and cities, as explained to me by montesquieu father: Merie saw the churches needed responsible men and one way to mature the young men was marriage and so he and many others were pushed into getting married to benefit the church and not the individual, so the more appropiate question is one of control and who place is it to advise members to get married or abstain. The treating of women as inferiors and not as equals is offensive and needs to be reproved. The rewards of wisdom mentioned in Proverbs 3:16-17 long life, riches, and peace can be seen in Queen Elizabeth of England (as told in the fourty eight laws of power by Robert Greene) She did not marry nor commit fornication but through wisdom she courted the different princes of Europe and in so doing kept her nation at peace with England's neighbors, her long life, riches, and peace tells me she was wise as many women are. Merie also lived a long life, had riches(in the form of property, mentioned of virtuous woman in Proverbs 31:16 she considereth a field and buyeth it, virtuous women are financially wise thus a virtuous woman married or not will have riches), and enjoyed a peaceful life as evidenced by her study and meditations, which she shared. The fruits Merie enjoyed tells me she was wise but having not know her I can't tell if she was good or evil as wisdom is amoral and is used by both good and evil to their own benefit.
Thank you, Craig. Personally, I refuse to even consider marriage unless a woman understands biblical manhood and womanhood. 95% of the women in California don't, and that's not Stanton's fault. Neither does Sun Devil, which is why he's on his psychiatric rampages. His allegations have been repeatedly shown to be in error, but his method is to confidently disagree, get smacked down, get back up, and do it all over again.
When someone disagrees with me, God commands to be patient, but our friend the Sun Devil, has been doing this for years, and shows no signs of tiring. He calls everyone else a narcissist, first it was the preacher in Arizona, now it's me, next it will be anyone else who disagrees with him. Meanwhile, he's the biggest narcissist on here, as a narcissist constantly uses unethical means to assert superiority over others, and he is a big time liar. Making up false claims about others and evil surmising routinely, and HE HAS NOT ONCE APOLOGIZED FOR HIS FALSE CLAIMS, BUT PLOWS AHEAD TO DO IT AGAIN. It's hard to have a conversation with a liar, as you no sooner correct one falsehood when they pop up with another one. It's exhausting. A proud liar is even worse, because they will be constantly asserting nonsense and exhausting themselves demeaning those who remind them of common sense. I'm on Disqus, and if I come across types like the Sun Devil, I give them a chance to correct their lies, or to go research their impudent comments, and if they don't take it, I block them, or use them to make an example of. No point in dealing with liars. On here, you can't block them, but it's gotten to the point, that it would be wise to consider blocking the Sun Devils comments. Free speech is for virtuous speech, not illiterate nonsense, and lies. Defamation, slander, and libel are all practices that the Sun Devil has engaged in. Slander and defamation are devilish practices. We shouldn't have to come on here and defend ourselves against a known liar and his fresh lies. Not really the intent of this site. If he confessed and moved on, I'm willing to move on, but not only does he not confess, he cooks up new lies. Reminds me of the lying liberals in the media.
He does make good points at times, and I've agreed with him, but that's outweighed by the falsehoods he repeatedly posts. On the other hand, he hasn't commended anyone on here, that I've seen. But we are all narcissists, according to him. Hmmmmmm….
Also, was it you, Sun Devil, who tried to call my father out on here for child abuse, found out it was an unscriptural withdrawal, and no different from normal discipline in the 1940's, went into hiding, and emerged again, for more falsehoods? Yet, now you are on here quoting my father's explanation for how people married in Stanton? You are a paradox and an enigma.
A word of warning, I read the 40 laws of Power back as a teenager. I followed some of the common sense strategies too, but the book overall is one for a narcissist. It is all about scheming, lying, manipulating, and using any tactic possible to gain power, kind of like you are doing now. I trashed it about 5 years ago, and now am disgusted by Greene and his nonsense. The older books contain recommendations of virtue. Greene didn't bother with virtue, and that is why his principles work for the selfish narcissists, but not for the wise and for societies long term. Ultimately, when you wrong another, and lying about them is a very big wrong, that tends to come back bigtime.
Also, there was a sphere for a man and a woman. Elizabeth was known as the virgin Queen, and she had some pretty remarkable men serve under her, including Walter Raleigh, and Francis Drake, whose Golden Hind was one of the leading ships used to defeat the massive Spanish Armada, and save England from Spain.
There is more to wisdom than being able to be prudent with money, and to accumulate a lot. IF that was the measure, then Jesus and John the Baptist died failures, yet the Founders of America greatly revered them. Yet, Solomon, a very wise man, who died fabulously wealthy, didn't die revered by man and God at all, as Nehemiah said, and the people told his probable successor son, Rehoboam.
Montesquieu – You said "Personally, I refuse to even consider marriage unless a woman understands biblical manhood and womanhood." Well, I have news for you, we are all works in progress. When I married my wife, I knew she had some godly traits that I admired, but she was also beautiful and easy to talk to (for an introvert like me). That's not unimportant as a young male.
You simply don't know it all—not now, and certainly not at 18 or 20. You just try to make wise choices and take reasonable risks from what you do know about life, and God, and good marriages. And then *commit* 100%.
My wife and I simply grew together in many of these subjects, because we learned how to have a real relationship. Some of it we stumbled into, some of it was intentional.
But you don't start off with a long list of demands in marriage. Sure—I've counseled my girls to be very discriminating and wise in their selection of the person they will spend their life with. I'll 'fess up to being "that dad." But will they pick the perfect person who has my checklist of demands for my daughter all filled out perfectly? Yeah, no. That's a recipe for tyranny, resentment, and isolation.
In some ways, it's better to marry young, when a couple thinks they know it all. Then they can just grow together in Christ in true relationship. But for those who are struggling later in life in your marriages, I want to encourage you that it is possible to change on a dime and get it right later in life. I've seen it happen.
If I was attending the May/March week meeting this year, the two main points I would bring up (either publicly or privately) is concerning the evangelists getting paid and the issues with elders and leadership within the group.
As to the two evangelists being paid a salary, the main questions I have are:
1. If you are now currently paying the evangelists a salary, why then do you still condemn all other churches for doing the same? There have been some comments made here that say that the reasoning behind paying GP and TC a salary is because of the many labors they have done for the group. Other churches pay their men for the exact same reasons and yet for 40+ years you still condemn them for paying preachers. One of the main reasons Merie split off from the main-line COC and started her own church was because she didn't believe in paid preachers, and now your group is doing the same as them. Is that not hypocrisy, or am I missing something?
2. If the evangelists are being paid a salary for their labors, then why aren't the other men receiving compensation for their labors as well? There are other men who teach, counsel, travel and help start congregations, which where the reasons given for being paid a salary. Yet they aren't compensated for anything like the evangelists are (Who no longer travel and evangelize by the way). Why is that? There have been comments made from those who helped start congregations for this group in the past that say they had to pay for moving and traveling expenses all out of their own pockets. Why aren't others who sacrifice their lives and lively-hoods for the SCOC also not compensated for their labors as well?
3. Why is there no accountability measures in place to safeguard against financial misconduct from the men being paid? I'm not accusing anyone of any wrongdoing, but pointing out that the reason many have doubts surrounding the salaries is because of the secrecy behind it all. As far as I know, no one is keeping track of the finances of the group as a whole. No one knows exactly from where, when, and how much the evangelists are receiving, leaving many to wonder and not be able to trust their leadership. It was reported that they have been receiving money from up to 15 different congregations. Now I can understand why that is, as they might be taking very small amounts from many places so they don't drain their home congregation's treasury. However since there is no concrete explanation or documentation, not everyone knows for certain what's going on, and as long as that's the case the concerns will never go away. The best solution I can think of is to have those who handle the finances communicate with each other to see if the amount being taken matches up with the amount that was agreed upon them being paid, and make sure it's clearly documented for those who want proof.
As for Elders and leadership, I fully understand that having Elders might not change much. Realistically, the way current teachers behave, it may not change anything at all since most current "teachers" are yes-men behind "main teachers". Though my main questions are:
1. Why after nearly 50 years does the group still not follow biblical structure? This is a question that has been raised not just by ex-members here, but for many years by current members as well. That includes Merie, who started this whole mess, and who wanted to establish Elders herself.
2.Why are both men and women who aren't qualified to be Elders, operating just as Elders? Many men in this group, by their own admission would never qualify, yet still act as elders over single or multiple congregations. As for women, the scriptures only specify men being elders yet women "teachers" act as elders in this group as well. It's not that a woman can't teach a man or operate in a teaching capacity. But the women in this group lord over congregations with their judgements, to the point of emasculating other men and even their own husbands. Even Merie used to write sermons for the men and told them what to preach on. There were women who wanted to be just like her, so it was no surprise some of them became controlling towards brethren, their own children, and usurped the authority of their own husbands. Instead of women helping their husbands and other men become leaders, they are competing with men to become teachers in the group to lord over each other.
3. Why do teachers within the SCOC have more power than Elders, and why do they treat their own "judgements" as doctrine or commandments? Over the years many have been rebuked or even withdrawn from just for disagreeing with or not following a judgement (suggestion or advice) that was taught. You can't call yourself the "one true church" or say that you "only follow the bible" when the things that are being lorded over the congregations aren't even found in scripture. Trying to regulate the marriage bed, such as what days spouses can come together, duration, position, how many times per day, being partially clothed, etc. Trying to regulate clothing down to underwear, zippers, and mandatory pantyhose. Even telling people how they need to use their cell phones and telling them who they can and can't talk to. Some things were discussed for hours (rules for travel, rules for apparel), yet not a single scripture given on why people have to follow these things or what God has to say about it. Nothing but opinions being passed off as God's word where the scriptures are silent. Why does this still continue?
I tried to keep these points as brief as I could. If I got anything wrong or if anyone has anything to add, feel free to correct or expand on these points.
The answer to your questions of Why?
SCOC Members are Morons.
Advocate for Peace, Your questions are actually closing in on the entire problem everyone has been addressing on this blog for years now. Everything you have read coming from the experiences of those from the Stanton Churches of Christ are a result of having no qualified elders or deacons. This is the drip down from the system started from the very beginning. These churches broke off from the main Churches of Christ. When one person begins to baptize and organize groups from their teachings then of course the new members must go to the one who began the groups for council. Merie Weiss was the one person for Stanton so everyone from all the churches across the USA that she started (which is amazing in itself) all went to her for council, listened to her tapes, and attended her meetings so all could stay united. From this form of authority came GP, PP, (DWC now gone)KS, and TC plus other younger members who are being prepared to take over the same method when they no longer council. There is so much more I can say but I'll save it.
Two excellent points, Advocate for Peace. Stanton engaging in paying preachers, exactly as Merie objected to when she started Stanton can be only viewed as hypocrisy, and the payments aren't clear at all. How much, from whom, for what? The 'evangelists' obviously aren't traveling so what are they being paid to do? If you take away all the ridiculous rules Stanton has had, and all the time they spent debating them, the two evangelists likely could have been millionaires working with the same energy they spent ceaselessly talking about unscriptural teachings and enforcing them. That way they could have supported themselves, and not been emptying church treasuries. It's pretty depressing to be giving your money in the Sunday collection, knowing you pay preachers who don't travel and evangelize, but also knowing your church teaches at weekly nonmember bible classes that off churches pay their preachers and your church doesn't.
Great points, Concerned. And if Stanton isn't speedily reformed, the younger generation that will take over is going to be worse. They will likely leave us wishing for the oppression of Merie and GP. History clearly shows that when the younger members of an oppressive society take over, it grows more oppressive.
Advocate for Peace, great questions. One thing I always heard from first attending is they do not teach their opinion. Lol, what a lie.
One major point to ponder. I believe we must attack/address the leadership. It is the leaders that have created the hurt, pain, and oppression…we must be cautious in our zeal to not malign or cast aside the many good people that have been duped into conformity via fear and sin-blackmail by the known anointed oligarchs. If we are able to use this platform to attack the top, well meaning and good intentioned members will soon join our ranks. We do well to concentrate our fire on the ramparts of the dictatorous oligarchy:For in doing so, we make the people they ruled over our friends.
Side note. As a former member, although it functions as an oligarchy from the outside, on the inside there is an autocrat that operates behind-the scenes and her judgments are gospel. Her initials are K.S. her protege is D.V. used to D.G.
Fishrotsfromthehead, excellent points. I’d say most are wonderful people. It’s the teachings that need to be exposed and the harm these teachings have and will continue to be caused to families and individual members and nonmembers. Expose the head/leaders for sure and hopefully the rest of the body will see the truth. This blog has brought out so many facts of the cult that members if they to read it they’d be disgusted with what they are involved in. They have been brainwashed. Many do not even know the true history of the cult. Exposure exposure exposure whenever possible. Personally when I see a member I’ll be in their ear.
Excellent questions, AFP. Maybe someone should print them out and place them where they will be found by the entire group at the meeting. Hmmm;)
Signs You're Probably In A Cult:
– The leader is the ultimate authority.
If you’re not allowed to criticize your leader, even if the criticism is true, you’re probably in a cult. Cults begin w/ a charismatic leader who claims some supreme knowledge. They may call themselves a prophet, messenger, or an enlightened teacher. Cult leaders convince members to forfeit their critical thinking ability in return for a sense of belonging, authority, & purpose. To members, it doesn’t matter what the evidence or logic may suggest, the leader is always right, & their misdeeds are always justified. Criticism of the leader is forbidden.
-The group suppresses skepticism.
If you’re only allowed to study your organization through approved sources, you’re probably in a cult. Cults view critical thinking as an infectious disease & every effort is made to suppress it. Doubting members are encouraged to isolate themselves from outside influences & focus solely on the doctrine of the cult. Criticism is forbidden. People who contradict the group are viewed as persecutors & are often given labels like “anti,” “apostate,” or “suppressive person.” Members are discouraged from consuming any material that is critical of the group.
-The group delegitimizes former members.
If you can’t think of a legitimate reason for leaving your group, you’re probably in a cult.
Because the cult considers itself the ultimate authority on truth, it can’t imagine anybody leaving it with their integrity intact. Thus, it has to perpetuate a false narrative that former members were deceived, proud, immoral, or lazy. If former members speak out, they are dismissed as bitter, angry, dishonest or evil. Cults often impose some kind of shunning to shame former members & prevent them from infecting other members w/ the truth.
Signs You're Probably In A Cult:
-The group is paranoid about the outside world. If your group insists the end of the world is near, you’re probably in a cult.
Cults position themselves as the sole refuge from an evil outside world that is intent on their destruction. In an effort to draw in more members, cults are often very aggressive in their recruitment efforts which are usually justified as “saving” people from the evil world. Those who reject the cult’s message are unelect, prideful, evil.
-The group relies on shame cycles.
If you need your group in order to feel worthy, loved, or sufficient, you’re probably in a cult. Cult leaders trap members in shame cycles by imposing abnormally strict codes of conduct guilting members for their shortcomings, & then positioning themselves as the unique remedy to the feelings of guilt which they themselves created. Cult members are made to believe they are insufficient or unworthy on their own & that the only way to become worthy is to confess their shortcomings to the group or leader. The leader then becomes the meditiator of worthiness & the foundation of the member’s self esteem. Leaders who can make followers feel bad about anything can use shame to manipulate followers into doing anything, even if it’s against their own self-interest or better judgment.
– The leader is above the law
If you’re held to a different moral standard, specifically in regard to sex, you’re probably in a cult. A prevalent idea among cult leaders is that they are above the law, be it human or divine. This idea allows them to exploit their followers economically and sexually w/out repercussions. When confronted, they do not confess, but create justifications for their impropriety. Sexual grooming of members is common. Loyal cult members will perform any amount of “mental gymnastics” to justify or ignore the leader’s behavior.
-The group uses “thought reform” methods
If your serious questions are answered w/ cliches, you’re probably in a cult.
“brainwashing” is the process through which a cult slowly breaks down a person’s sense of identity & ability to think rationally. Behaviors like excessive fasting, prayer, scripture reading, chanting, meditation, can all be used to increase a person’s vulnerability to the leader’s suggestions. The hallmark of indoctrination is the use of thought-terminating cliches. Platitudes like “follow the leader” or “doubt your doubts” are regurgitated over & over so that members don’t have to critically analyze complex issues.
-The group is elitist.
If your group is the solution for all the world’s problems, you’re probably in a cult.
Cults see themselves as the enlightened, chosen, and elect organization tasked with radically transforming individual lives and the entire world. This elitism creates greater sense of group unity & responsibility centered on a united purpose. However, this sense of responsibility is often manipulated by cult leaders who coerce members into risky financial behavior, sexual favors, free manual labor, or heightened recruitment efforts in order to “further the cause.”
-There is no financial transparency
If you’re not allowed to know what the group does w/ their money, you’re probably in a cult. A group that refuses to disclose its finances is a huge red flag. Ethical organizations have nothing to hide.
AnonymousMarch 3, 2019 at 11:26 AM
I'm curious, was that in Robert Greene's 40 laws of power? Because I read that, and was so disturbed by it that I had a long conversation with KS about it before I was baptized. 8 years later, her explanations rang hollow when yours truly was formally withdrawn from for…..wait for it… disagreeing with the leaders.
However, the list totally fits Stanton, but it's important to differentiate the leaders from the followers. There are far too many good people in Stanton who believe they are obeying God and the Bible when they obey GP, TC, KS, and the rest of the teachers who continue to oppress, and wield their power as a cudgel to suppress dissent. That said, I've seen no instances of sexual grooming at all. Some leaders try to get sexual favors, some monetary ones, and some simply want power and admiration. Stanton is largely about the power and admiration. Pride.
Voltaire wasn't a Christian but boy was he ever right when he said this.
'To learn who rules over you, simply find out who you are not allowed to criticize'
I don't see Biblical leaders using their power to silence those who legitimately question their unscriptural teachings and practice.
But Stanton does it no problem, and the teachers are all meeting together in San Antonio today, to discuss how to continue this.
Interesting. That's where Alamo is located, and the lesson from that is that freedom and liberty is so valuable, that it's better to die free, than to live a slave. Davy Crockett, Sam Bowie, and the rest died resisting tyranny. I hope I die that way too, though Stanton doesn't need to be resisted with violence. Must make that clear, because there are some on here and in Stanton who have a serious problem with evil surmising. If jumping to conclusions were an Olympic Sport, many would win Gold Medals.
Simply Google signs of a cult. The comparison to this "church" is beyond alarming!I guess I never saw the good people you have seen during your time. It's all monkey see money do. If they told you to drink the koolaid they are going to do it. All I saw was gossiping, meddling & constant judging. And they will tell you "it's their job to judge!"..that statement sent me over the edge and was such an eye opener to the hypocrisy and self righteousness!
Good comments Anon. There are definitely enough traits of a cult to satisfy the definition. As for the sex stuff, Merie's church focuses on exposing this to the point it takes the innocence of little ones and then they wonder why the curiosity. Those concessions are wonderful to all the itching ears. Also, instead of reporting members who have sexually abused even their own children, if they are repentant, they won't report it, which is against the law.
Monte, this is the Alamo City. As the defenders of the Alamo said once, I say to Merie's group (Regarding my conscience) COME AND TAKE IT! I am so glad to be free of HER teachings and those of the current leaders too!
Things that make you say hmmmmmmm
Montyscrewloose You are not a judge just because you have your own opinions. If you want to be a judge you will have to gain followers of your opinion. That's not happening here. You can't just break in and proclaim your beliefs to everyone here as if you have some illuminating news. Tell your story as others have suggested in some other forum. Don't write your books here Please
UnknownMarch 4, 2019 at 8:07 AM
Hello Stanton plant, how are you? What congregation are you from?
Stanton has been doing a wonderful job of infiltrating this website for the past five years, and it's now very evident. You actually were successful for quite some time. You had most convinced you weren't with Stanton, but you were from this site and disagreed with me. Well, your game is over. We all know that the only ones who want to silence those of us calling out Stanton, is Stanton themselves.
HaHa, and according to Stanton, those of us who disagree with Stanton, are all crazy. So, your Montyscrewloose is typical Stanton propaganda. It never ends. Not content to run dysfunctional congregations, you have to come on here and try to rule here as well.
I don't know where you get the idea you need people to follow you for your ideas to be true. That's a logical fallacy known as the appeal to popular, where something has to be popular to be true. Total nonsense, but Stanton is full of logical fallacies from the teachers. Since the followers rarely know logical fallacies, the teachers have been successfully manipulating them for decades.
You have the same tendencies as Stanton does. Call someone crazy, claim they have no followers, and crucify them. Wait, that reminds me of another group of people, and while I'm not Jesus, you certainly are the Pharisees, resurrected again. You play your part very well. If we had a movie on the Pharisees, GP, KS, and you could play the leading role of Caiaphas to perfection.
Remember how many people followed Jesus when he was on the Cross and in a tough place? Remember the crowds that came to help him, the most perfect man in world history? Yeah, neither do I, because he was deserted by everyone, including his own disciples. So try not to use logical fallacies so much when trying to make points.
Pay attention to what is written, and try to address substance, rather than arrogantly and conceitedly coming on here and blundering with logical fallacies constantly.
And, Stanton is notorious for often having the teachers say about someone who disagrees with the church, 'So and so sent me a LOOOONG LETTER', or, 'So and so sent me a LOOOONG TEXT', and dismissing it out of hand, with no consideration of it. Ummmm, well the Constitution is kind of long and so is the Bible, and it's a good thing that people aren't lazy thinkers like you and actually read, understand, and follow it.
But, like the coward you are, keep on with your standard Stanton attacks, and they won't get you anywhere, matter of fact, for every attack I get from people like you, I'd doing 2 comments on Stanton. You are getting double what you dish out.
Loud women of Stanton
Last night, I was listening to a May Trip discussion on 'Proper Attire' from 2006. It was a discussion dominated by women, who shouldn't be teaching at May Trips at all, but should be teaching their children, and other women. The women in Stanton aren't doing a very good job at all, overall, as the retention rate of their children is less than 10%. To them, that proves they are right, because the Bible said few will go to heaven. They are masters at eluding reality.
So, this entire discussion, 13 years ago, was on wearing nylons, and how it is in the Bible. Can you believe they spent an hour bothering over whether women should wear nylons? And, it was in the same May Trip where they discussed such earth shattering topics as 'how many times should the bread be broken for the Lord's Supper', and 'should a Whopper be taken into the building when we are repairing it'?
So, when it was over, we had KS telling everyone that in her church, they didn't even need to teach the women to wear nylons, they all did it because they saw the example of other women. I'm pretty sure a woman won't be going to hell for failing to wear nylons, but we see Stanton is going to Pharisee no matter what. Majoring in minors and minoring in Majors. Making mountains of molehills, and molehills of Mountains.
As our Stanton infiltrator above demonstrates, you either go along with Stanton's Pharisaism, or they will viciously attack you, call you crazy, ridicule, and follow you wherever you go. According to Stanton, you are crazy if you disagree with their teachers, and there is no way you can prove you are not. That's just reality, and they will talk about you when you aren't there, and convince your own family and dearest friends you truly are crazy. Then, they go quiet and wait for their next victim. Spiteful serpents.
Let's focus on KS, shall we? She is way out of line, and has been for decades. And so is every last woman in Stanton who publicly shares and teaches. Just like Merie, these feminists in Stanton want to have their way. And there is hell to pay if you don't give them their way. They are masters of psychological terrorism.
For instance, when I was withdrawn from in 2008, I stupidly thought KS was an ally, and would stand up for justice. Well, I sent her an e-mail, and never got a response. Then I thought, well, maybe if I go to her church and explain to her what happened, she will understand. So I tried, and was rejected. I tried again, to simply talk to her, and when she openly ignored me, and I stood there waiting to be acknowledged, the message was relayed to my church that I was proud, arrogant, and conceited (for simply trying to have an audience to appeal an unscriptural withdrawal). Next thing I know, KS's church told me not to come around, BEFORE MY OWN HOME CONGREGATION IN VALLEJO TOLD ME, AND VALLEJO WAS THE ONE THAT INITIATED THE UNSCRIPTURAL WITHDRAWAL TO BEGIN WITH.
Further, KS has been a busybody all over the Brotherhood. I knew for a fact that as soon as DS went to Stanton, that wouldn't last long, because KS doesn't cede power easily. Sure enough, quite shortly afterwards, KS hit the road, ostensibly 'for the church' but she moved to be closer to her grandchildren. I'm pretty sure she was the one making that decision, not her husband, but this is the usual with the bossy Stanton wives.
To be clear, KS has many good attributes, but being in submission is not one of them, and since this is the biblical pattern we see, she's radically disobedient to the fundamental basics of the Bible, that even early Revolutionary War women understood. The men in Stanton are emasculated. The women are constantly reminding them of their sexual sins (not justifying sexual sin, however when there is no love in the home, there often will be love out of the home) and using this as a weapon to deny them sex, and to deny them leadership. If the men disagree, the women go running to our broken 'justice' system, to take the children and a man's earnings away from him, and claim they are righteous for doing so.
Women in Stanton love to call the shots. The most disgraceful thing about this is, that rich and powerful libertine men in the world understand the dynamic that God created better than the Stanton women do. How come Islam, that bloody and debauched religion, understands a woman is to be in subjection to her husband, far better than the women in Stanton?
Stanton will continue to have dysfunction, until the legacy of Merie is erased. A woman was not designed to be a leader of God's church, not ever. Merie, like Eve, left her place, and so a legacy of rebellion was sown to the women that they are continuing to this day.
Notice how all the Stanton plants who attack me use a woman's style of unreasoning, emotional attacks. Calling someone crazy, and telling them you don't want to hear what they say is a woman's style. And the women raise emasculated men who use their style too. I've come across many of the men raised by domineering women, and they are very emotional and unreasoning too, quite often.
The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world, but in Stanton, the women try to rule the world, and so their cradles are uncared for, often, and the next generation neglected.
Simply look at Hillary Clinton, the most corrupt candidate for presidential office in our history, and a woman. Women weren't designed to vote, or to be in leadership roles.
I just went for a Sheriff's exam this weekend, and at the exam there were 6 women who tried out. We had a simple exercise where we had to climb over a 6 foot fence and sprint to a finish line in under 12 seconds. 4 of the women couldn't even get over the fence, and the other 2 couldn't hit the finish line in time. I'm sorry, but there were certain spheres a woman wasn't designed for. Being a police officer was one, and being a leader in Stanton was another.
As a result of KS's, Merie's, and many other women's insubordination, Stanton is full of rebellious women who don't want to obey their husbands. And it's working out miserably. Couples are fighting amongst themselves, and raising children who want nothing to do with dysfunctional churches and marriages. Sad!!
Montesquieu you sound like one of the most sexiest beings I've ever seen!! There are PLENTY of women out there who pass that exam & beat a man's time! Plenty of good women out there who are cops & would probably have no problem laying you out! Sounds like you have some serious personal issues with women..rejected maybe? Either way the arrogance you carry behind your key board is hard for anyone to take you seriously. I hope one day you meet your match to a women lol
Appeal to anecdote, logical fallacy. Individual examples don't outweigh the fact that a woman's upper body strength is often inferior to men's.
We are in a society that is sick with feminism, and it will take white hot heat to get rid of the disease. If you aren't part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
What's truly remarkable, is the feminists in Stanton originate in California. California is one of the 2 biggest Democrat states in America, along with New York. Recently, retired sheriff David Clarke wrote about how the Democrat party is like a cult. There are a lot of similarities with Stanton. Extreme indoctrination, and propaganda ruthlessly directed at any who disagree.
His column at TownHall is an interesting read.
https://townhall.com/columnists/sheriffdavidclarke(ret)/2019/03/04/the-cultlike-psychosis-of-the-progressive-movement-n2542537
AnonymousMarch 4, 2019 at 11:19 AM
Oh, and by the way, I am pretty good looking, thank you, even though you clearly meant sexist. The word sexist is a common term in the Democrat Identity politics playbook, and it doesn't faze me. Anyone who stands up for biblical womanhood is automatically a 'Sexist' by the definition of the Devilish Democrats. That pretty much makes every man and woman before 1940 in America full blown 'sexists'. Funny, their marriages lasted long and were far more satisfactory than today's.
By Hollyweirds definition, and they use Satan to evaluate humans by, I’m an ugly duckling. To Hollyweird, beauty is truth. To God, Truth is beauty.
Oh oh M. I do like reading your comments but will have to ask you why you think women should not vote? And to not be in any leadership rolls? Whoa there! God did give us a brain you know and this woman who is a Christian must tell you I vote and have been in some small leadership rolls along this journey of life of nearly 80 years. And I praise God I was never duped into a cult but I have been duped by the cult and feel so badly how this one is dividing families and destroying family units. The video needs to be posted and reposted often to get the word out. And I plan to vote! Thanks for listening. It at first such a shock when my grandson and son left what I thought was a church (my outside viewpoint but thought many things were odd like holidays,etc.)
Anon 11:19 obviously you are anti Montesquieu, are you also anti Merie and her cult? Just noticed on the church directory has some new comments from cult sympathizers possibly.
I have to say that I agree with Monte's assessment of Merie's church in regard to women usurping men. They are the biggest hypocrites in teaching that women should not usurp the authority of men, yet they practice the exact opposite. Obviously the biggest usurper was Merie herself, making the entire foundation of her church built on sand. It's just so clear to me now how the entire beginning of this sect is based on a complete deception. To say one thing and do another. To say men are to lead – – and teach that evangelicals are so wrong to have women preachers when that is EXACTLY what this sect does! Stop kidding yourself, you KNOW that is what Stanton is doing with women making decisions at meetings, teaching in classes and rebuking men, and counseling marriages and men. As if teaching and rebuking from a sitting position made it right! What serpents, to use a tiny thing such as sitting to create a loophole that they are not preaching!
And while I think the woman's right to vote is a great thing, the argument is moot and 100 years too late.
As for KS from now Spartanburg, I wholeheartedly agree on your assessment of her and her situation. At the time I remember thinking she did move out of convenience. It's amazing to me that everyone else has to move mountains to move from one location, or wait years and years for approval (many times from her) yet she and her family have had several exceptions to things, including having their own family reunions (her other kids) and everyone meeting at one congregation for that. And I certainly don't mind and think that is a great thing. What bothers me is that everyone else has to jump through hoops for something like that. Having the right connections in Merie's cult helps.
Having said all that, it makes me sad that people I care about don't see the unkindness in that kind of control. It's not nice to Lord over people. The Bible says that there is one mediator between us and Christ. So why should any grown adult have to go through anyone in making decisions for themselves and their families? Is prayer not enough? Can we not ask Christ to help us? To me, the constant meddling of counsel and the need to ask for their permission to ask the church for forgiveness on certain matters really takes the place of Christ. He is our mediator, not them. Yet they'll claim the same thing about Catholics, who are they for you to go ask a priest for forgiveness? Well who is GP, KS, or any of the leaders for any of us to have to ask them for permission to seek forgiveness?
Ugh. The longer I am away from the group the clearer the deception and lies are. Talk about a fog lifted.
Thank you, M Long. Huge hypocrisy, and you are right. The women in Stanton are virtually preachers, only they sit and don't stand.
'As if teaching and rebuking from a sitting position made it right!'. Amen! Being a teacher definitely has it's perks. Also, the teachers children generally travel to other congregations to be around other teachers children more. Of course, since the leaders in the church encourage the government to do welfare, instead of spending their own riches to help the poor of their church, there is plenty of spending money for these vacations. I'm pretty sure that MG has enough accumulated wealth to pay for the welfare needs of every last member of his church. If it were done right, no one in the Fairfield church would need to go to the government for anything, since it's the job of the wealthy and the church to help the poor and the sick. Of course, plenty in Stanton have been generous with their money, but they still have very wealthy people in the church, when members of the church are going to the government for assistance. That is flat out wrong, and covetous. If the person doesn't deserve the money of the church for their own foolish decisions, they shouldn't be getting the governments money either.
Yes, we can go to God ourselves, M Long, for forgiveness. Confessions for traffic infractions are so tired, in a church that is so full of injustices so great the angels in heaven are angry about it. Ruthlessly wrecking lives and ripping apart families and sitting there with the audacity to tell people to ask forgiveness for running a stop sign!! Straining at gnats and swallowing camels. And, they can't forgive the past. So, if you actually have a conscience, and feel bad about what you do, and confess it to Stanton, they will file that away to use against you, YEARS LATER, SOMETIMES DECADES, on future occasions when you happen to disagree with their unscriptural edicts.
While I agree with 90% of your comment, I strongly disagree with women voting, and have massive evidence and data to support my position.
http://womenagainstfeminism.com/3-reasons-why-women-should-not-vote/
http://www.returnofkings.com/34330/women-should-not-be-allowed-to-vote
Before women had the right to vote, we had men and women getting married, and women having as many children as they could. Now, we have the women flocking together to pursue the men who are the wealthiest and most handsome in society, i.e. Hollyweird, and they refuse to marry men close to them in looks, age, and wealth. So, they get into their forties, figure out they are too old to have children now, and often become shrewish women in marriages, rarely happy, often bitter, and lonely. The thought of all the children they never had fills them with regret and pain for the rest of their lives. This is where today's feminist harpies come from.
The women constantly get with their friends, and gossip about men, and need their friends approval to pursue a man. Wouldn't be a bad idea, except todays young people, men and women, are probably the most foolish in American history. So the women are badly deluded. The men have their issues too, and porn, video games, and being infatuated with sports are a few of them, but generally speaking, if women would marry young, start having children, and stay out of college, stay out of the workplace (America doesn't need women at work, America needs children and mothers), and stay out of politics, our nation would be a great place once again.
A woman was the final creation of God, and she was the most perfect of all his creations, however, her sphere is in the home, and with her children, and the children of others. She is out of her place in politics. 70% of single women vote Democrat, and the majority of married women do too. That is a perfect illustration of the gullibility and naivete that is inherent in the fair sex, which is constantly deceived by the twin weapons of disinformation indoctrination of the left, the media and the schools. A girl in school wants to get good grades, does well, listens to the teacher, a rabid feminist more often than not, kisses up to her professors in college, and graduates. Wala!! You have a full blown feminazi!! She'll be going on about how her body is her property, and she has the right to get an abortion, about how we should help illegal immigrants, and how welfare is necessary. Women are notoriously fickle. That's not a bad thing when God's order is followed, and the men are the heads of the society and homes. But when they are not, women become a terror, which is what is happening with Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, Hillary Clinton, Ilhan-Omar, Tlaib, Pelosi, Waters, and the rest of the screaming banshees in the Democrat party. Spawn of the Devil, who will wreck our nation if their lunacy is not stopped.
Often, degenerates like you can think only of your animal instincts and anatomy, and your spiritual side is in terrible decay.
Kindly leave, until you learn to clean up that debauched mouth of yours. And go get a dictionary, because your language advertises you've got the reading and comprehension skills of a bilberry.
Paul talked about you 2,000 years ago, called you a brute beast. He wasn't far off.
Wow, using your religion as a weapon that sounds very similar to Stanton Montesquieu
Sounds like you are another Stanton plant. Nothing to do but run your mouth. Can you even string 2 paragraphs together? Probably not, and that's why you are so easy to control by either Stanton or the lamestream media.
If what I say bothers you more than filthy language, your values need some serious adjusting.
How brave of my detractors. Come on, utter nonsense and filth, and stay in the shadows.
Probably kids of Stanton, who are angry at their parents being called out, and attack the only way they know how, with ghetto nonsense.
There are plenty of times that the church has put restrictions on using the treasury to help its' members. I have suffered a few times of inquisitions after getting counseling to ask for help. There have been times that multiple people will ask you the same questions. The last time I did I just gave up asking, yet they will make sure that you are putting money in the plate.
I read nowhere in the bible any prerequisites to be fulfilled in order to ask for help with your winter electric bill, yet it is there. They allow the congregation to "judge" whether they think you are "worthy" of getting the help. Not withstanding abuse of funds, they can veto you from even getting help. I am so glad that God opened the doors that he did in getting us out of needing help.
When my wife and I lost our jobs I had to fight for disability while my wife was in school that they state paid for. We had NO extra money for anything, the church knew it, and did NOTHING about it. We are way better off now than then. It was like the trials of Job.
I studied, and studied, and studied, my bible and with enough of it ingrained in you it becomes that truth that sets you free and it set me free from what was going on. What was being practiced did not coincide with scripture.
It's a given that if we are living in sin that we won't repent of that the church is to intervene, but a lot of what was being taught and exercised seemed to more of their personal opinions and judgments.
I had my taste of being told that some of my confessions weren't good enough because they didn't fit their standards. It was said that it was weak because it wasn't memorable enough, yet I revealed a list of sins and practices that the Tacoma leaders were committing and it was as if it was all just conjecture.
Do you know how to keep an idiot in suspense? Post anonymously.
One thing to consider in asking why you were treated the way you were while in the SCOC is objectification. Degrading someone to the status of a mere object is objectification and it is usually cited with men who objectify women to a single purpose. However anyone can objectify another person; women objectify men as an ATM, that is only good as a source of cash. Leaders can objectify their followers demanding perfection from them with almost a complete disregard for the individuals rights, or thoughts, or desires for their own lives. I have grown the most in my love of God when free of an objectifying leader. Yes followers can also objectify their leaders demanding unreasonable standards of them. People are not objects they have hopes dreams and desires that should be respected by others.
So, without a sex drive, you believe men would pursue and marry women to have children, Arizona?
I think God's design works out pretty well.
If men weren't designed to be physically attracted to women, and woo and win them, the human race would have perished long ago.
Not sure this will jive with your college edumacation though.
I'm curious where your love affair with God legitimizes bearing false witness. The God I read about in my Bible not only says not to do it, but says if you do it publicly, you ought to apologize for it publicly, or you are to be punished. Are you reading the same Bible I am? Or does your God just let you do whatever you feel like? Tens of millions of others in America worship a God who commands them to do as they please.
Correction, when I said 'Not sure this will jive with your college edumacation though.', the correct word should have been jibe. Jive is incorrect. My apologies for the inconvenience to the reader.
Was listening last night to the 2006 talk on 'Food in the building'. Started off pretty tame, but then GM got up and began showing how Stanton was being pretty Pharisaic about prohibiting food in the building, as it was such a small issue to be dealing with. World War 3 started without delay. DV, PP, KS, and many others of the Stanton Old Guard got up to claim 'This is the way we've always done it'. GM was sat down after this May Trip, and hasn't been heard from since. He was a rising preacher before, after, he is in the Stanton Dog House. The women of Stanton don't play, and they have long memories. Cross them, and they will be after you for a long time. Very fascinating discussion. The more these past discussions are gone through, and discussed, as Stanton has never had their absurdities pointed out to them, as they threaten those who do with severe penalties, the sooner change will come.
Also, let's remember, GP has shown extreme cowardice in his Christianity. Coward :One who shows ignoble fear in the face of danger or pain
He sat and did nothing when his own wife was unscripturally withdrawn from, and then, when he knew withdrawing for uncleanness was wrong, he boasts about having carried through with the withdrawal, to be….wait for it…united with the church. Sounds like the Fear of Man to me, what say you?
So, when I drove 11 hours to his front door to appeal my unscriptural withdrawal, I suppose I shouldn't have been surprised when he followed his habit, and refused to talk to me. I knocked on his door, he opened it, refused to talk, bid me farewell, and I drove 11 hours back home.
Courage is the first virtue. None of the others are possible without it. If the leader doesn't have courage, how can any of the followers be expected to have it?
Montesquieu, that’s some crazy stuff. RH from Boise I heard got lit up for speaking on something at a May meeting. I can’t remember the details but I heard he was silenced. Basically unless you are on the in with the top leaders you better be care what you say and how you say it. Agree GP the Spring Valley paid preacher is a coward. How does he answer those that disagree or challenges him? He doesn’t. You think his wife PP calls the shots in that home? Lol
Sure is, Craig. That's just part of the stuff I kept 'putting on the shelf', as the teachers like to advise you to do if you don't understand something, before eventually in 2008, the shelf collapsed, and I couldn't be quiet anymore.
Quite likely about RH. If your name is not TC, KS, or GP, you'd be wise not to bring up new ideas at a May Trip, if you hope to return to your congregation as a teacher. Best to sit still, nod, and say nothing. Go back to your church, and give them the official overview of the May Trip. Not healthy at all.
Alexander Campbell used to have debates, publicly, with Atheists!! Stanton frantically tries to hide everything they say or do from the outside world. Does anyone really think Christ had that in mind when he said let your light shine and don't hide it under a bushel?
Does anyone know what PP was withdrawn from for? It would be interesting to see what it was about. Seems quite irregular for a preacher to sit silently while his wife speaks up on a topic and gets unscripturally withdrawn from. But, it would be pretty normal if we look to Merie for guidance on the topic.
It seemed funny when I heard so many teachers getting up at the May Trip and repeatedly saying 'We', as if their whole church agreed on a matter. Does anyone doubt that if anyone disagreed with the teacher, there would have been a pretty price to pay? So, when they say 'We, in Athens, GA, thought this way', it seems like it's code for 'I think this way, and my congregation knows better than to contradict me, and so here is my conclusion'. That seems more in keeping with facts. Not picking on Athens, GA, this happens with nearly every church. It doesn't really matter what the members think, because if it disagrees with the teacher, you are wise to put a sock in it, and stifle your dissent. When people aren't free to speak, tyranny happens. When corrupt people speak without discipline, anarchy reigns.
I know that GP and PP were withdrawn from around 1980, but are you speaking of something recent?
PP withdraw was in Boise ID by evangelist Chuck Tenet and he just announced to the congregation that the congregation had decided to withdraw from PP, GP was completely unaware and caught by surprise, even though he was the teaching preacher who had founded Boise. It was part of the charade of Chuck Tenet to go around to different congregations change the meeting times or days for personal work and Bible classes and withdraw from someone in the congregation. From the outside it looked like he was doing great work but it was just a show he was putting on for Merie, if I remember correctly. Whatever you think of GP he is nothing to worry about when compared to some of his predecessors.
AnonymousMarch 5, 2019 at 4:10 PM
Interesting. Have heard of Chuck Tenet. Didn't know he was an evangelist. Had heard of Jim Mickelson as an evangelist, who used to debate publicly. Something happened, he was demoted or left Stanton, his wife, I believe still attends in Atlanta, and that was the end of him.
GP has always struck me as a kind, virtuous, and humane man, but when this unscriptural withdrawal occurred, my view of him changed dramatically. He was the one who should have ensured justice was done, and he abdicated his responsibility, and not only in my case.
Do you have any idea what the charges against PP were? Thank you.
Defiled marriage bed.
Defiled marriage bed
Anon 4:10 under GP’s reign the unscriptural withdrawals continue. As do destroying families.
Anon 7:09 keep it clean. If you don’t care to read certain ones comments simply don’t.
Wilt Chamberlain, is that you?
Libertines and lechers aren't welcome here.
Unfortunately, pop culture has diseased your thinking to think that an animal action that dogs excel at, is somehow important.
Your comment will be deleted for vulgarity. Keep your filthy mouth shut in the future, you reprobate degenerate.
Further, the idea that anyone decides who to marry based on the animal anatomy of their mate, without consideration of the intellect, which alone is superior, immortal, invincible, immutable, and Divine, is utter imbecility, which unfortunately, due to hellivision, drugs, and porn, is what our society is full of.
Not all of us are dogs in heat, pursuing women to mate with. And where do you get the idea that coupling with random women is somehow laudable, when experience, both personal and impersonal, ought to have taught you its quite a miserable and hellish experience?
Wise women don't evaluate men based on their body proportions. Wise people don't either. We are remembered for and are remarkable for our minds.
What congregation were you from? If you ever went to Stanton, you must have had concrete in your ears to be talking like you are.
If you knew history, you'd never dream of evaluating a human based on their body, and the wise women in history didn't. But you don't, so you do.
As if a person's physical proportions mean anything?
Socrates was a short, pot bellied, bald man.
Jesus was ugly
Gandhi was a skinny, bald, thin man.
Lincoln was tall, gangly, and homely.
Should we continue?
I'm just flabbergasted that some charlatan would come on here, read everything on here, which doesn't even hint of your filth, and have the audacity to leave a comment containing the disgusting ideas you unblushingly and confidently say.
Now, when it comes to punishing your type, Stanton's withdrawal and excommunication makes sense. Most of us never did or said anything close to what you say and think, but we were unjustly punished.
Had you walked into a Stanton and said what you said on here, I'm a big fan of instant withdrawal, until you learn how to talk and think, because it's pretty apparent you never learned, and aren't interested now.
AnonymousMarch 5, 2019 at 7:30 PM
Also, remember in the Bible where it says to sleep around with as many people as possible to try and find out which partner has the most enjoyable intercourse?
Strange, but I never see that in the Bible. Matter of fact, history and the Bible agree, that the best strategy is to wait for marriage for sex. Not sure how things work in your world, but with your beliefs, it's quite likely you'd know a lot about the 110 million Americans who have an STD, out of a population of 330 million. Promiscuity is a very bad idea, and no wise person encourages it.
How anyone can know anything about their spouses body without committing fornication is impossible, so you are on here encouraging fornication. Unbelievable.
What possessed you to come onto a Christian website and think you were going to promote the sin of fornication, which God killed 23,000 for in one day?
Is that what this is? A Christian website? Because you have turned it into your personal attack platform to vent. You are just as hypocritical as the Stanton church.
Anon 8:23PM I agree with you 100%. This blogged has turned into attacks on one another & from the looks of it women. They complain but are doing the exact same thing as Stanton.
Nope I’m just someone who thinks you’re a bitter sexist. No idea who that person is
AnonymousMarch 5, 2019 at 7:38 PM
Well, then so was everyone in the Bible, and in America up until 1918, because they believed the same way as me. Try to remember we have 2 ears and one mouth so we can listen twice as much as we talk.
You're probably another clever Stanton plant. The person using vulgarity wasn't, because Stanton wouldn't stoop that low.
The word 'sexist' means practically nothing. The Democrats have taken all meaning from it. It's a silly identity politics term used by Democrats to attack men. Why? Well, 70% of single women vote Democrat, and the majority of married women do too. And these silly women, laden with sins, as the Bible says, go for the libertine above who believes animal proportions are important considerations in a marriage. With men like him getting married, it's no wonder women are getting divorces at an 80% clip. After 2 years, the physical side of things gets old. If you can't enjoy each others company and conversation, the marriage is doomed.
Are you referring to yourself as wise? That is not what I would use to describe you at all. Also to answer your question I grew up in the church but no longer attend and I could care less about what you think of my language. Montesquieu, it sounds like you have a problem with women in general, not just the women of Stanton. First of all I’d like to say that I am not supporter of the Stanton church and I could care less what you say about the people on here so all of your attempts at attacking me are pointless. As for your previous comment, Merie and Eve have nothing to do with each other. Eve directly disobeyed God, while Marie did what she felt was right when the church started to go off. That is two completely different things. Hillary Clinton has nothing to do with this as well. A corrupt female politician does not ban all women from politics. If that were so the men in politics are just as, if not more, corrupt. So your point there is irrelevant. Your argument that women have no place in the workforce is irrelevant as well. And since you are such a big fan of history, why don’t we look at the history of war. Who do you think did all the work when the men are off to war? Who were in the factories? Who built the very weapons the men were fighting with and made the clothes they were wearing? Women. If we were to remove women from the workforce we would with lose almost 50% of the workers and the economy would more than likely collapse. It sounds like you don’t want women to work, be involved in politics, or have an opinion about anything. You want them to be housewives and mothers is what it sounds like. You want them to be controlled so men like you can oppress them. And that’s exactly what you are. Oppressive. Your attempt to try and force women to conform to outdated social standards it’s pathetic and it’s sad that your misogynistic views are being allowed on this platform.
*is pathetic
By what standard do you determine who is wise or not? In your mind, who is wise today?
If it was you using vulgarity, your view of who is wise or not doesn't matter at all, because wise people don't use that language, and you just advertised your folly for all to see. Impudent people do that often.
I'm not here for your approval of my view of women. My view of men and women coincides with God's and histories view of men and women, and if you don't like that, that's a conversation you need to have with your Creator.
You say Merie did what she thought was right, when the church started to go off. But, who are you or Merie to say what is going off or not? Where did the New Testament give a woman the right to start a church?
Yes, let's look at the history of war. Not sure why you brought it up when you can't name 5 biographies of the Founders of America you've read, 10 Civil War Generals from memory, or 5 generals from World War 2. Maybe study a topic before bringing it up.
Yes, women did an admirable job when men were dying by the millions, but they never went back home after Japan bombed Pearl Harbor, December 7th, 1941.
Our economy might dip slightly in the short term, but if women went home and started having as many children as they could, our economy would come roaring back. You obviously have little faith, and so, as Henry Ford said, 'Whether you think you can, or you can't, you are right', you are right, women can't go back home, because it is your attitude, not your aptitude, that determines your altitude.
Flat out, if you studied our nation much before 1900, you'd find women were a lot better off before they had the right to vote, before they were working, and before they were massively going to college. As it stands, we have more female slavery in America today, percentage wise, than we've ever had before. There are more women prostituted in our nation than ever before. So tell me all about your 'equality' and 'muh women's rights'. Besides, you women obviously support pornography, which is the enslaving of your fellow women. Before you got the right to vote, we didn't have issues with that, on the scale we do today. We didn't have issues with fatherlessness, as we do today when you have the right to vote. In 1947, 3.6% of the babies born were born without a married father in the home, today, 39.8% are born without a married father in the home. Children born without a married father in the home are much more likely to get into crime and poverty. Thus creating an even bigger welfare state, which women overwhelmingly support.
Nothing wrong with women being housewives and mothers, despite the media stigma that brainwashed you into thinking otherwise. That was the place for a woman, the sphere where she excels, and when she left it, our nation has fallen apart, and it will get worse. You'd do well to go back while you still can. The day will come, if you and many others don't, when a Muslim man will take you, rape you, and beat you. Then, perhaps you might change your mind. Islam doesn't recommend right behavior from women, they force you. Considering how stubborn many women are, like you, that is what you will have to look forward to.
And you repeat your feminazi nonsense that the Killer Angel, Margaret Sanger was always spouting about how 'muh men are so controlling and oppressive'. You'll be a bitter harpy, and won't do anything in life if you stay on that path. Plenty of feminazi's have been termites trying to rip the house of America down before you came along.
Was that you or a male friend that posted the crude comments earlier? I'm guessing it's an attempt at an intellectual attack by the man in your life who you walk all over routinely. Could be wrong.
Also, please try not to advertise your woeful ignorance of our history so much, and stop repeating Marxist claptrap. When you can name 5 biographies of the 204 Founders of America, that's when I'll be interested in what you have to say. The library is free, it's obvious you have had a lifelong allergy to it. Time to start reading and stop talking.
And, for those who think my approach is too strong, it's not. Solomon advised, 'A rod for the back of a fool', and 'Open rebuke is better than secret love'.
'No man is hated more than he who tells the truth'. Plato
Truth sounds like hate to those who hate truth.
How about 'where two or more are gathered together there am I in the midst'. Start baptizing and wait for a strong male babe to raise up as your preacher and you have the right order of things. But a woman can get the ball rolling. There is no gender indicated in the gathering of the three.
We were warned when we gave women the right to vote that it would be a disaster, and it has been. Women have been all over getting an education and getting jobs, and they have neglected marriage, children, and their homes. There are many good women who do understand God's will, but you apparently aren't there yet.
Hillary was the wort Presidential Candidate in all of history. The left is Marxist, and you should study Marxism. https://www.amazon.com/Naked-Communist-Exposing-Communism-Restoring/dp/1545402159.
The left has 3 victim groups, though not all members of these victim groups participate. Women, African-Americans, and Homosexuals. Marxism dictates these 3 victim groups are to wage war on the white male, since whites make up 63% of America, and it has been working out great for the left, and Crooked Hillary nearly won the election. https://wallbuilders.com/americas-biblically-hostile-u-s-president/
Hillary's massive scandals were a disgrace.
https://wallbuilders.com/americas-biblically-hostile-u-s-president/
Not only did the lamestream media hide these, but they created lies about Trump to divert attention. Their biggest lie, Russian Collusion is still ongoing. However, Americans are so busy with their porn, drugs, and television, that they are easy to delude. The church and marriage are the backbone of America, and both are in sad shape. The woman being in subjection is a huge part of marriage, and the vast majority of women in America haven't any idea how to go about this. Great post on a woman's submission in marriage today, by a woman who actually does this. https://thetransformedwife.com/are-husbands-commanded-to-submit-to-their-wives/#comments.
Never mind the men, the women were never created to lead, period. When you get that, you'll be happier, healthier, and wealthier.
Women don't belong at work at all, when they are married. By going to work, they dilute the workforce, lowering the wages of men, who now can no longer support a wife and children. We went from 1900, when men and women were pretty equal, to today, when women group together and pursue the wealthiest and most powerful men, often waiting for a spouse until their biological clock has run out and they can no longer have children. Wise women long ago married at 18-20, and didn't bother about a husband being wealthy or powerful, they trusted he would work his way up. Women today don't do that. Men have their issues too, but we are to be in subjection to God, and a wife is to be in subjection to her husband. We really shouldn't even be considering a woman for marriage if she doesn't believe in having children, and biblical submission. If all of us men thought this way, and weren't wimping out for porn, fornication, etc, women would be falling over themselves to marry and have children. But, as it stands, you play on the weakness of men, which you will be punished for. You go for the men who are easy and who give you lots of money, and don't want to have kids. Then, when you age, you whine and cry when that man picks out a new model and ditches you. You got what you wanted. You made your bed, now you have to lay in it.
Thank goodness reasoning and rational thinking in America is waking up and finally being discussed by the adults. With the archaic electoral college going away, we'll finally have every voice in America represented like it should be, women included.
Note, the posts are out of order.
Part 1: MontesquieuMarch 5, 2019 at 8:47 PM
Part 2: MontesquieuMarch 5, 2019 at 8:49 PM
Part 3: MontesquieuMarch 5, 2019 at 8:50 PM
The time signature notes it, but they aren't in chronological order.
Lastly, it's extremely foolish to criticize ideas you don't fully understand, and yet that, AnonymousMarch 5, 2019 at 8:16 PM, is exactly what you just did. The only way the left, and often Stanton, can win an argument, is with withdrawal, excommunication, and from the left it's profanity and lies.
'If a man will begin with certainties, he shall end in doubts; but if he will be content to begin with doubts, he shall end in certainties.'
Francis Bacon
And, a woman with an attitude like yours is one that every smart, virtuous, and wise man stays FAR away from.
'It is better to stay in the corner of a housetop than with a brawling woman'
'It is better to live in the desert than with an angry and a contentious woman'.
Life will get a lot easier when you find the sphere God designed for you, and stay in it.
You pull a stunt like you did on me with a leftist man, and you would have likely been called some very choice words, and may even have been beaten. The problem with many women is they were neglected in their childhood, or molested (which has become far more common since the illicit legalization of porn in 1969), and they become bitter and angry at all men, and want to attack us all. They often end up with brutes who will hit them, or will call them vicious names and belittle them. But, since they didn't know the love of a father, sadly, this is what they settle for.
My heart goes out to types like you, and I empathize with you, but I don't sympathize.
Either you had a Godly father and you rebelled, which is very unlikely, or you didn't have one, and simply don't understand the love of God through a strong man, which is far more likely. Either way, may God heal and help you. Any further attacks will be dealt with as necessary.
Ah so I see you are you are coming from. You are a narcissistic conservative who weaponizes your politics, religion, and your belief in a being that may not even exist in order to make yourself feel superior to the opposite sex. You then quote a specific number of books you have “read” to make yourself appear more intelligent than your opponent, while stating your twisted opinion as facts by following them with quotes that are irrelevant to the conversation. Then proceed to attack your opponent directly and supply a scripture as justification to the reader for your actions. The sheer amount of propaganda you post daily may convince the reader you are somewhat knowledgeable. You are obviously psychologically sick and the fact that you said women will be raped by Muslims if they do not submit to men and return to the home proves that you were not only anti-woman but perhaps racist as well. Strong women who have a strong voice does not come from being neglected as a child. And if they were neglected as a child, how is it their fault? How do you manage to blame the woman for something the man did wrong? You are just angry women think for themselves. Also the fact that you managed to blame pathetic fathers for leaving their children and families on women is astounding. No matter what anyone says you will always find a way to blame women and justify your actions. That has nothing to do with the Stanton church but perhaps an event in your life that created this bitterness in you that you are spewing on this site every day. Conversation with you is a lost cause. I suggest you go see a therapist to help you cope and move on with your life.
*where you are coming from
AnonymousMarch 5, 2019 at 9:41 PM
Ah, so you are simply repeating the Marxist claptrap the media and schools have been filling your mind with from girlhood. Well, you came to the wrong site. You have zero arguments, like Stanton, have absolutely no factual data to support your beliefs, but stubbornly and passionately cling to them in the face of tremendous evidence to the contrary. That's insanity. However, the therapist you recommend for me, is from the left wing, and they are as lost as you are.
That's about the 100th time I've had the word 'narcissist' thrown at me, which is a common term, and I'm betting you don't even know the Greek origins. You love to use psychological terms. Matter of fact, you may very well be our friend Arizona, as he uses the term 'narcissist' quite a bit on here, though nearly everyone who is brainwashed by the leftist media and schools will.
You are a Sophist. You know practically nothing of history, as your writing repeatedly advertises, but that doesn't bother you. Instead, you get up, and try to use specious arguments to impudently attack those of us who actually did the work to prove our beliefs. Go bully someone else with your nonsense. You haven't got any idea of what objective truth is, and are simply a slave of the propaganda masters who indoctrinate you daily. So sad to see so many pawns of the Marxist evil doctrine. https://www.amazon.com/Disinformation-Strategies-Undermining-Attacking-Promoting/dp/1522605088.
A KGB agent, Yuri Bezmenov, told about how people like you would be brainwashed, back in 1983. Probably before you were even born. If you won't learn, other readers will. https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=yuri+bezmonev+interview&&view=detail&mid=162C3203A6166CC0E0A0162C3203A6166CC0E0A0&&FORM=VDRVRV.
I don't have to do anything to feel superior to the opposite sex. God created me in my sphere, and you in yours. You left yours, and it's not pretty, though it's unlikely you grasp what's going on.
It's doubtful you've got 20 books on your house written before 1950, based on your opinions. You could be CNN, because you parrot every bit of drivel they say daily. You obviously don't read, and you are too lazy to start. So, you hate to learn, and you insist on forcing your nonsense views on others, who do the work to learn. May have worked for bullies at school, but it won't work on here. You can take your pretentious and conceited ideas right back where you came from, because no one is buying them on here.
Sophism was tried before, but they don't teach that in schools. https://larouchepub.com/other/2003/sci-techs/3035sophism.html
Your entire diatribe is simply an attack on ideas you know nothing about. Impudent folly. Yet, you are too proud to admit you don't know. You obviously didn't learn from Stanton. A wise person investigates carefully, INDEPENDENT FROM SOCIETY AT LARGE. But not you. You charge right in to let the world know what your opinion is. Wise people question, foolish people assert.
You live in a nation whose Founders quoted the Bible more than any other book, and if you don't like the Bible, maybe leave. We'd be better off without your ideas, to be honest. As it is, our nation is being destroyed by your fellow termites who share your ideas. No, Ma'am, propaganda is that hellivision, Google, your schooling, and the similar indoctrination of your family and friends that happens daily. Just tell everyone on here where you get your news from, and I'll show you what propaganda looks like. Funny how you love the lies that are told you, but you hate to be told the truth. 'Do I become your enemy because I tell you the truth'? And while you are on here with your nonsense, someone posted gross vulgarity, and that doesn't bother you at all. Could have been you, but you are on here preaching to us. Hypocrite much?
Your tactics are the typical psychological terrorism Stanton employs. It never fails. When anyone tells the truth, a tremendous backlash happens, that sometimes gets them killed. Which is why we have the First Amendment, to protect us from tyrannical charlatans like you who like to throw their weight around, but haven't any idea how to search out and prove truth. You can leave here, and everywhere you go, there you are. The truth won't change because of your opinion of it. The sooner you accommodate yourself to it, the better it will be for your future. Reject it to your own peril. Then you equate opposing Islam with racism. Where does your folly end? How come your school and media never taught you on Islam? https://www.apologeticspress.org/apcontent.aspx?category=7&article=1142
https://thereligionofpeace.com/
You aren't a strong woman at all, let me disabuse you of that idea. You are a stubborn, rebellious, and weak woman, who has no idea what she is doing or saying. Strong women don't talk and act like you. They are in obedience to God, they are meek, mild, not brassy, bossy, and boisterous. They aren't trying to dictate anything to men, they are teaching other women and children, which is a role that you are neglecting, wasting my time trying to teach me things you have never learned.
Being neglected isn't a woman's fault, but it is her fault when she turns around, and makes wrong choices in life on her own. Never blamed a woman for a man's mistakes, however, life is 90% how we respond to it, 10% what happens to us. Women thinking for themselves has got us into a disastrous state, that we weren't in when women excelled at being mothers and wives, so cogitate on that, if you would. Please stop with the straw man arguments, never blamed women for derelict fathers, however, women do initiate 80% of divorces, that's a fact.
You are a brazen hussy, a termagent, a virago, a Xanthippe, and a brawling and a turbulent woman. No good man will ever marry you if you continue with this attitude, and you will attract men who will mistreat you, I'm afraid, with this attitude. It never fails. Unfit women attract unfit men, and unfit men attract unfit women. I've been the latter. You are currently the former.
You haven't addressed any of the issues with Stanton, and like Stanton, fail to reason at all, and simply dismiss all that is said with straw man and ad hominem attacks that have nothing to do with the points made. Your arguments are full of logical fallacies, like Stanton.
And recommending I go to a therapist, when psychiatry is truly bogus, suggests you have some experience there. I've never had a psychotropic drug, and am perfectly fine. So, maybe you can inform us what your experience is with shrinks and psychotropic drugs? Best,
Just what I expected. A long drawn out response in an attempt to distract the reader from the real problem here. You. I am aware this blog is supposed to be about the Stanton church, but I have decided to focus on your attack on women and your problems, as you seem to be deflecting. That seems to be what you are good at. Deflecting. In an attempt to ignore that you have a problem you attack me instead. This is common in people who refuse to admit they are wrong. Your creative name calling is interesting as well, are you using an insult thesaurus? I imagine you are an old single white man who spends his time alone complaining about women and then wondering why none of them want him? Well this is why. And probably because it seems like you spend most of your time on this blog. But please go on, your outdated and close minded way of thinking is now just entertainment. Keep justifying yourself, let’s see what you will come up with next.
A brawling woman never knows when to be quiet.
Do you realize how silly you look? You literally dismissed information that would take at least 3 full days to fully digest, and you keep right on talking. The impudence of your type is mind boggling. But you don't get it, because no one taught you on impudence. You have a perverse mind, that's clear, because you don't object to some of the garbage on here earlier, and it's likely it was actually you, because you showed up at the same time. So when we deal with those who use drugs or are promiscuous, you can ramble on all night, with zero facts and zero reasoning, as you've been doing for the past 3 comments.
In a debate, both sides give reasons for why they believe what they believe. But we can't debate, because you have no idea why you believe what you believe. So to salvage your lost cause, you go on with your nonsense Marxist propaganda, (and you clearly don't even know Marxism just killed 100 million in the last century), and keep right on going. It's very sad, but we have tens of millions of mindless drones (and yes, I am calling you a mindless drone, because the sooner your realize you are a puppet, the sooner you can do something about it) in our nation, who listen rarely, but absolutely love to talk. Occasional Cortex is a great example. A woman unfit for leadership, but jabbering every day, ceaselessly.
Deflecting is a good word, and its what you are doing. You have massive data and facts proving points right in front of you, and you….wait for it…deflect.
Beautiful. Like Stanton you begin conversations by telling people they have a problem, when the real problem is your bossy and brawling attitude and lack of understanding. I mean, it's embarrassing. You just had nearly 50 sentences come your way, and you have no idea about half of them, and you keep right on talking. Do you think we all don't realize you are overwhelmed, as you ought to feel, and are trying to salvage your wounded pride? You were the one that started this, and you should have thought twice before you did, now you are getting your just desserts. I never attack others on here first, but when I am suddenly and viciously attacked, well, you have only yourself to thank for what you receive in response.
Then you bring race into the conversation. Unbelievable. Another Marxist card. Because someone's skin color has something to do if what they say is true or not.
In a State that is dysfunctional like California, where 95% of the women like birth control, what makes you think I want any of them? Women like you are walking death traps. Your beauty is poisonous and to be avoided. You mostly dress immodestly and are insecure. Just like poisonous snakes and poisonous fish are brightly colored, your type wears very revealing clothing, often, to lure unsuspecting men to you, like the woman in Proverbs 7. You hate staying at home, and you think you are a Goddess.
You can leave this blog, but for the rest of your life, you'll never forget what happened, however hard you try. Because facts don't care about your feelings. Plenty of people like being lied to and flattered, but the wise prefer correction, because they know wisdom is obtained n o other way. Unlike Stanton, I'm talking about correction in accord with reality. Stanton cracks down on people for far less than you did tonight.
Impudent women like you are kind of common. But, strong men know you a mile away, and we avoid you. The world lied to you and told you we want you only for sex. Well, there are some of us who can control ourselves, and unlike your opening statement, which was crude, rude, and lewd, we don't look for pretty women alone, we look for a woman who knows God and obeys him. We run away from woman like you, because we know your type has destroyed many men in history, and the wise men don't want to be the next ones torn apart by your type.
Solomon warned all about you in Proverbs, 3,000 years ago. Sadly, even he couldn't take his own advice.
It's a good thing you don't say your name, so you can retire in grace. Because your debating skills are a joke. But, the price for telling the truth is to be consistently and doggedly set upon by both Stanton and vulgar and brawling women like you. Not worried. One man with God is a majority.
When women like you start playing identity politics, we know what happens. Hillary did it when she called all Trump supporters Deplorables, a wonderful badge of honor that all Trump supporters happily relish.
And so, she was trounced in the election, and it's a lesson you can learn from. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=idrgiAEk2Vs
Further, a narcissist likes to talk about themselves. In your comment, you had 14 sentences, including 2 with only 1 word, and you used the word I 4 times.
In my responding comment, there were 50 sentences, and the word I was used 6 times. The percentage of sentences you used I in was 29%, nearly a third of the time, and as for yours truly, it was 12%. So, we can see who is a narcissist.
Please stop with the whole woman thing Anonymous. You'll never change his mind and we can see right through the woman hating and the mental issues here. Just leave it alone and let's get back to the stuff this blog is about because some people just have to have the last word (or dissertations).
Is someone going to get the March Week discussions to Kevin again? It'd be fun to hear the new rules.
Hosea 4:11 whoredom and wine and new wine takes away the heart. Whores and wine have the same effect in that they make the individual that partakes in them believe that they are more than what they really are, and that life is going to be easy for them, in short it deceives them. Proverbs 7 tells of the murdering whore and how she uses the deceitful recruiting practice of flattery upon her victim and proverbs 23:29-35 tells us of the decieveing
effects wine has upon an individual. Wisdom is a wine that deceives the simple into believing the are smarter than what they really are, only when an individual takes knowledge and applies it to themselves first can they develop understandings of how to apply knowledge with love to others, 1 Cor 8:1 knowledge puffs up but charity edifies. Mixing wine from different sources can produce a highly intoxicating alcohol, mixing wisdom from two different sources can create the same effect. Mixing political wisdom with religious wisdom creates leaders who are viewed as saviors as was Hitler, Stalin, Mao, Pol pot, etc. Separation of church and state is essential to the prevention of such horrible and powerful leaders. Going before a city council, a political body, to denounce the appointment of a homosexual, a religoius teaching, is an example of mixing wisdoms to an ill effect. When he who shall not be named uses political knowledge in a religious context call him out for his foolishness, reproofs of instruction are a way of life (to those who seek wisdom.)
We can't really go a day without the mixed up lies and snake oil solutions of Arizona. Thank you for your daily contribution. Muddled, as usual, but as long as you are fine with it.
Never drank a day in my life, and repented of fornication years ago, but we have to listen to you drone on and on with your false accusations. Shotgun approach. Throw a lot of filth, and hope something sticks.
It's just you hate the truth and anyone who speaks it. It's a common theme in the history you never learned. I'd be very disturbed if I was caught in bold faced lies, but it doesn't bother you a bit. You don't apologize, and proceed to tell the next one, with enthusiasm. No righteous person in the Bible like you, they were all wicked.
In your book, it doesn't matter what is right, it matters who is right, and if it isn't you, you have a big resentment. Like Cain, you plot, scheme, and try and take down the object of your envy and jealousy. All you have to do is simply make the efforts to ensure what you say is true. That's not hard. But, rather, you want everything you say to be given participation prizes, and when it's not, you are on the warpath.
Mixing political wisdom with religious wisdom is what the 204 Founders of America did. I like how you copied my citing of Hitler, Pol Pot, Stalin, Mao. You got it wrong, because you didn't research them.
Separation of Church and State is no where in the Constitution and is a myth, which those who research before talking, which you rarely do, all know. https://wallbuilders.com/letters-danbury-baptists-thomas-jefferson/
I'm appalled at how confident you are in your half truths and flat out lies.
The Supreme Court was never given the Constitutional Right to legalize contraception, abortion, porn, or homosexuality, and yet we have confident and impudent types like you, who blare on about how we should just accept this. Good grief!!!
150 years ago, we took men like you in the public square, and you were whipped in public for being a nuisance. In school, we sat you down with a dunce cap, and the entire class laughed at you, and you learned wisdom that way. With the internet, we can't do that, because there are too many of you, and we'd be having whipping sessions for the next century.
Have you any decency and common sense? You arise from one lie, to proceed to your next one.
You are the only person on here, who I believe would need to be withdrawn from and excommunicated by Stanton. You constantly lie, and you disagree with the most basic truths that you don't understand. You can't reason with a person like you. Not sure how you can change, unless you learn humility, which means understanding you don't know what you think you know. We all don't. That's why I research new information every day, because I know I don't know.
Like Stanton, you compensate for your laziness in proving your ideas, by claiming those who have done the research and know what they are talking about, are proud, puffed up, and now you allege I'm like Hitler, Stalin, Mao, Pol Pot, biting off what I've been saying.
Not sure if you've ever experienced shame in your life, but if not, it would be nice for you to get heaping helpings, as self introspection would do you good.
Can you at least admit you lied about Gary Preman and you don't know anything about the Separation of Church and State? Can we start there?
AnonMarch 6, 2019 at 1:55 AM
Kindly disagree with points. If anything you read is false, correct it. If not, don't dismiss ideas because you don 't like them.
Facts don't care about your feelings.
Truth sounds like hate to those who hate truth.
A Stanton parrot. Allege hate and mental issues, and dismiss an entire argument. The female leaders in Stanton are notorious for doing this, and the male leaders are too.
When facts are presented, either present your own facts to disprove them, or state why you disagree. It's pride to emotionally dismiss ideas you cannot reasonably dismiss. Stanton does this constantly, but hollers pride without ceasing. The Democrats do this as well. Our friend Arizona has no criticism of a party that supports homosexuality, abortion, race baiting, and Islam, but comes on here to righteously make his pronouncements. He won't answer any queries about who he is, or questions about his constant bungled judgements, but will be on with his next decree sometime shortly. We are all supposed to unthinkingly bow down to what he says, or we are proud, lustful, wine drinkers, etc.. LOL, just like Stanton. Demand unquestioning and unreasoning obedience to half baked ideas.
We do agree on a desire to hear the new March Trip rules.
Still recovering from the astonishment that people travel thousands of miles to discuss how many times the unleavened bread must be broken, or wearing nylons in church. This, when the church in America is in the worst state its ever been. 'Muh priorities'.
And we have reasonable types who come on here, from Stanton in the past, and claim finding a spouse has something to do with being intimate with each other carnally before marriage. They say it with a straight face too. LOL. That idea makes about as much sense as what Stanton is saying.
Dear reader,
Arizona has been a regular contributor on here for years. There have been many good contributions from him on the 'Tow Truck Preacher', which it turns out is likely DS. Interesting facts we heard from nowhere else. Mostly, what he posted was insightful. However, when he began launching attacks, without justification on my comments, as he repeated again, with no factual reasons for doing so, it simply couldn't be tolerated.
Truth is like a lion, it can defend itself, and it should never sit quietly, when under attack, with the exception of extraordinary circumstance, such as Christ being crucified and questioned.
Mr. Arizona has lied about Gary Preman, has just above lied about the Separation of Church and State. He lied about another matter regarding me in the past, and I have forgotten it, as I don't try to catalog all of peoples lies. He has never once apologized. He is a serial liar, will not identify who he is, continues to lie, and it appears as if he has a lot more lies to tell, if he keeps this up. The problem with the internet is it allows liars and scoundrels to freely spread their nonsense and lies with impunity and no consequences. Since our nation is full of the naïve and gullible, it's easy for Arizona to get away with it. For instance, when he confidently states the Separation of Church and State makes criticizing homosexuality in the public square a no no, he is playing on the average American's being uninformed on the entire history of that phrase and where it came from. The media and schools don't teach it, so unless a person does some serious research, they won't know.
If he apologized for his many lies, and proceeded to tell the truth, he would be a welcome addition, but he shows no such inclination, and, anyone who values the truth, must consistently repudiate his frequent departures from it.
If he is allowed to speak, with no contradiction, there would be chaos. There would be no absolute standards of right and wrong. A person who cannot tell the truth is not fit to lead anyone else anywhere. If they themselves are not guided by reason and truth, how is it any wise person would follow them?
That is all.
I personally like unity, but when people come on here with vulgarity, feminism, lies, half truths, and distortions, there must be a response, or evil will rule, and that simply cannot happen.
Since our friend Arizona, and the feminist invader use left wing identity politics, here is a 5 minute video on the tactic. When you can't win an argument, call your opponent a racist, a sexist, a misogynist, a hater, etc…. Or, if you are Stanton, call them Korah, proud, lustful, and on and on.
https://www.frontpagemag.com/fpm/273032/video-how-debate-right-wingers-frontpagemagcom
'If they attack you personally, it means they have not a single political argument left'
Margaret Thatcher
But Monte you have been on the attack mode for days against women. I just read every single comment under this feed. The majority of them are from you & mostly about your negativity towards women…but then you post a quote saying 'If they attack you personally, it means they have not a single political argument left'…The grown up thing to do is agree to disagree. You can't throw insults and not expect to get a reaction out of people. That's not the point of this blog by any means nor is it what Donna's video was about. Maybe you should start your own blog..I'm sure you could find many followers like yourself who have so many issues towards women…We don't need to read a long drawn out exhausting response that nobody really cares about..just simply agree to disagree and move on. Simple as that. Donna I commend your bravery & am happy to hear you found God's grace!!
AnonymousMarch 6, 2019 at 2:21 PM
Another straw man argument. Never attacked women. Attacked societies destroying God's design for man and women.
'Negativity'. Modern women use this word to describe ideas and facts they don't like. Again, facts don't care about your feelings. Rather than try and change facts and reality, try to change your attitude towards them. It's pride that tries to create alternate realities, and refuses to acknowledge objective truth, and that is your issue. You didn't disagree with a single fact I posted, complain about how long it is, when the truth is always pretty thorough and extensive, then lazily and impudently dismiss it all.
Impudent: Characterized by offensive boldness; insolent or impertinent.
Insolent: Audaciously rude or disrespectful; impertinent
Impertinent: Exceeding the limits of propriety or good manners; improperly forward or bold
These are three words you, Arizona, and a few others on here are guilty of, but with your specious reasoning, which reasons only that your ideas, however mistaken, are correct, and any you disagree with, however factual, are incorrect, you will be able to twist the words to suit your purposes, quite likely.
You chose to be insulted by facts. That's your issue, not mine. You have no counter facts or arguments, but simply try to dismiss and silence ideas you don't like. That is the whole point of the website, is to protest Stanton doing this, and you are acting the same way.
We have the First Amendment, and besides vulgarity and lies, which my opponents tend to specialize in, since it's the only way they can hope to be equal in a debate, it was created for all speech, especially the ideas you don't like.
There are a few of you on here, who offer nothing much of substance, but insist on throwing your weight around to get rid of ideas you don't like.
Tyranny: Absolute power, especially when exercised unjustly or cruelly: "I have sworn . . . eternal hostility against every form of tyranny over the mind of man” ( Thomas Jefferson).
I have not exercised power unjustly over anyone. You, on the other hand, and Arizona, try to suppress dissenting ideas. You openly tell me to leave….becuz………. you don't like what I say. Well, the truth doesn't really care if you like it, and neither does God, it just is, and you and your feelings can go take a hike.
Speak for yourself. No one forced you, proud and conceited, to come on here, and attack ideas you don't understand. You chose to do that. You met opposition, and now you insist you are some kind of victim, and I need to be quiet. Well, I'm not going to be quiet, and you are only a victim of your own choices. Make better ones and you'll get better results. Don't expect to go charging into topics you haven't thoroughly researched and get good results. It won't happen.
God's design for women was wonderful, your design, and the left's design for women is miserable and wretched, and the millions of us who object to the secular hell you worship won't be quiet because you want us too.
Try to speak for yourself, state your beliefs, your facts. You don't speak for any Christian on here, and you don't really speak for anyone but your own selfish, willful, stubborn, rebellious and recalcitrant whims.
I did start my own blog, with Kevin's help, and in just 6 months, there are 140,000 page views. http://messanonews.com/.
You object to a long, drawn out, exhausting response, because you are a lazy thinker, and hate the reasoning that finding the truth entails. Its pretty likely you don't object to listening to music, watching movies, and watching television. So we see, your priorities are mixed up.
He did start his own blog but nobody read it. He resorts to personal attacks when confronted with his behavior a predicable response of the arrogant. Envy? Envy is the product of comparing, in his video before the city council he opens with stating his desire for a bazooka, a machine gun, and a rifle. He mentions this desire three times, indicating it is a truth that he desires this symbol. All three weapons are phallic symbols and what he is saying is that he desires a large phallus which is envy, which comes from comparing and where would he be comparing himself to other men? He without realizing it has revealed his porn addiction to those listening, he is unclean by his own admission. People often speak about themselves in the third person when they say I have this friend, I know this girl, I knew a man in Christ about fourteen years ago, so when he states he knows a man who is very confident and developed a drug addiction because he though he could handle it he is really talking about himself, how does he hope to pass the lie detector test given to police candidates when asked about prior drug use? He is to me only a sharpening stone for my reasoning skills, he attacks me in ways that I would never have thought about and as a result it makes me strengthen me arguments, so bring it on it does force me to become better which I dearly need.
Can you do math? This site, while devoted to a narrow audience, has 262,000 page views in 7 years. My site has 140,000 in 6 months. Did you graduate from Algebra 2?
Dear Arizona,
Can you please clear up your lies about Gary Preman and the massive errors contained on your last comment in regard to the Separation of Church and State? We all make mistakes, but when you publicly lie or make unforced errors, you ought to be man enough to publicly correct them.
Otherwise, stop quoting the Bible, because you are a fake Christian. Christians correct their errors.
Oh my goodness!!! You have one perverted imagination. Equating the 2nd Amendment right to carry a Bazooka, a machine Gun and an AR 15 with a phallic symbol is pure lunacy.
Kevin, are you reading this craziness?
I used to think Stanton was off when they said people lose their minds, but you are making me reconsider my stance. Oh my goodness!!
Then you go onto body parts again. Something is seriously wrong with your thinking. This comment will probably be deleted, I'm guessing, because you are back at your traditional lies. Can you even tell the truth?
Then, you continue with your lies alleging nonexistent addictions, but this is nothing new for you. According to you, Gary Preman has homosexual fantasies. Hopefully Arizona withdrew from you. I was withdrawn from for walking disorderly, but you are doing that right now, repeatedly.
You were asked 2 questions above. Are you able to read and respond? You haven't read and responded to a single question on here that I noticed. But, you have no shortage of comments.
LOLOLOL. Then you are on to your next lie, alleging I used drugs, when I never did in my entire life. My goodness, can you just please stop lying? You are machine gun fishing. What you do is throw out as many allegations as possible, study the response, pick a weak point, and attack. A very corrupt and wicked tactic, but evil types like you use it routinely.
You violate the command against lying with nearly every comment.
However, the best way to deal with a liar is to keep track. I didn't have the inclination before, but from now on, we are going to keep track.
Every comment you postt from now on will be responded to with a list of your lies on here, so everyone will be alerted to your being a chronic and impenitent liar. And this is just the evil we know from you commenting on here. Normally what a person says and does in public is the tip of the iceberg. They normally do much worse behind closed doors. If they repeatedly lie in public, shamelessly, as Arizona has habitually done, they are likely shielding gross sins in private.
Arizona lie #1: Said Gary Preman has homosexual ideations based on GP's saying allowing food in the building, or breaking the bread more than once, I cannot remember which, may lead to homosexuality being allowed in the church. Totally fraudulent reasoning, that no Christian in history would agree with.
Your memory is faulty.
#2 Lied above and said the Separation of Church and State barred criticizing homosexuality in public. It's no where in the Constitution, and it doesn't mean anything close to what he said it does. This is more a blunder, but it is still a departure from truth. He had the truth pointed out and explained to him, and he refuses to correct his error.
3) Alleges upholding the 2nd Amendment and carrying weapons to defend oneself from the government is a desire for bestial anatomies, the likes of which no reasonable man or woman in history ever mentioned. The Bible never discusses body parts significance to salvation, but Arizona is quite carnal, and believes they are very relevant. It's impossible to even answer some of his charges because I've never actually even pondered or thought them, and they are too disgusting and repulsive to even think or discuss. Like a dog returns to his vomit, he returns to his disgusting ideas. His thinking has been perverted by modern science and propaganda to think that sexual performance in marriage actually is to be considered. Ummm, that's nowhere in the Bible. God's design was people remain virgins until marriage, so Arizona, your corrupt thinking is totally opposed to the Bible you are fond of quoting. Adam and Eve didn't get sex ed before they consummated their marriage, and they did just fine. Also, to define oneself by one's body, which none of us chose, is so ignorant and reprehensible, it's not worth answering. Pride is to take pleasure in attributes that had nothing to do with our own choosing. If body parts are what makes us superior, than an Elephant is superior to every human, because they have bigger anatomies than every Human. But it's not, so that is a ridiculous argument. If I were DS, I would have withdrawn from you so fast. Makes me question every criticism you ever had of him. You were probably lying and spreading mayhem up in Arizona as well, no doubt. With the filth and lies you've told on here, there is no way you would last in any church that teaches the Bible. No wonder you attended NAACP meetings. You fit in just fine with that lying and corrupt organization.
#4) Falsely alleges a porn addiction on my part. Lying about others is a habit of his, so I'm rather surprised he hasn't also accused me of homosexuality. It's bad enough to bring up others pasts, if they were dealing with bad things, to try and attack them, but you go one better, and lie to make up evil about them to attack them with. That is utter evil. But you have no shame.
#5) Alleges I have a drug addiction, when I've never used drugs in my life.
Every comment of yours from now on will be followed with these five lies, and we will add to them, with any further lies you tell. If you admit you lied on these, we can move on, but otherwise, you are the legitimate representation of 'sowing seeds of discord'. God hates those who bear false witness, and you do it quite often. I'd repent, if I were you.
Montesquieu and Anon??? All points have been read. You all are not going to agree or persuade the other. If I’m not mistaken Montesquieu point on women began with how the women in the cult really are the head of it. First Merie, now KS. So let’s get back to exposing Merie’s cult, a source of healing and comfort for any who have been adversely affected by the cult. Proper understanding of scripture that was wrongly taught by Merie’s cult as well.
It's understandable that not all will be persuaded, but everyone on here should be opposed to liars, and our friend from Arizona is a serial liar. Everything true anyone on here says against Stanton is tainted if we allow him, because Stanton will sit and laugh at us for tolerating the most absurd and ridiculous ideas, that he consistently spouts.
Imagine how silly and stupid we look for tolerating him saying Gary Preman has homosexual fantasies. The idea that we tolerate any ideas, no matter how corrupt, is totally bogus. We all should be held to a standard of truth.
If any organization wants success, from politics, business, church, sports, whatever, you can't tolerate liars, because they destroy what is good, and create an evil and poisonous atmosphere.
Everyone on here ought to be addressing Arizona's serial lies, and I'm kind of bothered I'm the only one.
Just because we are opposed to Stanton, does that mean we now are allied with liars?
Those who lay down with dogs will rise up with fleas.
Craig I agree…Anon 2:21 pointed out to agree to disagree. Wise statement. That should be the end of the topic. It seemed to start about the cult women but turned into ones opinion of women in general. I think consideration from others should be well thought before commenting on this blog. It is okay to agree to disagree. Stanton is known for shoving their words down your throat & it's their way or no way. There's a lot of good discussions on this blog. Let's remember why we are all here & not go backwards.
Montesquieu, I agree we should be opposed to liars. Hopefully everyone will be honest with their comments. Merie’s cult are liars by omission as well as their greatest lie that they are the one and only true church. What they fail to reveal about their history and their unbiblical rules is a travesty. People considering joining the cult should be made aware of what they are truly getting involved in.
Words become flesh, that is what a person speaks become a self fulfilling prophecy that is just one of many reasons to be careful of what you say. Resorting to references of beastiality to win an argument is low even for an unclean man, and I do not ency his future. Proving your superiority be writing people names showing that you do not have to follow the rules politely asked for by it founder only goes to show that one has no boundaries and is worthy of no respect. Please continue to focus all of your attention on me because when you do you leave the women alone. Just another bully to me.
AnonymousMarch 7, 2019 at 5:04 PM
It's not bullying to request you tell the truth.
It's something most of us learned in childhood.
I'm sure you don't appreciate people lying about you, and I'd appreciate it if you stopped doing it to multiple people on here and people in Stanton.
Hypocritically, though you've used my name multiple times, you now are concerned about the name of one of the men you lied about being used.
Lie #6: Said I referred to bestiality when I never did. Misspelled it too.
Like I said, every comment you post simply increases the number of lies you tell.
Telling the truth and not evil surmising is superior. No one is stopping you from doing it but you.
Like most degenerate men on the left, you pretend you care about women, when in effect, lying men like you are enough to drive a woman insane. If you do to a woman what you've been doing on here, lying up a storm and aggressively defending your lies, it's what they call harassment and abuse. Lying to people is always abusive, and you do it constantly. Sadly, no one else is willing to call you out for your constant lies.
Can you read? You were asked dozens of questions and you didn't respond to a single one. Apparently, humility in your mind is telling prodigious amounts of lies, and then refusing to answer any questions about your lying habit. You'd make a great Democrat.
Happy National Women's Day!!
Too soon lol? 😉
AnonymousMarch 8, 2019 at 7:53 AM
Please stop promoting Communism and Marxism on a Christian website. You have no idea what you are talking about. Please read a book about Marxism. Mr. Arizona, the serial liar, needs to read that book too. Marxists are liars, corrupt, and trouble makers. Sums up Mr. Arizona precisely.
Great book on Communism
https://www.abebooks.com/book-search/title/the-naked-communist/author/skousen/
Note: The reader is warned not to use Jeff Bezos's Amazon anymore. Not only is the man a corrupt adulterer, who has no intention of changing and doesn't apologize for anything he's done, but he owns the Washington Compost, which stupidly lies daily saying 'Democracy dies in Darkness', when it is that very darkness, constantly obscuring truth and pushing the most devilish lies. Further, Amazon just banned the book by Tommy Robinson about Muhammad's Quran, detailing the evil that the Quran and Muhammad were full of. That was the last straw for me. After ordering over 2,000 books on Amazon, and having given away thousands as well, on top of my own collection, I deleted my Amazon account. Will never buy another book from Amazon. Things are getting really bad when the largest book seller in the world is banning books that tell the truth about the evil religion of Islam.
https://pjmedia.com/homeland-security/amazon-bans-tommy-robinsons-book-mohammeds-koran/
This woman's day celebration was the beginning of Marxism in Russia, and Marxism, under Lenin and Stalin, murdered at least 40 million.
Please learn your history before following along with common culture, or it's likely you'll be headed off a cliff.
http://thefederalist.com/2018/03/08/international-womens-day-has-communist-roots/
Also, it's wise to avoid modern art, music, television, and movies, as they are full of Marxist themes that are at war with Christianity.
https://mobile.wnd.com/2011/04/287093/
Monte you are too easy to get a rise out of it's comical for the rest of us lol maybe you should take a vacation!! Life doesn't have to be so serious & not everything deserves a response!
Bless your heart!!
AnonymousMarch 8, 2019 at 9:39 AM
You have to be dull and dimwitted not to be outraged and angry at 40 million people murdered by communism. I know ignorance is bliss, but I wouldn't boast of that to anyone, and I wouldn't recommend your apathy to others either.
Not sure what kind of life you lead, but the life of apathy and willful ignorance never ends well. I'd prefer to live in a state of awareness and truth, no matter how much suffering and pain it entails, then to live in a stupor, where my senses are deadened, and my life is one big chase of thrills.
Again..bless your heart!! If you must know I live a very full & happy life! I am married to the love of my life with 3 incredible children! You seem to pass an awful lot of judgments on people's comments to this blog. You're right though ignorance is bliss. Oh and both my spouse & I are registered Republicans with strong Christian beliefs & morals. No communist over this way. I will pray for you!!
Glad to hear you are happily married with 3 children, and are Registered Republicans with strong Christian beliefs.
That said the Republican party and the Christian church is full of willful apathy.
A friend of mine called me last night, as a concerned Citizen from the East Coast paid around $40,000 to buy 400 Founders Bibles, written by David Barton. It's the Bible the Founders of America read and what led them to create the greatest and most powerful nation in world history.
https://thefoundersbible.com/. She asked me to reconnoiter to Berkeley, to arrange with local churches to pass them out on Campus. So, I went to a church in Berkeley last night. It was a fantastic building. Sure enough, it was built in 1871, with beautiful architecture. I'm supposed to meet a young woman named Lauren. So, I step inside, and it looks like Jerry Garcia is on stage playing his guitar. I'm pretty used to this kind of Christianity, so I greet an older man named Russ, politely exchange pleasantries, and say I'm looking for Lauren. He says he doesn't know of her, but invites me to join in. As anyone who has been around Stanton for 1 year knows, this kind of church environment is highly unusual for someone raised in Stanton:). I looked to my left, and there was a stocky bearded man, arms upraised, shirt dangerously raised, in rapture. There were a number of very well built men, who were lost in raptures at the guitar music, and who were rhythmically swaying. In retrospect, I could have been at a Pagan ceremony, a rock concert, an Incan Human sacrifice, or a rap concert just as easily, and the actions of those present wouldn't have varied at all. There were young college students there as well. On stage the Jerry Garcia guitarist was really into his music, and next to him was a more compact version of DWC, and she was absolutely ecstatic. I mean, she was hopping up and down like a cross between a Mexican Jumping bean and a pogo stick, it was truly amazing to watch. Yours truly posted in the back, on a wooden pew, and tried to fit in. I was determined to gird up my loins and not join in the revelry. I know people look at me like I'm odd, but the feeling is mutual
. This went on for 20 minutes, and I'm earnestly examining the architecture of the building, trying to learn something in my time here. It was a very well build building. Finally, Russ comes back and tells me Lauren is here after all. So, I go back and introduce myself to her. She has been behind me the whole time and has no doubt observed my wondering observations of all the going on's. If she is evaluating my spirituality on how much swaying and jumping up and down I've been doing, I must appear to her to be a heathen, pagan, and very carnal, I must confess. So, I begin telling her about the Founders Bibles, and how great this would be for Berkeley. I'd like to say she was entranced with what I was saying, but in a church where feelings are truth, I'm afraid I can't. She took my words, promised to get in touch with my friend to coordinate this. I then girded up my loins and fled this pagan festival…errrr…Jesus revival. I considered staying, but it appeared I fit in as well as Batman at a meeting of the GodFathers of New York. So, yours truly then headed out for Berkeeley Campus, a place our nation has come to associate with debauchery and communism, and rightly so. Talked with a receptive man for 20 minutes. He actually knew who Ben Shapiro was. Couldn't name 7 conservative websites, and this isn't a surprise because the mindless drones at Berkeley who vote and follow the Democrat party are grossly ignorant of the other sides viewpoints. Pretty shocking for a campus that prides itself on intellectual inquiry. Was quite happy when I walked in Bancroft Library, the main library out of 28 on campus, and there was a picture of George Washington leading the troops at Monmouth. To have a picture like that at Berkeley is great!! It was the biggest picture in the library too. Unfortunately, the campus craziness of the 60's was also featured when I walked in. Police are called pigs; Communism, drugs, and sex worshiped. Total chaos. And they celebrate this dysfunction to this day. Mario Savio, the Black Panthers, and the rest of the malcontents stirred up by Soviet KGB agents, Unwitting dupes of a plot to subvert America. As I'm walking, it's freezing cold, and there are people, lots of them, men and women, walking around in shorts and short sleeves. Apparently, Berkeley even has students from the Arctic. And, the smell of marijuana wafts through the air, since the crazy ideas have to be supported by psychotropic drugs to keep the consciences of people intact. Without drugs, many people would collapse, and would be incapable of functioning.
Berkeley is full of zombies.
Went into Moe's Bookstore on Telegraph Avenue. Read a book on the purveyor, who was arrested in 1969 for smelling smut. 'Ah, the good old days', thought I, 'when the police actually cracked down on real crimes, and weren't busy escorting me out of City Hall for criticizing homosexuality, which is a crime against nature'.
Finally left, late in the evening. However, education, the media, and the church are in serious trouble.
And, AnonymousMarch 8, 2019 at 9:54 AM, if you are so happy, married, with kids, and a conservative, Christian Republican, why did you promote Woman's day, a Communist construct?
While Women's day is a huge hoax, yet, Vladimir Putin was totally right for thanking Russian women for staying beautiful, and taking care of the home.
A lesson Stanton can profit from. I understand health issues come up, but women sitting around and neglecting exercise is inexcusable in a marriage, as it is with men. These women who won't take care of exercise or their home, are often all up into other people's business and affairs.
Sad that Russia is far more Christian than America today. How did we get here? Just 30 years ago, Russia was still Communist and Godless, and Vlad Putin was a KGB agent.
https://tsarizm.com/news/eastern-europe/2019/03/08/putin-thanks-women-for-taking-care-of-the-home-and-staying-beautiful-on-international-womens-day/
Further, the reason why we have Marxist thinkers infecting the Democrat party, and all over this site with Feminism, lies, and no knowledge of history, is because our school systems, particularly our colleges, are full of Marxist thought.
Our friend from Arizona went to College, and is on here demonstrating how he is a Marxist pawn. Lies, uses corruption, and is full of guile. And he paid money for that. Or maybe he didn't. The Colleges are good at taking tax payer and money and using that to pay themselves to brainwash the unwitting dupes.
https://www.americanthinker.com/articles/2019/03/marxism_the_frankfurt_school_and_the_leftist_takeover_of_the_college_campus.html
We are very close to a full blown Civil War, though the media, which influences nearly all of our family and friends, has kept that hush hush.
The time period we are in is very similar to Germany before Hitler, Russia before Lenin, China before Mao, and France before the French Revolution. It's alarming, because mass horrors followed soon after.
Of course, with God, we can do anything, but he never told us to be foolish and unwitting.
Knowledge is power
Know thine enemies.
Bad enough we have to deal with Stanton's totalitarianism, but the totalitarianism of the Left is even worse.
https://www.americanthinker.com/articles/2019/03/marxism_the_frankfurt_school_and_the_leftist_takeover_of_the_college_campus.html
Wrong comment link above.
https://www.americanthinker.com/blog/2019/03/a_reminder_that_the_only_thing_standing_between_us_and_the_lefts_neocultural_revolution_is__trump.html
No, Lynn, nothing recent, wondering about the withdrawals of 1980.
God sends chastisement to make chaste, but Stanton won't learn. They stubbornly insist that they are right, and that this website is proof that the end of the world is coming. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez isn't the only conspiracy theorist on the end of the world. They like to talk about Noah, but Noah was righteous and did not denigrate salvation. Stanton does. We do not see Noah ever stand up to make a confession, but in Stanton's world, if you don't do this, there is no salvation from the flood about to come for you.
In Today's recap of the May Trip it was learned that neither TC or GP gave talks. That is the first time in over 20 years that hasn't happened. Both attended. There will be no new churches started. Does that surprise anyone? We've been discussing Stanton's lack of growth for 6 years, and its continuation is no surprise.
BTW, this site did get a shout out in the sermon this morning. It was with a dismissive sneer, saying, 'we don't go on there to address malcontents'. They stressed they weren't commanding anyone not to go on, but their tone indicated only crazy people come on this site. Stanton never learns, LOL. This is how they have been doing people they disagree with for 40 years. Hubris and pride are very dangerous, and when someone brings you a legitimate concern, and you dismiss it and call them crazy, well, your fate is your own fault.
The problem with Stanton's leaders is the same with King Uzziah. He was a powerful King, and it went to his head. This is the problem with TC, KS, and GP too. When Uzziah was corrected on a matter, he became enraged, attacked those telling him the truth and got leprosy. Interesting parallels. Uzziah wanted to burn incense in the temple, an act only allowed for the priests. Stanton wants to alone be responsible for people's salvation, neglecting God. Uzziah got leprosy, and Stanton has spiritual leprosy, as no one will join them.
The topic of this May Trip was…..wait for it…..Unity!!
This is a common Stanton theme, to encourage groupthink. It's code for uniformity, and obey your teachers. Apparently there is a lot of dissension in Stanton, and as a result, the entire May Trip theme was unity. I'm pretty sure the leaders may not be coming on here, but judging by the 263,000 views, including an average of about 2,000 a week recently, the members sure are. And the leaders are apparently having a hard time keeping the followers in line. That is very good!!! 'Rebellion against tyranny is obedience to God'!! Stanton's leaders didn't learn history too well. They didn't learn that Thomas Paine's 'Common Sense' ended the British Rule of America with the Revolutionary War, that Harriet Beecher Stowe's 'Uncle Tom's Cabin' ended Slavery in the Confederate States with the Civil War, and that Kevin's website will lead to the end of the Stanton leaderships tyranny. 'A drop of ink can make a million think'. 'The pen is mightier than the sword'. Right makes might. Stanton is convinced we are talking to ourselves, LOL. Ummm, Stanton, that's not true, your own membership is reading it, and when you sow the wind, Stanton, you will reap the whirlwind. Keep telling your members not to read this website. You are lucky, Dear Stanton, that America is historically illiterate, because anyone who knows history halfway decently would automatically have all red flags come up when a leader tells every single member of an organization not to read criticism of that leader. Ummm, has anyone read 1984, Animal Farm, Brave New World, or Fahrenheit 451? What Orwell, Huxley, and Bradbury were saying is when the leaders control the information, you are their slaves. I'm pretty sure Stanton is not full of slaves, and I'm pretty sure that God is sick and tired of the leaders hijacking the narrative to continue their power hungry tyranny.
Dear Stanton leaders, you can run, but you can't hide. Your day of reckoning is coming, and it's not because of the world's wickedness. Your job is to offer salvation, and you are doing a horrible job of it, as you are the Prodigal Son's older brother. Jealous of those who God forgives. Funny, envy and jealousy were discussed today, and the Stanton leaders have a lot of it. I have no problem admitting I'm wrong and repenting, but the Stanton leaders can't be corrected at all. All the while they screech and holler that others can't be corrected and are proud. No one in the history of Stanton has ever seen GP, TC, or KS corrected. They will smugly say it's because they are always right, but the scripture they quote in 1 John 1 every Sunday says that is a lie. If any says he has no sin, he is a liar. So while they pretend they are perfect, they also pounce on and destroy those who admit their imperfections and seek redemption.
Back to the theme of unity. This is heavily stressed by Stanton. Courage is more important than unity, and Stanton doesn't have it. If you don't have courage, all the unity in the world with other people won't help you, because you are too cowardly to stand up for the truth when you have it. GP already admitted he is a full blown coward, and he is proud of it, and has no intentions of changing. He knew withdrawing from uncleanness was unscriptural, but wanted to be 'united' with the church, and so he went ahead and withdrew from a brother for it anyway, because he wanted the entire church to come to that decision first at a May Trip before he would say it. COWARD!! That is textbook fear of man. But, he has no shame, and will tell this story to illustrate why people should obey their teachers? Wat!? Obey a coward!? Not I!? You threw someone under the bus, and who knows, it could have been more, so you didn't have to face disagreement from others. I have nothing against GP, TC, or KS and have a lot of admiration for them, but chastisement is to make chaste. Heavy responsibility calls for heavy correction when it is mishandled. Apparently, Stanton thinks it's critics will all just die and go away, and we will be the next story they can use to terrify gullible followers into obeying the teachers. Well, if God is for us, and he certainly does support redemption, then who can be against us?
Also, truth is more important than unity. STanton always says they are telling the truth, and they are. They are telling TC's, KS's, and GP's truth, but they aren't telling the truth of the New Testament, which showed Christ heal many of severe spiritual and physical illnesses, and promised those who believed would be able to be healed, and that his Word could heal just as much, if not more than him. Stanton stubbornly rejects this. It doesn't seem fair to them that all their good works don't get them the upper seats, and so they are in a constant war to get respect, admiration, and applause, and strive to suppress and destroy any sinner who threatens their power. Even though Heaven rejoices more over one repentant sinner, rather than over 99 righteous, Stanton doesn't. No Sirreee!!
They are not all bad though. They are not even moreso bad, but the 5% bad they have, outweighs the 95% good they have. They do have some very good parts. For instance, Stanton is integrated, and all the silly race movements, and race segregated churches in America, aren't present in Stanton. What a blessed relief that is in a nation that is full of racism. Our friend from Arizona is a big racist, and speaks highly of the morally bankrupt and Marxist NAACP, but can't say nice things about Stanton. He's also a big liar, and you'll often find racism and lying are characteristics present in the same people.
Oh yes, the lesson today was also on how those who aren't apart of Stanton aren't 'happy'. I'm very happy, but, unlike Hollyweird, I don't go around flashing meaningless sincere looking smiles. To judge a person's 'happiness', on how they look to us, is nonsense. This is a huge problem in churches, the leaders proclaim that those who agree with them are 'happy', and no one else is. Christianity is about facts, wisdom, knowledge, and truth, not feelings.
Remember how happy and wonderful Jesus felt on the cross? Yes, neither do I, because it was kind of agonizing, and he said those who follow him would have to pick up their cross too. The idea that people judge right and wrong on who looks 'happy', is so ridiculous, I don't know where to begin. I'm tremendously happy Americans weren't that dimwitted in 1861 when they elected Lincoln, who hasn't really got one photo of him smiling at all. According to Stanton, that means he wasn't 'happy', has no wisdom, and is to be avoided. Sure am glad American voters in 1861 were a lot smarter than Stanton's leaders today.
This is what they constantly tell themselves to prop up the Stanton mythology. Everyone else isn't 'happy', and we are the only ones who are. This despite them never having conversations with many they deem 'unhappy' for decades. Then they tell friends and family of the person who disagrees with the teacher that they aren't 'happy'. So people avoid them like the plague. If the person isn't mentally strong, they'll cave, like many have done before. The psychological warfare is real with Stanton. It's particularly effective with women. Can you imagine how traumatizing it is for a woman to cut her off from her family and friends, all at once. I can barely handle it and I'm a man, less susceptible to my emotions. It seems it would send a woman onto the Funny Farm. Hmmm, that was actually done to Merie, too. Hmmmmmmmmmmmm……. I'm sure the thought of being withdrawn from by her own church must have kept her up at nights, and given her a steel spine.
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
When I went back I could never understand the cutting off of family and friends, not that we would unequally yoked, but to completely cut them off of communication.
I read this –
Luke 16:7-9 And I say unto you, Make to yourselves friends of the mammon of unrighteousness; that, when ye fail, they may receive you into everlasting habitations.
Our friends and family have our backs and I believe through God. That steward knew that if he made good with the clients that if he got fired they would more than likely help him.
V4 I am resolved what to do, that, when I am put out of the stewardship, they may receive me into their houses.
When I was waiting for my disability to start up people in my life helped us where the church refused to. Family got us into the home we are in, babysat our kids, drove me places, got us a vehicle, even my boss, when I was working, bought a house just to rent it to us. I could call people when I needed to talk. People would visit me and spend time. I was going through a lot and the church REFUSED to help, but I had those in my life that I did not burn bridges of. To this day my kids and I run into people I have known for years and are of good report with them. Which is a great positive. They know I am a Christian and would help me if I ask.
The church was shown up by the world in being humane. Tacoma doesn't teach, nor encourage its' members to bear one another's burdens. They aren't taught to reach out to the weak and elderly. They are encouraged to do the opposite and make those who need their brethren to be the ones to reach out and not expect anything from their brethren. Matt 25 is going to hit hard.
I agree with your overall points concerning the church leaders! Furthermore, telling folks they can’t/shouldn’t go on this site is an admission of guilt. Stanton’s leaders could give Mao’s China a challenge when it comes to censorship and narrative control. One of Mao’s famous quotes reads as follows “To read too many books is harmful”:An eerily similar sounding mantra of Stanton leadership. Like…what exactly are they trying to stop their lovely members from reading? Don’t believe your lying eyes.
Outstanding quote by Mao. Stanton does this constantly. Reading books is not recommended. Neither is reading the Bible and coming to conclusions the teachers don't agree with.
Montesquieu great points. Anything else you heard from the big meeting please share. I’ll be asking my sources. Anyone who had accessibility to any discussions and or talks I’d like to be entertained with listening to them. Incredible neither paid preacher gave a talk. Fire them Stanton. Regime Change, I agree admission of guilt with threats to members if the read this blog. What do they not want their members to find out? Come on GP what are you hiding from your members?? I’ll answer for you GP since you don’t have an answer or won’t give one. Merie cult member a whole lot of information that is withheld and should be known what you are involved in can be found on this blogs articles and comments. Btw GP how much is your support?
I'm sure he is not ready to give an answer Craig.
A question to the reader. Can Unity remain pure if it is forced through fear or coercion? If I agree with you because I’m not allowed to disagree ,I am not in unity with you.They were talking about unity at their so called “May trip” but the the real word they were expounding upon was conformity. 1jn 4:18 explains how unity works in Christians through love. The leaders love to use Philippians 2:2 as justification and contend that every little wild rule they make must be adhered to or else. A reasonable person will definitely disagree on things with a brother or sister and should not be vilified.Please don’t just take my word for it Paul asserted the same; preaching Christ crucified. Phil. 2:2 speaks to the main hallmarks of Christian ethos I.e…unified in that Christ died was buried and resurrected. I assure you I am not trafficking in hyperbole when I say the leaders of Stanton think that if any brother chews gum at church and another one doesn’t they are not of the same mind. If you don’t believe me ask around or better yet, try it. You will be promptly rebuked for not being in unity. Again that example is not an outlier or deviation from the mean:it is the mean. I just wanted to give an example of how they say the theme was UNITY but the true theme was CONFORMITY. If your fearful to disagree you can’t call it unity. True unity is only achieved through understanding: you cannot attain understanding without love.Morover,with that understanding fear dissipates because we only fear what we don’t understand. So in synopsis, conformity was the leadership choice of king Saul and Unity was the leadership of king David (First Samuel 18:16 ). Shall we not overthrow the leaders who follow Saul and by the grace of God usher in leaders with hearts after Gods.
Anon 6:16 no doubt GP is not ready to give an answer. Question, how many elders were chosen from the big cult unity meeting?
Big Fat Zero. The leaders are way to power hungry to actually seed a modicum of control.
Anon 7:19 another year, no deacons, no elders, no new congregations, no growth. What about rules though. I’m sure they established a new rule? Lol
Its amusing seeing some of these commenters pointing out others fallacious reasoning, but blind to their own logical fallacies. Comments filled with one liners, and tidbits of different authors sprinkled throughout their empty tirades, totally lacking any real substance, but filled with esoteric language used to create an impression of truth or plausibility.
You get a sense of sympathy watching a mind burdened with sin ,desperately trying to fight its way up to the surface to breath, much the way a person slowly sinking in quicksand does. The thrashing only makes it worse, and when you try to help them, they self righteously push your hand away. I just hope you never have to ask for drops of water to cool your tongue.
Tic-Tock
Et tu BruteMarch 11, 2019 at 11:01 PM
Vague claims, accompanied with typical Stanton tropes of 'a mind burdened with sin', 'I just hope you never have to ask for drops of water to cool your tongue', 'totally lacking any real substance'.
You Stanton representatives stand out like a sore thumb. It's hard to come up with reasons to support your conclusions because for 40 years Stanton's leaders have encouraged members to accept their dictates and not question them or ask for reasons. So, you are kind of helpless when you have to obey your Bible and 'prove all things'.
Not one Stanton commenter can ever go past 1 comment in a debate. They are hit and run artists. Come here, make a decree, and run.
Also, like Stanton, they try to condemn any who disagree with them to a miserable fate. Gospel preachers are to disturb the comfortable and comfort the disturbed. But, Stanton's preachers and women teachers have been terrorizing the disturbed for decades.
As for 'Et tu, Brute', that was Caesar's words as Brutus, one of the leading conspirators, along with Cassius, stabbed him. 'You too, Brutus'. Why did Caesar say this? For one, Caesar pardoned Brutus at the battle of Pharsalus, when Brutus could have been put to death. For two, Brutus possibly could have been Caesar's son. When Caesar saw Brutus stabbing him, he stopped fighting, and soon died, filled with dozens of stab wounds. Stanton has conspired against many. We all know about how Stanton whispers in the dark, and uses these details to destroy men and women. Psychological terrorism. I did not criticize any leader to any other person, but that didn't help me at my withdrawal. The leaders had been murmuring about me among others, and all this was used against me at my withdrawal. I publicly stated my objections, but they secretly plotted against me, and used this to destroy me. The behavior of treacherous snakes, and THE BEHAVIOR OF BRUTUS AND CASSIUS. So please, don't come on here lecturing us on the lessons of history, when you haven't learned them yourself. There is not one thing on here that I've said that I haven't said to the faces of Stanton's leaders. But, they don't want to hear it. They think their rejection means I will die and my voice will be silenced. God has other plans. Man proposes, God disposes.
Can you expose or respond to the pointed allegations made against Stanton leaders on this site please: instead of sweeping generalized attacks on us all. I appreciate your presence on this site. I support varying points of view. Do you?
It is laughable the fantasies the arrogant use to entertain themselves with.
Your a little slow on the reproof, old man, could have used that two weeks ago, before the battle now your just comming out of the woods to kick the wounded for self satisfaction and not for the love of others. I do struggle with sin,but at least I put up a fight. One liner was out of line and I should apoligize to Ryan for implying he is an idiot. I reference different books and authors so the source of knowledge is clear and not from the Bible or my own imagination. Tic toc yes time is always moving but I am not wasting time foolishly. Esoteric language can give the impression of high intellect but those with high intellect use common language with common people, that is they adapt as the needs demand it. I hope you dont have to ask for drops of water? That is not a sincere hope but an expression of superiority as in: I will reprove him with the very same reproof he used on me for being a spiritual churl by withholding the spiritual bread crumbs, yes the sword cuts both ways, and thank you for the attempted reproof but you did not hit the nail on the head with an answer out heart of superiority; a more in depth reproof would have made me even wiser. Depths of understanding flow when 100% of the hearts desire is focused upon God and not on justifying oneself as superior over others.
While I have your attention let me run this chain of reasoning through your mind: in Daniel 5 Belshazzar promises to make anyone the third rule if the can interpret his visions, which Daniel did. The position of third ruler would be after King and queen the number one and number two positions of authority in a kingdom. In Revelations 4:4 it speaks of the four and twenty elders, twelve of which are the apostles as Christ stated in Matthew 28 but the other twelve are left unnamed but is it implied that they would be the wives of the twelve apostles? It seems to me in a kingdom of equals that women would be given a place of esteem equal to the men, or am I off the mark?
For as much as they went on about it, the congregation I attended consisted of people who all were "respecters of men," in the sense that it was obvious to anyone with eyes to see that preferential treatment, or lack of it, was given based solely on the perceived status of an individual. Those individuals who seemed "lowly," or were exceedingly timid, mild or humble, often attracted spiritual bullying from those who seemed to enjoy throwing their weight around, and those individuals who exuded inner strength and projected confidence — surprise! — were not bothered. So the whole organization just ended up being another environment where people could struggle for power, lord their authority over others (if they had it), and hammer out a pecking order for their own personal satisfaction. It seemed to have nothing to do with love, good will, mercy, compassion, grace, or salvation — you know, that stuff called Christianity…
I can second your experience Anon 10:08. It's pretty rich how a Stanton leader comes on this site using the moniker e tu Brute. Stanton rulers have consistently stabbed their comrades in the back. As soon as your out of favor your name is mud. Furthermore, he basically says we're all going to hell even though he doesn't know what goes on in our personal lives, and it appears, he takes pleasure in believing that. Unbelievable.
Anon 11:04, I have a lot. For starters GP is a self proclaimed control freak. Perfect qualifications for a cult leader. For members that is who you are truly following. Believe it or not. GP, PP, TC and KS make rules of them and or are continuing to enforce Merie’s rules. You are followers of man. Christ’s doctrine has been transgressed by this cult. Christ not God has anything to do with it. It’s a dead church (cult).
Very true, Craig. We are in a culture that celebrates abortion, porn, and homosexuality, and while Stanton has nothing to say in public, they are bothering about how many times to break the unleavened bread. It boggles the mind. No wonder why they can't add anyone. Who in the world gives two hoots about how many times the unleavened bread is broken, when nearly half the kids in America are born in homes without a married father? Does anyone think those fatherless kids give a care about how many times GP's precious unleavened bread gets broken?
Though they won't admit it, SCOC is matriarchal in nature, and has been since its inception as a denomination. And sitting atop this hierarchy is KS, not GP or TC. She alone has the final say on all matters. She alone is their highest authority. And while perched atop her pinnacle, from which she surveys all of the so-called "autonomous" congregations, she rules absolutely, like a jealous deity in her own self-made universe.
AnonymousMarch 13, 2019 at 12:22 PM
Truth, Didn't initially think this, but Stanton's discipline is like that of a woman. Withdrawal is a supreme form of Silent Treatment, and we know which gender employs that tactic.
Used to admire KS, and still do admire many of her righteous attributes. However, she has emasculated hundreds of men with her domineering nature, and her constant demands for control.
She dominated Bible Classes in Stanton for decades, and the men sat helplessly by. So Stanton never grew. And they won't.
The Stanton representatives who do come on here, have a woman's response. One comment to try and cut you down to size, and they run away. A man reasons, uses logic, and can exchange ideas. Women rarely do this. So, Stanton is a huge matriarchy. The Free Love movement of the 1960's, which started in California, invaded Stanton with it's feminism. KS is a huge feminist. I'm not sure she has ever been in subjection in her entire time in the Stanton COC. And, she has raised many daughters and young women to be rebellious and object to their husbands rule. She has singlehandedly destroyed much of what is good in the Church of Christ, though she learned at the feet of Merie. She pits men against each other, and by doing this, she gains power.
KS has no problem rebuking men to their faces, but when it comes to counseling men on the societal issues every man faces nearly every day, she hasn't got the remotest idea how to proceed.
A matriarchal society is a doomed society. When women dominate a society, the family ends up in ruins. Thankfully, America's Founders lived in a patriarchal society, and that is how we have freedom and liberty. Under a matriarchal society, women's fiercely territorial nature when it comes to their families stifles societies, and we become tribal.
The men in Stanton are frequently figureheads. They represent the women's issues. If a man says what the Bible really says on a topic, and the women don't agree, he will be in severe trouble with Stanton. Learned this from personal experience. The women will claim he said it 'disagreeably'. We all know some women will never hear the truth, and will always call it 'disagreeable'. The woman's opinion is fickle and varied, and that is why God decreed she be in subjection to her husband. Women in America 100 years ago knew this, and were happy, protected, safe, and virtuous. The vast majority of women, particularly single women, don't realize this today, and so many women are miserable, domineering, sex slaves, and are corrupt. In addition, they are having the fewest children we've had in our entire history, and the few children they do raise often have serious behavior issues.
Perhaps the greatest irony of SCOC's corrupt matriarchal nature is that KS always struck me as remarkably masculine in her expression, demeanor, and the energy she exuded. Based upon what I saw, she acquitted herself as a much better man than any of the biological men who were present, and that, no doubt, was by design and through focused intention. But it also marks SCOC as counterfeit; a woman acting like a man, and exerting authority over actual men — it's a sin against the authentic order of things, and perverse. And although Stanton often invokes the post-hoc-ergo-propter-hoc ("after this, therefore because of this") fallacy effectively, in this case, their current state does flow and proceed from everything that came before it, of which there are errors large and small.
Amen! Couldn't have said it better myself.
It's so embarrassing to be raised in a church that said they alone were going to heaven, yet most of the wives and women were radically out of God's will, and now I find there are Christian women all over the world who understand Biblical Subjection far better than Merie, KS, DWC, JJ, LL, OB, AB, DS, BS, PC, PP, MS, LP, DG and the many other women who insist on teaching men in Stanton. Many of the women in Stanton are actually the brawling women who Solomon talked about in Proverbs, who tear their own homes, families, cities, states, and nations down. They raise daughters who can't respect a husband, and if a woman can't respect her husband, it's really hard for her to be genuinely physically romantically affected by him. This is a national problem, but Stanton says they teach the Gospel.
Lori Alexander is a far better Christian teacher on Biblical Womanhood THAN EVERY LAST FEMALE TEACHER IN STANTON! https://thetransformedwife.com/no-wives-do-not-have-to-submit-to-evil/
She teaches women to honor and respect their husbands, and this is what builds men up, empowers them, and makes families and nations great. Stanton's women have been busy tearing down their husbands, and teaching their daughters to do the same. Tragic.
Ahh, Mr. Osteen still preaching I see. I see you're objecting (as usual) to something you don't agree with. Are you sure you're not a liberal? You play the victim role so tidily.
If anyone says anything that you don't agree with, its a "vicious attack" and "smear campaign" leveed against poor ole you. Aww.
All the while you sit here murmuring and accusing mainly women, in the church and America in general for the decay in the church and America respectively. Good for all parties involved, your opinion doesn't match reality.
Incase you're not aware, you're still in withdrawal, but yet all the preachers and teachers are supposed to listen to you. "Withdrawal is a supreme form of Silent Treatment, and we know which gender employs that tactic." This is called Begging the Question. Description: Any form of argument where the conclusion is assumed in one of the premises.
Oh look, you found a woman that agrees with you. Thank goodness no one takes you seriously. Its mildly entertaining watching you get spun up on here, and rant about all your crazy topics.
"I find there are Christian women all over the world who understand Biblical Subjection far better than Merie, KS, DWC, JJ, LL, OB, AB, DS, BS, PC, PP, MS, LP, DG and the many other women who insist on teaching men in Stanton"
They apparently have more biblical knowledge than you too. You haven't shown once how they're biblically in error, but just squawk like a broken record how you're right, and all these people are wrong. Delusional.
Anonymous 3-13-19 @5:49 was not agreeing with the prattling fools but with a comment/question posted above with a similar time stamp. The loud mouth know it all only reads the last comment and not comments posted in the middle. More to the point there are a great many women who are smarter in both worldly wisdom and Godly wisdom than the above named individual, (and I would trust KS judgements over his any day of the week.) In studying judgments one has to recognize speculative arguments such as why Christians do not vote. I was instructed that God appoints leaders of the country and if we vote for someone God does not want we are voting against God but that is a speculative argument and I have found that when you vote even if you lose, the elected officials pay attention to the minority as they are required to govern for the whole people. I simply vote liberal democrats every election as I find the democrats give more aid to the poor people, and many Christians are poor as it is a religion of poverty (and happiness.)
Anonymous 2:07 – Thou dost protest too much, and always in REACTION to Montesquieu, which confirms that he has YOU spinning, and not the other way around.
Montesquieu has revealed a quantum truth here, and you are in denial about it for reasons known only to yourself. That truth is this: SCOC is ruled, in spirit, by the feminine, which has usurped the divinely-ordained order, and the result is a denominational religious organization that thinks, speaks, acts, and decrees like a woman who is out of her place; and all of the shrill, shrieking, emotional fraud and bullying that goes along with it.
You call Montesquieu delusional, and claim that he is ranting and squawking, and even assert that he is guilty of a specific logical fallacy, which he is not, and which you clearly do not understand (suggestion: brush up on your logic). In any case, your emotion-based reaction to Montesquieu categorically proves his point, and might as well be labeled 'Exhibit A.' You are ruled by the spirit of the feminine, and resist and rebel against the masculine. You are disturbed by Montesquieu's precisely ordered reasoning and his impeccable logic. You hiss and claw and shriek as he peels back the onion of your error, steeped in emotion as he dismantles you with dispassionate rationality. It is almost tragicomic…
Anon 2:07. Do you believe Merie’s cult is the one and only true church? An error that is taught by all who Montesquieu mentions concerning the female teachers. Many other false teachings by all members of the cult.
AnonymousMarch 14, 2019 at 2:07 AM
I see we've triggered another Stanton snowflake. Attacks on the unscriptural teachings of the leaders will do that. When I left last night, I was confident someone from Stanton would respond. You have too much pride.
AnonymousMarch 14, 2019 at 9:37 AM, great points.
Craig CusickMarch 14, 2019 at 9:44 AM, pretty sure they do believe Stanton is the one and only church, the multitude of errors notwithstanding.
Let's examine the many errors of our friend from Stanton. It appears to be another in a long line of hit and run posts. Like terrorists, Stanton likes to strike and run. They cannot withstand a sustained attack. This is why most nations entrust their militaries to men, and do not put women on the front lines. Stanton has the women on the front lines, and that is why they can make no headway in their mission. Christ didn't call 12 women to be his apostles, he called 12 men. Christ's church grew tremendously and rapidly. Stanton stagnates and doesn't grow at all. They can barely hold on to their own children, as the women are too busy teaching the men to be bothered with raising their own children, and they certainly can't add from the world, as men from the world don't enjoy having women lead them about. No real man does. Only beta males do. Alpha men refuse to let a woman dictate to them, as that was not God's order. Of course, men are to be in subjection to Christ, as he is in subjection to God, never in subjection to a woman.
Your first comment is a logical fallacy, as you call me Joel Osteen, when nothing I've ever said remotely resembles his prosperity gospel, and unlike me, he never calls out churches errors. A failure in reasoning, which is common for Stanton. You substitute emotion for reason, as women are wont to do when they don't rely on God and Godly men, and fail miserably.
You immediately proceed with your second logical fallacy, calling me a liberal. You clearly haven't read much, because calling out error does not make one a liberal. If it did, Jesus was a huge liberal, and so were the Founders of America. It's doubtful you fully comprehend the differences between liberals and conservatives. Your entire comment seems to be you recycling much of what I've written, and trying to mirror the attack back at me.
I actually read criticism of myself and my thinking every day, and the greatest critics, I find, are those in the Bible, and who lived over a century ago. I'm reading a fabulous book, that I never would have read if I relied on the teachers of Stanton for reading guidance, by a Puritan, Jeremiah Burroughs. It's called 'The Rare Jewel of Christian contentment'. It was written over 300 years ago, and is very relevant to today. It's easy to be discontent, especially when you are unscripturally withdrawn from and excommunicated, but, that's not very Godly, and it has caused me many problems. So, I have learned to repent from that ungrateful attitude, and to learn to trust God knows exactly what he is doing. When I'm discontent, temptation simply grows stronger, and then Stanton gloats and rejoices, saying their punishment was right after all. But, I can't blame them. Our choices and destiny are our own.
The Bible does teach against murmuring, but it's not murmuring to disagree with unscriptural judgements, and Pharisaism. That's called righteous indignation, and God expects hypocrisy to be called out in his church. Just this morning I was listening to the 2006 Stanton May Trip talk on breaking the unleavened bread. Poor RH got up and admitted he broke the unleavened bread more than once, because when he initially broke it, there wasn't enough for one side of the room, so it made sense to break it again. Oh no, says GP!!!! That must not be so!! So GP asked who all disagreed with RH. Immediately, DV sings out she does, and about five other people do too. So GP asks them to state their objections, very cleverly, then concludes that we can't be breaking the bread more than once, OR THAT WILL LEAD TO THE CHURCH ACCEPTING HOMOSEXUAL MARRIAGE. I kid you not. That's been said on here before, but LOLOLOLOL, it's hilarious. Ummmm, never mind if there are 20 people in the room, then 20 breaks of the bread have to be made for each to have their individual piece of the Body of Christ. But, the Bible doesn't let us break it more than once before it's offered. Great Snakes!! You can't make nonsense like this up. You could do a comedy on it. It's got me laughing right now. And grown adults in their fifties are deadly serious on how much the bread has to be broken, and are concluding it's a matter of heaven or hell, that if you break it more than once, your salvation is in question. I'm sorry, Jesus didn't die on the Cross for people to be bothering about how many times the unleavened bread needs to be broken. Meanwhile, America is experiencing the biggest marriage and church dysfunction in it's history. Can you imagine knocking on someone's door and inviting them to what is really going on? 'Good evening sir/ma'am, we'd like to invite you to a Bible class where we travel 3,000 miles to discuss how many times the unleavened bread should be broken'. ROFL. Stawp it already, I can't breath. Shouldn't be laughing this hard this early in the morning. But it never ends with Stanton. They'll come up with some new minor nonsensical rule. All the while they rigorously enforce their unscriptural withdrawals, and ensure they don't talk to those who disagree with their comedy of scriptural errors. It's like I'm in Wonderland with Alice, and the Queen is shouting 'Off with their head' to anyone who disagrees with her.
I was pondering actually writing down verbatim DV's words on why we should do things 'because this is the way we've always done them'. I believe I will. It's very instructive and reflects Stanton's 'Follow the leader' syndrome. Never mind if it's right or wrong, just follow orders. I remember another group of people who did that. They were at the Nuremberg Trials. You may remember them. Jodl, Speer, Hess, Schlichter, Goering, and others.
I'm not aware I'm withdrawn from, because according to the scriptures, I'm not. Maybe you can explain to us why I was withdrawn from and the circumstances surrounding it. It would be the first written explanation by Stanton of their nefarious and duplicitous actions. But, if I illicitly brought down judgements on others, I'd be hesitant to write it down too. Less evidence to incriminate me later on when the wheels fall off of the crooked scheme.
Actually, if you bothered learning American history prior to 1900, including the women in the Church of Christ, you'd see all the men and the women agree with me. But, since hellivision and schools indoctrinated you in your youth, and Stanton indoctrinated after you joined, you haven't had time to learn.
You use the appeal to popular logical fallacy, a common one in Stanton. If a lot of people believe something, it must be true. Stanton's teachers use this logical fallacy constantly. This silences the opposition, and allows their tyranny to continue, unquestioned. 'No one agrees with you' is a common refrain from them. Well, no one is even allowed to discuss opinions the teachers don't like, so no wonder no one agrees with dissenting opinions.
Contrary to the Bible and early American history, you think women teaching men the Bible is a good idea. You are pusillanimous pansy, and obviously don't wear the pants in your home. A wretched, sycophant and a coward.
Seems like you are another one hit wonder from Stanton. Comment, run, come back, and comment again later on. Can't defend your logic. Same tactics used by the Communists in the Vietnam War, and they won, because they controlled the media. Stanton does control the media too, except they don't control this site. This is why they constantly come on here secretly, while telling members not to read this site. Now, if you have the truth, and have nothing to hide, why are you telling members not to read this? No one has ever shown where I've ever told anything not true on here. If we aren't lying, which none of us are except for Arizona and he's been called out for his lies, then what have you got to be afraid of?
"If a lot of people believe something, it must be true. Stanton's teachers use this logical fallacy constantly."
This is correct. I brought forth something from my studies in the book of Daniel that there were two occurrences of the "Abomination of Desolation", one before Christ and the other after, but was told that if that were true then the older ones would have figured that out already.
I brought out, even to TC, who had taught it in Tacoma, that the "Old Prophet" in 1 Kings 13 was a prophet of Baal. Since the early 80's they taught this was a disobedient prophet of God. Never heard it corrected.
I was, basically, told to be quiet.
I, also, shared what "it is a gift" was and was told the same thing because they have never heard it before. The Pharisees were teaching people how to dedicate their homes and possessions to the temple, to keep from helping elderly parents, and reclaim it after seven year Jubilee.
Instead of asking to elaborate and discuss, it was easier to just shut you down.
Oddest thing, the system tried to withdraw from my last two comments. It must have got a bad case of Stantonitis. It wouldn't accept my comments under Montesquieu, so we had to post under Monte Cristo.
As I was, It wasn't Schlichter at the Nuremberg Trials, he is a columnist for Townhall. It was Julius Streicher.
Note: It's not hard to correct your errors Stanton. Just be honest and humble. An error does not become a mistake until you refuse to correct it.
Keep in mind, Stanton claims I'm rebellious and never admit when I'm wrong, when I have no problem doing this, and meanwhile, Stanton's leaders NEVER admit fault when punishing others unjustly, which they have a massive track record of doing.
Also, let's not forget, the discussions on how many times to break the unleavened Bread, if we can bring Chicken Nuggets in the building on a Saturday when we are working on it (We can't, apparently there were another 10 Commandments after the original 10 and GP, TC, and KS are responsible for the latter 10. Don't look for those commandments in your Bible, because they aren't there, you will have to 'receive instruction' from GP, TC, and KS to find out what they are), and whether it's mandatory for women and girls to wear nylons to church functions (Yes, they must. Thus saith KS) ALL OCCURRED AT A SINGLE MAY TRIP, in 2006. It would be highly informative if we could catalog every single May Trip talk and discussion Stanton has had since 1980. If we had 3 trivial items, having nothing to do with salvation, take up at least 4 hours of discussion time at one May Trip, can you imagine what the other trips contain?
For the Stanton commenters, can you please explain these three topics? Inquiring minds want to know. Or, will you loftily claim that we are carnal, and you are spiritual, and we can't handle topics too high for our comprehension. That's how Stanton's leaders normally roll.
Lastly, to all the Stanton Commenters, can you please send someone from Stanton who can legitimately debate?? Puhleaze!! It's embarrassing the representatives you send. All they have is to try and repeat the gossip their teachers feed them, and to sneer and ridicule ideas they never seek to understand and refute.
You are embarrassing Alexander Campbell's legacy. He actually debated atheists in public, and WON! All the Stanton representatives who show up here couldn't hope to prevail in a Grade School debate. You are told to provide an answer to every man who asks a reason of the hope that lies within you. If you can't do that, Stanton representatives, then may I suggest you find ideas that you can defend?
Don't forget – they are not ready to give an answer! At least, their non-evangelizing "evangelist" is not, although he ultimately receives his marching orders from KS.
He must be exhausted from being paid that generous salary, while ensconced in comfort, and from all that non-evangelizing. He only really has to ever leave his house to tyrannize his supplicants. Unlike other men, who have to go out into the world every day and slug it out in the trenches and provide for their families. Must be nice work if you can get it.
AnonymousMarch 14, 2019 at 5:25 PM
Very Christianlike, to call others you disagree with 'fools'. I remember how Jesus recommended this behavior in his Sermon on the Mount.
It sounds like you are Arizona. Are you going to apologize for your lies? I'd be angry at others too if they exposed me as a liar. You can read above. I made an error and corrected it. Admitting mistakes is what Christians do. The proud refuse to do it. Stanton made people admit mistakes they never made. But, the Bible is very clear that confessing ones faults is quite healthy. That is how humans learn.
And the fact you are willing to follow KS shows why you are in the position you are in. Like most women, you are very emotional, rarely deal in reason, and when you are in a corner, your narrative goes fact free, and sadly, often becomes full of lies.
All of the Founders of America, all 204 of them, were Christian, so why would you think Christians don't vote? http://www.adherents.com/gov/Founding_Fathers_Religion.html
Alexander Campbell himself was a delegate in a political convention. While Christians aren't voting, guess who is? You got it! Atheists, Muslims, hedonists, and corrupt types, which is why our government is such a wreck. Not voting is a great way to ensure that your nation is destroyed by corrupt types. And, no one should be voting who doesn't understand American history. No, the Founders didn't all own slaves. As a matter of fact, the majority opposed slavery, if you actually read their words, which you would never hear in Stanton, school, or from the media. http://www.adherents.com/gov/Founding_Fathers_Religion.html
I can't fault your reasons for voting Democrat, as I was a huge Obama supporter in 2008. The reason why was because I was deceived by Google, CNN, television, and the newspapers into thinking like you, that the Democrats want to help the poor. In reality, it's not the governments job to help the poor and sick. Christ never told the Government to help the poor, he told the wealthy and the church to help the poor and sick. The Democrats play a nasty game where they advertise they will help the poor and sick. They are actually stealing peoples money, because no one in America should be able to vote themselves other peoples money, which is what is happening when anyone votes Democrat. We are effectively electing Democrat leaders who will raise taxes, stealing from the hard workers to often give to the slackers. Take from the makers to give to the takers. This idea that we get free money, free housing, free food, etc.. is a crazy idea. Using politics to take from the rich to give to the poor is communism, and 100 million died in the last 100 years from that. The Democrats support abortion, homosexuality, pornography, and Islam, all which are evil. So, you should leave them ASAP. https://www.returnofkings.com/119681/why-communism-doesnt-work
Here is a great book on the history our Founders knew. Also, the Democrats have convinced 90% of the black community to vote Democrat, because their media and schools constantly convince the young and naïve that America is racist. The Democrats were the ones for slavery, and they all voted for segregation. Originally, blacks all voted Republican, until LBJ deceived them with the 'War on Poverty' which was a cursed idea to steal from the wealthy and give trillions to the black community. So, the government became Daddy in the black community, and 75% of babies born in the black community do not have a father. Fatherlessness leads to higher rates of criminality and poverty, so this is why Democrat cities have the highest rates of criminality and poverty of any cities in America. Meanwhile, they push their silly entertainment and sports to keep Democrat cities entertained, while the Democrats basically enslave their populations. https://www.amazon.com/5000-Year-Leap-Cleon-Skousen/dp/0880801484
I think you will shift to conservatism when you see the Democrat party as they truly are. They are evil and wicked, though they constantly lie with their media and call Trump evil and wicked.
Jesse Lee Peterson is a black conservative and a friend of mine. He tells the truth about the Democrat party.
https://jesseleepeterson.com/press-article/democratic-party-evil
Lynn mmMarch 15, 2019 at 12:01 AM
Happens quite frequently, Lynn. And if they said, 'I heard this when I was a babe', or 'Merie said', that was a conversation stopper. And the older ones in the church boasted of having unquestioningly obeyed.
Along with the appeal to popular logical fallacy, which Stanton uses quite a bit, they suffer badly from the appeal to authority logical fallacy, where something must be true because Merie, KS, GP, or TC said it. Or, if your teacher said it. So, the congregation shuts their brains down, and stagnancy sets in. No need to think about anything when your thinking will be done for you by your teacher, or KS, or GP, or TC.
Where to begin? Solomon in the proverbs wrote many defining behaviors of a fool, are you suggesting fools do not exist? In Proverbs 18:6 A fool's lips entereth into contention, and his mouth calleth for strokes, a behavior you repeatedly exhibit calling for someone who disagrees with you to be whipped. It is behavior, and not the level of intelligence, that makes one wise or foolish, you exhibit the behavior of a fool disrespecting blacks when you stereotype the NAACP as communist in nature,(stereotyping being a form of propagands, and propaganda tells only one side of a story, i.e. all conservatives are good and all Democrats are evil, are you really admitting to watching hellavision when you say you were decieved by CNN?). You demean women by limiting them under your falsely believed male superiority rather than treating them as equals(or in some cases as superiors, which many women are better behaved than their foolish male counterparts). No I have not lied about you, you falsely accuse anyone who disagrees with so that you can play on the sympathies of the simple, look at me I am such a victim! I will not acknowledge you as a superior because I am not inferior to you. When Christ was tempted by Satan with the "if you be the son of God" he did not acknowledge Satan's temptation to prove himself to himself and others as Christ well knew Satan and Satan well knew Christ before they were both on this earth, Christ did not care what Satan thought of him, as Satan was evil at heart, but Christ did prove himself to Peter when Peter said "if it be thou Lord bid me to come to you on the water" Christ cared what Peter thought as Peter was good in heart. Christ taught in Matthew 23 to call no man father upon the earth but Paul the Apostle addressed Timothy as son when Paul was nevered married therefore Timothy was his spiritual son making Paul a spiritual father, do not call a man father in the spiritual sense but they exist nonetheless, calling a person Raca, and then thou fool, that is: calling a person a fool in anger is what is wrong for it is meant to hurt and not to identify or correct a bad behavior, your lack of understanding disturbs me. As far as KS she has not exhibited the behaviors of a fool as I and you have and should be held in higher esteem than most others today.
Good Morning, Arizona,
AnonymousMarch 15, 2019 at 11:31 AM,
I'm a big fan of overlooking people's mistakes, and moving on. However, when they continually repeat them, as are the marks of the fool you reference, it's necessary to remind them of them, and for them to repent, and change. Repent means to feel so sorry about a sin, it doesn't happen again. Nowhere in my Bible does it show people sinning publicly before everyone, and not confessing it publicly. We've already discussed the many lies you've told, and you have a habit of lying, running away, and coming back on, hoping the smoke has blown over from your last lies, so you can tell some more. Well, you've done this so much over the past five years, that now is the time for you to be confronted.
Let's copy and past the 6 lies you were already caught in above.
#1: Said Gary Preman has homosexual ideations based on GP's saying breaking the bread more than once may lead to homosexual marriage being allowed in the church. Totally fraudulent reasoning, that no Christian in history would agree with.
#2) Lied above and said the Separation of Church and State barred criticizing homosexuality in public. It's no where in the Constitution, and it doesn't mean anything close to what he said it does. This is more a blunder, but it is still a departure from truth. He had the truth pointed out and explained to him, and he refuses to correct his error.
#3) Alleges upholding the 2nd Amendment and carrying weapons to defend oneself from the government is a desire for bestial anatomies, the likes of which no reasonable man or woman in history ever mentioned. The Bible never discusses body parts significance to salvation, but Arizona is quite carnal, and believes they are very relevant. It's impossible to even answer some of his charges because I've never actually even pondered or thought them, and they are too disgusting and repulsive to even think or discuss. Like a dog returns to his vomit, he returns to his disgusting ideas. His thinking has been perverted by modern science and propaganda to think that sexual performance in marriage actually is to be considered. Ummm, that's nowhere in the Bible. God's design was people remain virgins until marriage, so Arizona, your corrupt thinking is totally opposed to the Bible you are fond of quoting. Adam and Eve didn't get sex ed before they consummated their marriage, and they did just fine. Also, to define oneself by one's body, which none of us chose, is so ignorant and reprehensible, it's not worth answering. Pride is to take pleasure in attributes that had nothing to do with our own choosing. If body parts are what makes us superior, than an Elephant is superior to every human, because they have bigger anatomies than every Human. But it's not, so that is a ridiculous argument. If I were DS, I would have withdrawn from you so fast. Makes me question every criticism you ever had of him. You were probably lying and spreading mayhem up in Arizona as well, no doubt. With the filth and lies you've told on here, there is no way you would last in any church that teaches the Bible. No wonder you attended NAACP meetings. You fit in just fine with that lying and corrupt organization.
#4) Falsely alleges a porn addiction on my part. Lying about others is a habit of his, so I'm rather surprised he hasn't also accused me of homosexuality. It's bad enough to bring up others pasts, if they were dealing with bad things, to try and attack them, but you go one better, and lie to make up evil about them to attack them with. That is utter evil. But you have no shame.
#5) Alleges I have a drug addiction, when I've never used drugs in my life.
#6): Said I referred to bestiality when I never did. Misspelled it too.
So, can you please take care of those lies you told publicly, before we proceed? The thing about bearing false witness is it's a waste of everyone's time. We now have to keep track of all your lies, and do the work to constantly remind everyone of the lies you tell, instead of focusing on the mission of the website.
You quoted Proverbs 18:6 Proverbs 18:6 A fool's lips entereth into contention, and his mouth calleth for strokes. Lying about and to people is entering into contention, and it does call for strokes. So, please apply the scriptures to yourself before you try to reprove others.
When caught in your lies, you pull the race card, and say that criticizing the NAACP is hostile to black people. Ummm, there are millions of conservative blacks in America who absolutely detest the race-baiting NAACP. The Founders of the NAACP were white socialists who hated Christianity, so any Christian who supports the NAACP sounds schizophrenic. http://blogs.christianpost.com/thinkingoutloud/naacps-founders-were-white-socialists-10757/
White liberals have constantly been trying to stir up a race war between whites and blacks so they can rule. Charles Manson did it, and the Founders of the NAACP are no different. The NAACP had it's heyday in the 1960's, and now it has no purpose, as systemic racism is a total myth. https://www.lifezette.com/2016/09/hillary-clings-myth-systemic-racism-first-debate/.
An organization just like the NAACP is the SPLC, whose corrupt founder, Morris Dees, was just fired yesterday for unspecified offenses. Here is the kind of man Morris Dees was, and this is quite common for people who are constantly discussing race. http://www.zianet.com/web/dees2.htm. You are likely the person who was on here discussing the anatomy of human males, which no virtuous person ever thinks about, much less speaks about in private or public. But, you have no shame. You naturally talk about this, proving you are a shameless and corrupt libertine. Yet, despite your lies and perversion, you quote the Bible frequently. Good luck supporting the NAACP which has kept the liberal blacks in poverty and crime. When a plumber is called out to a home to fix a leak, and he doesn't fix the leak after 8 trips, would you call him again? No sensible person would, but you seem to be just fine running right back to the NAACP which has contributed to massive social issues in the liberal black community. But, your type likes to holler about 'muh racism', and 'muh white privilege', as you ignore your own debauchery. Typical tribal behavior that the Bible teaches against. You were the first person to bring race up on this website, and like most other people who like to discuss race all the time, you are the biggest liar. Everyone on here can see you are a liar. How can anyone take you serious on anything? We all have mistakes we make, but lying in public is a gross error.
Then you quickly head into lie #7, stating I demean women by claiming men are superior. Never said that anywhere. God created spheres for the genders. So you not only are a race baiter, you are a feminist too. Male feminists are pretty sad to see.
You've lied about me and others. You are equal opportunity. You aren't choosy who you lie about, you do it constantly to many people. If someone disagrees with you, you lie about them. And you never apologize, never claim responsibility, you only continue to lie. The Bible has a word for people like you, it actually has two words. Implacable and Reprobate. You cannot be reasoned with.
No one on here asked you to acknowledge them as superior. We simply ask that everyone on here act superior by avoiding lying and correcting their lies when they do them. No one forced you to lie. You chose to do this yourself. So you have no one to blame for people looking at you as inferior, which lying is very inferior, but yourself.
Christ didn't lie, so why are you comparing yourself to him?
Yes, Satan was evil at heart, and like you, he was a habitual liar.
The Bible doesn't advocate a woman teaching a man at all, but since most women will have a problem submitting to a man who lies, it's probably wise for you to have a woman teacher.
Kevin's website was for addressing the wrongs of Stanton, it wasn't to give air to serial liars, who give credibility to Stanton by muting the message. With your lies, no one in Stanton will take this site seriously. If Stanton sent someone to deliberately sabotage the site, they could not do a better job than you are doing. Not sure why I'm the only one who objects to your serial lying. But, I'm sure few people want to deal with your stubborn intransigence. Easier to ignore it and hope it goes away.
We all welcome what you have to say, but no one appreciates your lies, and it would be nice if you admitted them and moved on. It doesn't appear likely you will do that, as you habitually ignore all criticism and move on with criticism of those who expose you. I feel for whoever your teachers were, it must have been very tough dealing with you.
It's nearly impossible to have a conversation with a person who insists on talking to others after lying, and continues to lie.
Our friend from Arizona has the same tactics as Stanton. Never respond to legitimate criticism, and constantly hurl criticisms about others at them.
Avoid honest discourse. Come on the site and lob false accusations, run away, wait for the smoke to settle, then come on and do it all over again.
Stanton thrives on secrecy, deceit, and avoidance, just like Arizona. Seems like he picked up some bad habits from Stanton.
Not a well reasoned argument but rather an emotional tirade much like a rabid dog. Distortions of what was posted to fit the perverted reasoning of an unclean mind. The evangelist stated that breaking of bread more than once leads to sodomy and my observation was that his statement was a clear indication he was viewing similar images " out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh" how you got to advocating for homosexual marriage in the church is beyond stretching the facts but twisted distortion of reality. Whatever the reason for starting an apostate blog it is now become the personal domain of an arrogant man. Denail is the most predictable response when reproved:no I am not unclean, no I never have had an addiction, but time will tell the truth. One of the curses of the arrogant is loneliness: no family, no wife, no children, no friends, the only fellowship one can find is on an apostate blog as one sits in his insurance office playing on the computer instead of working, sad life to say the least. Diatribe is not edifying, fairytales are an escape from reality not something to be reasoned from, one day the neglected responsibility of keeping your heart with all diligence will hit one with suprise like winter comming to a grasshopper.
Ummm, Arizona, when will you own up to your lies?
Are you from Stanton? They specialize in calling someone unclean, then dismissing everything they say. Besides, stop lying. Every man in America has been unclean, likely. The difference is those of us who have left it behind. And, like Stanton you make this to be the biggest sin, and while you do this, you are a full blown liar. Incredible where you find the energy to lie repeatedly. I mean, what are you on here to do? Besides your constant lies, half baked comprehension of history, muttering about 'muh uncleanness', and angry denunciations of those who expose your lies, what exactly is our goal on here? You have a serious problem with reading comprehension. I'll write 50 sentences, and you lazily dismiss it, and respond with 5. But, you are clever. Like Stanton, you go for the kill shot. Ignore facts, ignore pretty much every reason given. Instead viciously attack and malign your opponent while committing blatant sins at the same time. It's a Stanton tactic, Arizona. I'm immune to it, so you'd do well to not waste your time. They've been doing it for 11 years, and it hasn't worked.
Lie #8: The Evangelist stated that breaking the bread more than once will lead to homosexual marriage, not sodomy. Go listen to the 2006 CD, and learn to prove all things before running that foul and lying mouth of yours.
No sane person takes GP's exaggeration of breaking the bread twice and turns it into GP viewing homosexual images. But, you are reprobate and implacable. And, we aren't making things up,and exaggerating. This isn't based on your private behavior, which is no doubt perverted. This is based on your public lies, that you shamelessly and impenitently tell.
I will be asking Kevin to block you. You have a filthy mind, you are an evil surmise, and you are a liar. And you hate to be quiet, hate to learn, and love to talk. A very defiled combination.
Not even sure you are Arizona. It's likely you could be a Stanton plant. Like the clever Hobbit in Tolkien's classic, you can be using ventriloquism to stir up strife. Of course, Stanton is too cowardly to come on and debate. Instead, they sit, stagnate, and are dominated by their women.
It's not arrogant telling the truth, however, it's plenty arrogant to shamelessly lie. Let the blog judge who is arrogant.
I just love being reproved by blatant and impenitent liars, as they make up stuff to reprove me with. I'm sorry, Arizona, or the Stanton Arizona poseur, this isn't a Stanton church!!! You don't get to come out, hurl nonsense allegations, and get your way. I know Stanton has done this for decades. Vicious serpents in the leadership, who have as much compassion as a rattlesnake. Of course, liars are every bit as vicious, and Arizona is one deluded, reprobate, and implacable fiend. I don't use that term lightly, but after five years of watching his psychobabble and Stanton emulations, the man has a serious case of lunacy. Further, when allowing a person like him to talk, you spread his craziness. Arizona, can you not tell the entire website can see your lies? What are you seeking? Do you get any satisfaction from being exposed as a chief liar?
Never in my life have I had a person who lied, and continued lying. Before the internet we didn't have this problem. Communities learned about liars and we didn't have to worry about them coming on internet blogs, anonymously, as liars are always cowards, and psychologically terrorizing those they hate.
As for being alone, this is a common fallacy of today's world. In today's dysfunctional world its quite healthy being alone. Remember that time Elijah had a party in a cave? Yeah, neither do I, he was alone. Remember when Moses fled from Egypt with his band of men? Yeah, neither do I, he was alone. Remember when Christ was in the wilderness for 40 days with his apostles? Neither do I, he was alone. Remember all the company Jeremiah, Isaiah, and Ezekiel had when they told the truth? Yeah, neither do I, they were alone. But, in your incomprehensible and warped logic, Godliness has something to do with how many people you have around you. No where in the Bible. Maybe study the Monks, like Augustine and others who were some of the greatest minds in church history. You know so little and talk so much. A stubborn and impudent wretch. Never in my life have I met a complete debauched liar like you. You are even worse than AD who ruined the Stanton FB page, at least he didn't pretend to be Christian and quote Bible while lying. He just used profanity and came right out and admitted he was filthy. The worst part about you, is you pretend to be righteous and to care about God, while lying up a storm. You are the very serpent who deceived Eve.
It's a typical Stanton tactic to isolate any who disagree with the teachers, and then say ' they are alone, no one likes them'. Also, it's a Stanton tactic to allege the person they disagree with has no friends and no one likes them. It's a grade school tactic. People were doing this in elementary school. You are a grown man still engaging in elementary school tactics. Stanton fails to comprehend how dysfunctional their church is, and you fail to comprehend how dysfunctional America is, and how debauched you are, as well as how everyone sees you to be a liar. We don't know anything you do off here, and unlike you, we don't evil surmise about you. But, if you are lying on here, there is a good chance you are into serious no good off here.
George Washington recommended having few intimate friends, as admitting many people in your inner circle is hazardous. Very good advice. Lord have mercy on any who have admitted you into their inner circle.
When you find a biblical church within 100 miles of me here in Vallejo, let me know. Until then, I'll be patient and wait on God's providence which always comes around, in His time. You are full of allegations, while masking your own life. I've owned an insurance company, Arizona, have you owned a business before? Doubtful, but besmirching others work ethic when you've none to speak of of your own doesn't seem to bother you. Also, Arizona, I happen to be in a Democrat hellhole, where if you tell the truth people don't care how good you are and how hard a worker, they hate you and will try to destroy you. Try opening your mouth in public, you cowardly wretch. Despicable we have to tolerate wretches like you.
Your method is to come on, spew a few lies and half truths, retreat, don't respond to your ideas being refuted, then come on and do it again. You'll likely have another nonsense half baked post tomorrow morning.
Rebuke and diatribe is necessitated by your nonsense and lies. I wish someone else would do it, but, after five years of reading your lies, I've personally gotten fed up with it. Your kind has to normally be absolutely demolished in public before you retreat. You rarely change. You take pride in your evil.
Then you add your 9th lie, saying I'm not keeping my heart. All the way from Arizona. Well, your lies never end. What lies will you tell us next time, Arizona?
You see, I judge what you write on here, which is full of lies. You sit there in Arizona and fancy you can judge me in California, and then call me the arrogant one?! Incredible!! It appears you need attention, and by lying, just like the kid in school who acts up, you try to get the attention you can't get any other way.
How about this, Arizona? How about you tell the truth? Then you'll get good attention? How about you leave the Democrat party? Then you won't be a mindless, stubborn, and rebellious peon drone anymore, and you'll get attention. How about you study and obey your Bible? Then you'll get God's attention, and you won't be on here trying to get man's attention with your constant lies.
The difference between you and I, is the difference between Stanton and I. You attack the past, and try to permanently silence those who disagree with your half baked ideas. On the other hand, I attack wrong behaviors today, and forgive the past and move on. You are a force of evil, to destroy, like Stanton. I am a force of Good, to destroy the evil today, to create a better tomorrow. We already know how the battle between good and evil ends up. You've already lost.
Anon 5:39
You hit the nail on the head! It's like beating a dead horse. You see the same comments over & over in this blog. His way or the highway..fits the Stanton sec perfectly.
Lastly, Stanton, and the gullible, naïve, and easily manipulated children they often raise, cannot reason. This is just like you Arizona. When confronted with reason, you go running for your Stanton ad-hominems, repeat your media and college brainwashing and are helpless. You are angry, that one person can take out ideas that are so popular. But the truth, facts, and God could care less about feelings, popularity, or what authority figures think.
Many children of Stanton think whether someone is right or not depends on wealth. Others think it has to do with what the media and schools teach. Others think its what Stanton says. Others think the truth can't be isolated. All of these are fairytales and logical fallacies. But, Arizona isn't alone with his wild conjectures. He will likely be back on, a screaming banshee from Stanton, to haunt me with Stanton's unforgivable sins. Arizona and Stanton don't understand forgiveness and mercy, because they live in the hell of unforgiveness. Being incapable of forgiving others, their own sins are unforgiven. They absolutely hate this. They hate that their minor sins of gossip aren't forgiven, while people who have lied, cheated, stolen, committed adultery, looked at porn, were alcoholics, were drug addicts, fornicated, masturbated, committed homosexuality have all been forgiven. You see, Arizona, and Stanton have the worst sin of all. Pride.
Pride thinks avoiding certain sins makes them better than others, and that others can never be good when they do certain sins. I know, because I had this attitude when I was in Stanton. Heaven rejoices when a sinner repents, and Stanton has a fake ceremony to welcome people back when they make their confession from withdrawal, but deep down, Stanton keeps track. Heaven is happier over one sinner who repents, but Stanton and Arizona are not. They need to hold on to these sins, to maintain their superiority over others.
It is not pride to confront people with their public sins, that is love. It's quite hateful to let someone publicly lie and not to correct them. So those on here who don't correct Arizona's constant lies are doing him no favors. Besides, he has had plenty of patience. He's been doing this for 5 years at least. Like most Democrats, he is entitled. He thinks the world owes him something because of the misfortunes of the past. Well, the world doesn't owe any of us anything. We owe the world the dignity of telling the truth. Like most victims, Arizona and Stanton feel they are justified in terrorizing others who call out their faults.
The height of wisdom is to understand our consequences and our worst enemies are our own wrong choices. But, Arizona and Stanton don't recognize this. So Stanton stagnates, and Arizona constantly lies.
Likely, tomorrow morning will bring on a fresh comment with another refusal to correct his lies from Arizona accompanied by false allegations. Or a Stanton representative will come on in another attempt to hijack the conversation and excuse Stanton's dismal doctrines.
It's really too bad Stanton and Arizona don't understand Salvation is available to those who sorrow and change. But, neither one can apologize and admit they do wrong. They are both too proud. Yet, both furiously call everyone else proud. Hard to correct a person who insists everyone else is what they are full of. Blind. King Lear was like this. Until he was old and had both of his eyes plucked out, that is when he finally saw clearly. Will Stanton and Arizona have to be old and blind before they see?
Interesting looking at pride. Merie’s cult I’d hear some call it the “P” word others would substitute a word in place of pride. Is being proud always wrong? Arrogance for sure is. However, people use the word proud in ways that are a positive as well. Not motivated by arrogance at all. Certainly the scriptures are full of the negative towards pride that I understand. For example something I hear concerning a child doing something good. A parent is happy with the achievement, they tell the child I’m proud of you. The cult would condemn that as sin. Little things like that really cult members you call that sin? You’d go to hell for that if you didn’t repent and confess. God knows what you are saying. No arrogance behind using proud in that context.
AnonymousMarch 18, 2019 at 9:05 AM
It fits the truth as well. Objective truth doesn't care about your feelings. If you disagree, show your reasons. If you have none, maybe change your mind?
If I'm mistaken, prove it. If you can't, you may be wrong.
Wisdom can be defined as the ability to create an effect and the wisdom of Christ is the creating of an effect of equality; that is creating what is good for both parties, a win-win outcome. The judgement of mark and avoid seems to be overbearing and even cruel yet when one looks at Cain perhaps the first person to be marked and shunned it was best for both his parents and for Cain. With the shunning of Cain his parents would not have to worry about any of their other children being killed by their wayward son and Cain would be isolated and not able to envy and kill others, both sides were able to live the rest of their lives out in peace having been separated by God's judgment. Narcissist feed off of the reactions of others, it validates them to themselves that they are important. Any type of attention works for the narcissist good or bad. If you react with terror, anger, sympathy, or admiration the narcissist gets their narcissist supply from any reaction you have. The solution to dealing with narcissists is to not react, to be neutral, a gray rock, give no response, to pay no attention, do not regard. With that being said and wanting what is best for all I have to conclude 5he decision to mark and avoid was not abusive but wise and will respect that judgment from now on. I wish all of you well and I say goodbye.
Very interesting commentary on narcissism. Narcissists often lie about others to protect their self image, and they refuse to apologize for their lies.
Learned the story of Narcissus when I was 8, very instructive. In the feelings world of today, it's common for people to call those who disagree with them narcissists. It's a very tired tactic of the modern world.
Cain murdered a man, and would have made an excellent Democrat. He claimed he was serving God, while he did things his own way. He was rejected, just like all Democrats are. Not one Democrat in America has a snowballs chance in hell of going to heaven, unless they repent.
It might work if the person calling others this was telling the truth, but it never works with people with common sense when the accuser is a serial liar.
Personally thought you made a lot of good points, but when you started on the fairy tales of Gary Preman looking at homosexual pornography, that is where we parted ways. I can disagree with Stanton, and still not lie about them, or make things up about them.
What's amazing is you have no idea what my withdrawal was over, or my excommunication, yet you support it without a thought. How are you any different from Stanton? Maybe go back? You seem like a good fit.
Adios, no hard feelings. All you had to so was correct your lies, but no, you had to call me a narcissist for objecting to your lying. Sad.
I dont know if you still come on here Donna but I was a Christian in Des Moines with you and while I also have been a part of subjecting many others to the same thing over the years that you discuss here, you and your husband was always very friendly and considerate of me and I still remember and appreciate that greatly.